Anorgasmia.

[SteveMc]

Copied from Wiki for a quick explanation.
Anorgasmia (often related to delayed ejaculation in males) is a form of sexual dysfunction sometimes classified as a psychiatric disorder in which the patient cannot achieve orgasm, even with "adequate" stimulation.

I have recently found myself with this problem and it has become very frustrating for me and my girl, often leaving me or her in pain from prolonged sex.
Apparently it is quite common, So I was wondering if any of you guys have had the same problem and how you over came it.
I was gonna talk to my friends about this but have been too embarrassed so I came to BG

Edit: I do not take any drugs of any kind, I am under no stress what so ever but I do binge drink alittle.

[Takedown3]

i have the opposite problem

[Ramor]

maybe stop binge drinking

[Gunitsoldier]

i have the opposite problem

Me too

[SephYuyX]

A) See a doc.
or
B) Dont have sex or jerk it for a month, and then try.

[SteveMc]

I have drank like this for years, and it doesn't happen when I masturbate ; ;

[Pringles]

Stop drinking and stop watching porn and jacking it. Same thing happened to my roommate, watched porn every night and eventually it got to the point he could only ejaculate when he was watching porn and pleasing himself.

It however was hilarious at 1am one time while I was in a boring exp party to hear him saying to a girl, "I don't know why I can't cum!" after like an hour of straight sex. I still make fun of him for that this day. Shit was hysterical. Hearing him open up to me about his problem was not quite as hilarious or hysterical and I had a very hard time trying to keep a straight face and being compassionate.

[SteveMc]

As of recently I have only been jacking it while she slept as I felt blue balled, And lmao sooo not telling my friends.

[isladar]

Just the whole internet.

[hagun]

Stop jacking off.

[Darunia]

Just the whole internet.

Gotta admit i've seen people get ripped to shreds on here for alot lesser ailments, this thread is just going to become a pool of sexual inuendo mainly revolving around premature ejaculation puns, i would escape now, try celibacy for a few weeks and see how it goes.

[Ramor]

we already had a thread like this, the answer was to stop whackin' it for a for weeks to a month or so because you're doin' it wrong

[Penthesilea]

Have her stick her finger up your butthole and massage your prostate.

[Stee]

lol...isn't this what happens when you deathgrip your penis?

First of all, is it a problem when you masturbate or is it only when you have sex with your girl?

If it's only a problem with your girl then it's because your gripping your dick too tightly when you masterbate, your dick is too use to being gripped it can't operate the right way.....and your doing too much too tightly.

Like people said, don't do shit for at least a week, then see if it works, stop gripping it so damn hard and ALWAYS use lube.

[Pringles]

I asked my roommate what he did to get over it. He told me he bought one of those fleshlight things to recondition his body to get used to something other than his hand to get off with. Said it took him a little over a month to get back into normality with it. He told me to recommend you not jerk it anymore and stick to just sex when you wanna get off. He says he still gets it from time to time though on days he been drinking.

Also yes, don't tell your friends in IRL. After he told me, I did the only respectable friend thing I could do and told all our mutual friends. Many laughs on his behalf came from it. I know it's not funny for you, but to outsiders it's fucking hilarious. Nothing is funnier than hearing his gf through the thin apartment walls yelling at him to finish up cause she wants to sleep already.

Hope the best for you.

[Headspace]

http://www.bluegartr.com/forum/74204...ncentrate.html

Concentrate harder

[Stee]

Lube up or pull up kids

[Olo401]

You have whiskey dick.. stop drinkin so damn much!

[0ni0n]

OP's problem would be straightly desirable among the male population.

[EternityEnd]

This is almost always a psychological problem. You say you aren't stressed at all. Are you nervous about something? Conflicted about being with this girl? Have you ever orgasmed during sex?