Reading this thread, we often see that anti-blinkers accuse blinkers of being stupid, lazy, illiterate, and even bad at their job. This is an example of what mental health professionals call projection – unconsciously projecting one’s own unacceptable feelings onto other people, so that one doesn’t have to own them. In some cases, the intolerable feelings are projected not onto a person, but onto an inanimate object, such as a Hydra Haubert, so that the projector believes the item itself will make one a bad tank.
Projection is a defense mechanism. Defense mechanisms are unconscious psychological mechanisms that protect us from feelings that we cannot consciously accept. They operate without our awareness, so that we don’t have to deal consciously with “forbidden” feelings and impulses. Thus, if you asked an anti-blinker if they really wanted to blink, he would vehemently deny it, and insist that other people want to make him blink.
Projection is a particularly insidious defense mechanism, because it not only prevents a person from dealing with his own feelings, it also creates a world where he perceives everyone else as directing his own hostile feelings back at him.
All people have lazy, and even lackadaisical, impulses. For example, it’s common to hear people say “It’s easier to not blink”, or “If you blink any more I’m not going to heal you.” They don’t actually mean that they’re going to, or even would, stop healing anyone; they’re simply acknowledging anger and frustration. All of us suffer from fear and feelings of helplessness and vulnerability. Most people can acknowledge feelings of rage, fear, frustration, jealousy, etc. without having to act on them in inappropriate and destructive ways, such as not blinking.
Some people, however, are unable consciously to admit that they have such “unacceptable” emotions. They may have higher than average levels of laziness and sloth, or fear of blinking. Perhaps they fear that if they acknowledge their desire to blink, they will lose control and carry 70/70 inventory items. They may believe that “good people” never have such desires to blink, when in fact all people have them.
This is especially true now that FFXI “experts” commonly prohibit tanks from blinking. Instead of learning that such gearswaps are normal, and that laziness needs to be curtailed, children now learn that blinking is evil, dangerous and subject to severe punishment, such as your HP reaching zero. To protect themselves from “not being healed”, they are forced to use defense mechanisms to avoid blinking. Unfortunately, using such defense mechanisms inappropriately can endanger their mental health; tanks need to learn how to deal appropriately with the reality of blinking, not how to avoid it.
Another defense mechanism commonly utilized by opponents of blinking is denial. Denial is simply refusing to accept the reality of a given situation. For example, consider a paladin who idles in enmity gear. She may get extremely angry at a well-meaning friend who suggests that there are other, better stats, to idle in. The reality is obvious, but the enmity-idle paladin is so threatened by her mistake that she is unable to accept it, and so denies its existence.
Anti-blink people do this all the time. It’s obvious that we play a game that requires gearswaps, where sidegrades and situational gear is added in every update. Just about everyone has, or knows someone who has, situational gear. It’s equally obvious that without using this gear, you can’t perform to your full potential. Extensive scholarly research demonstrates that mages can learn to target properly and that blinking is the most effective way to cast spells such as Flash, Utsusemi, and also spam Atonement. There is irrefutable evidence that refusing to blink nearly always precedes losing HP and wiping to Bubbly Bernie. Nonetheless, the anti-blink folks insist, despite all evidence to the contrary, that “they are just as efficient and definitely not on the sidelines”, “I probably keep hate better than you do” and “I don't look like an idiot while doing it”, where “it” is everything from tanking a single mob to kiting twenty monsters.
Anti-blink people who refuse to accept the reality of the proven and very serious dangers of keeping all visible gear the same are using denial to protect themselves from the anxiety of feeling helpless and vulnerable.
Reaction formation is yet another defense mechanism common among the anti-blink folks. Reaction formation occurs when a person’s mind turns an unacceptable feeling or desire into its complete opposite. For example, a tank who is jealous of a more powerful tank sibling may exhibit a desire to learn from the hated paladin.
Likewise, a person who is being an idiot and not blinking may claim to be a devoted paladin and an expert on all manner of tanking. Often such people take refuge in various spurious rhetorical trends and believe that they are “superior” to “less civilized” folks who engage in “problematic behavior” such as blinking gearswaps. They may devote themselves to “proving” that blinking is not efficient. This not only allows the anti-blinker person to avoid dealing with his shortcomings, it allows him actually to harm the tanks he hates without having to acknowledge he hates them.
Contrast the sincere newbie or mage-only player with the strident, angry person who wants to ban blinking and believes tanks have the obligation to not blink for the good of healers who don’t know how to type in <p#> or <a##>. The truly uninformed, newbie player refrains from forcing others to do what he believes, and is generally driven by a desire to improve, while the angry anti-blinker spews harmful rhetoric and ignores all evidence which shows their opinions wrong.
In the case of anti-blink people, reaction formation keeps any knowledge of their hatred for their fellow tanks out of consciousness, while allowing them to feel superior to “idiot blinking paladins”. At the same time, it also allows them to cause serious harm, and even loss of HP, to other tanks by denying them the tools (blinking) necessary to tank well. This makes reaction formation very attractive from a psychological point of view, and therefore very difficult to counteract.