Anorgasmia.

[Talus]

Are you on anti-depressants?

[Vandole]

i had a bit of the same problem.


Stop jerkin it.

[Kyten]

many would consider you lucky i bet

[Melchiah]

I have recently found myself with this problem and it has become very frustrating for me and my girl, often leaving me or her in pain from prolonged sex.
Apparently it is quite common, So I was wondering if any of you guys have had the same problem and how you over came it.
I was gonna talk to my friends about this but have been too embarrassed so I came to BG

How did this little gem slip through without being caught already?

[Viq]

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[Woozie]

Are you on anti-depressants?

This is what I was about to ask. SSRIs lead to delayed ejaculation. If you're on anti depressants, this could be the problem. Other than that, it's likely excessive masturbation or the alcohol. But don't tell her that. Tell her she's not hot enough. Then she'll get a boob job and start dressing all sexy for you and making you dinner every night and even doing those slutty things she wouldn't do for you before because she feels insecure.

[SteveMc]

This is almost always a psychological problem. You say you aren't stressed at all. Are you nervous about something? Conflicted about being with this girl? Have you ever orgasmed during sex?

I'm not on any medication of any kind, I'm not under any stress at all, life is good atm etc.
Not nervous with her if that's what you mean, and I have been in a relationship with her for about 1 month, She is the only girl I have had this problem with, I wouldn't say I have been masturbating alot, More like once maybe twice a week, I have had an orgasm with her, but the times I have are outweighed by the times I just gave up, She is alittle self conscious and thought it might be her fault, which is why I started to research it.
I will defiantly knock the drinking on the head for awhile and see if it fixes it.

And to everyone saying this would be a good thing, it isn't, it is very fucking frustrating and slightly painful for both people.

[Pringles]

It could also be brand of condom or style of condom too. I know first time I ever had sex I used a non lubricated condom (had no idea at the time lube was needed on both ends with condoms) and had a bitch of a time trying to get off. Also threw her off the second time after I changed brands and she was like "how come the first time we had sex you lasted over and hour and this time it lasted 11 minutes?".

[Headspace]

It could also be brand of condom or style of condom too. I know first time I ever had sex I used a non lubricated condom (had no idea at the time lube was needed on both ends with condoms) and had a bitch of a time trying to get off. Also threw her off the second time after I changed brands and she was like "how come the first time we had sex you lasted over and hour and this time it lasted 11 minutes?".

She should quit being greedy. 11 minutes is a marathon.

[Kiro]

I guess I have this. I'm not gonna complain though, it's awesome. Females complain when they gotta give me head though, poor jaws.

[Skjie]

Obviously you are no longer attracted to women.

[Azkarin2]

It could also be brand of condom or style of condom too. I know first time I ever had sex I used a non lubricated condom (had no idea at the time lube was needed on both ends with condoms) and had a bitch of a time trying to get off. Also threw her off the second time after I changed brands and she was like "how come the first time we had sex you lasted over and hour and this time it lasted 11 minutes?".

First time I had sex I bought the numbing sensation condoms thinking I'd finish 30 seconds in. Well after a few minutes of having sex I told her I couldn't feel anything. So we stopped, took off the condom, and then she went down on me. After about a minute she looks up at me and mutters "I can'b feer meh libs" (I can't feel my lips). I immediately through out that box of condoms. My dick was numb for 30 minutes... guess they worked too well.

[archibaldcrane]

I guess I have this. I'm not gonna complain though, it's awesome. Females complain when they gotta give me head though, poor jaws.

Pretty much this. I love making women come, especially via fucking, but after getting my fill of them getting their fill, I just have to really focus and get my mind right and I can usually get off.

I like getting head, but rarely do I find a woman with the fortitude and the bravery to complete the job.

[Vandole]

as long as you get off in the end, your girlfriend will love you for it.

havent you ever like, dropped your girlfriend off... then like 15 mins later get a text going "..oh my god... im weak in the knees.. tonight was so good."

it makes "anorgasmia" so worth it. even though i have to do the same thing archibald does :/

[archibaldcrane]

havent you ever like, dropped your girlfriend off... then like 15 mins later get a text going "..oh my god... im weak in the knees.. tonight was so good."

I love that text. "My legs are shaking, it was so hard to drive home."

[Vandole]

I love that text. "My legs are shaking, it was so hard to drive home."

*anorgasmia high five*

[Takedown3]

one disease i wish i had? contagious?

[Skjie]

Only one way to find out.

[Sythe]

Rubbing cocks to spread it? No but ive been hearin so many fucked up penis stories im glad i dont suffer from any of this weird shit

[altwight]

The answer is obvious. Have her tease you a fuck load but deny you sex for like an entire day (it shouldn't take weeks to a month) Then have her tease you once more to the point where you wanna do her realllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll lllllllllll good and then doit.