I typically avoid threads like this one, because a online forum is not a great venue for human communication, and I can't check this place often enough to be productive in such an active discussion. However, this is a particular topic of interest to me, so I'd like to contribute in some form. Since I'm sure this thread will grow well past my ability to keep up with it, if you have a specific question directed at me, please PM it to me so I can more easily respond.
I'd encourage everyone (especially Neo and Alleya) to
view this video of Timothy Keller speaking at Google as a part of the Authors@Google series last year. Dr. Keller is the author of "The Reason for God" and the pastor at Redeemer Presbyterian Church in Manhattan, New York.
He discusses much of what has been talked about in this thread and covers many of the top "problems" people have with belief in God. This talk is only 1hr long and cannot answer all the questions people will have. Please read the book if you are interested further, it is well written, honest and logical. He tries to keep his lecture to "God in general", not a specific God of a particular religion. As a result, even in the Q&A session, a question that could be addressed from his particular view of Reformed Christianity cannot be answered in terms of "God in general".
One of the trends in this thread has been that religion discourages doubt. I can say that that is false of "Reformed Christians". Doubt is encouraged in my church, because without doubt, no faith can stand up under pressure. Over my teen years and young adulthood I have continually doubted the existence of God, the exclusivity of Christianity, how science and religion can coexist logically, how suffering can exist, and many other theological ideas. It has only been through doubt that a strengthening of my faith exists. My own personal growth over the years is not something that I can present in a single (or multiple) posts, but again, please PM me if you are curious of any of my particular experiences.
Another popular (in my experiences) misconception of "religious people" is that Christians believe that have have a higher moral standing than non-Christians. This is false and quite to the contrary of Christian teaching. One can only become "saved" once they see their need for Jesus Christ. The Gospel of Luke (Luke being a physician) describes it that Jesus came to heal the sick, not the healthy. To put it in other words and borrow a popular cliche, unless you think you are broken, you aren't going to try to be fixed. As such, Christians are broken, messy people who are in no way perfect. The only difference is a Christian acknowledges their continual need of Jesus Christ in order to be justified to God. Every Christian struggles with sin and will never have a higher moral standing than anyone else.
Finally, on a personal note, I'll admit it, the Gospel story of Jesus isn't an easy thing to believe. But it's my belief that God designed it exactly that way for a reason. God doesn't want you to believe in his redemption story of Jesus because you are "smart" and have logically figured it out, because then the glory belongs to you and not Him. I believe that God doesn't want to be "proved to exist" by us. The entire story of the Bible is a story of revealing God's Glory to humanity, which has both happened (in the redemption of sin through Christ) and is still yet to come (God's Kingdom in eternity). As the Westminster Shorter Catechism says in it's opening question:
Q. What is the chief end of man?
A. Man's chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.
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tldr;
Watch the video, read the book, Doubt is ok, Christians suck just as much as everyone else, the Gospel give God Glory, not you.
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