Sorry if this is the wrong place to post it, I figure it is the most likely to get read here, and people may want to know incase they have a similar issue occur (if not, I'm sure a mod can move it).
Anyway, we did a Zhayolm run today, and after fully unlocking 3 people, the 5fN madame did not pop. We tried everyone relogging, etc, nothing worked. Then we petitioned a GM and sat around for 30ish minutes waiting. After finally getting a response, the GM looked into it, and apparently saw in the logs/our characters, that we had indeed fully unlocked 3 people, and popped the frog in front of us. Barely had enough time remaining, but managed to kill both 5fN and 6f in time (no drops of course).
So yea, GMs can actually help out at times, and if anyone else has something like this occur, it is probably worth your time to petition a GM and wait for a response.
http://www.risen-guild.com/images/fail/zhayolm1.jpg
http://www.risen-guild.com/images/fail/zhayolm2.jpg
Finally, my personal "guess" as to what may have bugged the zone, is right after our final person full unlocked while standing in 5f madame's room, another person used a stat cell. My best guess is whatever script that was checking for the unlock/popping the frog was interrupted by the other cell being used. Pretty flimsy, and I have no proof to back that, but I figured I'd post the only thing out of the ordinary I saw, incase others have seen it happen and can confirm/deny that happened in their run as well.
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