Condom/No Condom

[kuronosan]

How do they make her body go nuts? I like my pills they don't really have any side effects except for making my skin clearer.

Does it really matter? It's her preference and I won't force her to do otherwise just to have more enjoyable sex before we're married. The sex is already great.

I believe her words were severe cramps and she has a condition where she has been hospitalized a few times for excessive bleeding.

I'm not going to risk putting her in the hospital just so I can bust a nut between her legs without a condom.

[Lbelle]

Question: how you convince your girl to pop those pills?

My woman doesnt wanna take em, but havent given me good reason

Tell her you won't fuck her unless she takes them.

[Tyche]

I know I'm not the shining beacon of great advice on not having children, but both my babies were planned. I have a really difficult time believing that pre-nut has a 30% chance of getting a girl pregnant. My wife and I employed the "pull out" method for years. No condom, no BC. I'm sure there was pre-skeet diving in there everytime, yet the only two times that she got pregnant were the two times that we tried to have a baby. Hell, even with just busting it all up inside her with no BC at all, it still took a couple of cycles before she got pregnant the second time. THe first time was rather quickly, as she had just had a DNC and apparently that raised the chances significantly.

[volcanicweather]

Raw, myself and current lady both agree condoms are terrible. She's on birth control and I trust her to take her pill and tell me if she missed a day.

However, with this said, I always have the conversation with the girl about what to do if she gets pregnant. I think it's a very intelligent thing to do and most girls agree. I'm at a point in my life where I'm not ready to have children (only 24) so if she says "I want to keep it" I'm not putting my dick anywhere near that. There's plenty of vaginas out there (some would say too many...), so there's no reason to play with fire and potentially mess up your life plan.

Seriously though, I know too many guys who are afraid to have "the talk", but I figure any girl worth a damn should be open enough to discuss it without getting pissed off.

If you're having sex with someone and you haven't had "the talk", sit down and have it. It's just stupid not to, unless you like the idea of surprise pregnancies and the possibility of this man/woman being a part of your life forever.

[Ragnell]

Say your condom broke and freak her out into using pills.

Funny enough, She got revenge on me by saying she was late recently since i was fucking with her and told her mother we're going out and ect ect, appearly she wants to tell her someother time. Scared me shitless

Tell her you won't fuck her unless she takes them.

Hmm...Good point..but thats gonna be extremely hard for me..

[Mizango]

Married, no need. Hadn't used one in about 10 years or so.

With that said, if you have to use a condom to last longer then I feel bad for you son. Learn to breath and work on your self control.

[Dantrag]

Just take care of yourself until she sees the light!

[Ragnell]

Just take care of yourself until she sees the light!

Thats harder said when the pussy is waving right infront your face

[Dantrag]

Gotta do it before there's the chance for it to be waving in your face!

[kuronosan]

I know I'm not the shining beacon of great advice on not having children, but both my babies were planned. I have a really difficult time believing that pre-nut has a 30% chance of getting a girl pregnant. My wife and I employed the "pull out" method for years. No condom, no BC. I'm sure there was pre-skeet diving in there everytime, yet the only two times that she got pregnant were the two times that we tried to have a baby. Hell, even with just busting it all up inside her with no BC at all, it still took a couple of cycles before she got pregnant the second time. THe first time was rather quickly, as she had just had a DNC and apparently that raised the chances significantly.

Tyche, I respect you simply because you always have something thoughtful and intelligent to say.

Come on, tell me I'm misunderstanding. Tell me that you don't seriously think that the pull-out method is totally safe. My stepsister got pregnant by her worthless boyfriend because of that. I hope there was something more to your results than just "we got lucky". Did you measure ovulation periods? Did you have sex on certain days only?

[Mizango]

Just take care of yourself until she sees the light!

Nah dawg, see that's the worst advice ever. She can find another dick to hop on in no time flat while you're left at home beating your shit off because your trying to be some sort of patriot or some shit.

[Tyche]

Married, no need. Hadn't used one in about 10 years or so.

With that said, if you have to use a condom to last longer then I feel bad for you son. Learn to breath and work on your self control.

fuck that. I don't know if I've had sex lasting any longer than 10 minutes in the past 5 years. As neo said, I finish first, I win. how people can continue to go and go and go for 30, 45, or even an hour+ is beyond me.

[volcanicweather]

Hmm...Good point..but thats gonna be extremely hard for me..

Tell her you only want bj's until she goes on the pill

[Lbelle]

Unless she has negative side effects like Kurosan's girlfriend does, then there is really no reason for her NOT to take them if she doesn't want to get pregnant. They're really small, so even for people that have issues taking pills it's not a problem, and they can have other good side effects too. The only "annoying" thing is you have to take them everyday around the same time for them to be the most effective. I just set my phone alarm and it reminds that it's that time.

Just be straight up and tell her why you want her to use them and then explain that she can use pills and there are also other methods she can use too, like that ring they put in you to make sure you don't have kids, or the shot, or whatever else.

Also my insurance pays for my pills so they're free or only $5 which is also a nice perk.

[Ragnell]

Gotta do it before there's the chance for it to be waving in your face!

Hmm, I'll try but rubbing one out doesnt help most of the time...

I'll try to play a game, she hates when I pay more attention when I game

[Azalee]

Thats harder said when the pussy is waving right infront your face

There are other benefits than just the no babies part. Most birth controls clear up skin and reduce acne breakouts for girls who have issues with that. The main reason I started taking mine was for control of my period. Depending on when I start/stop taking pills I can have no period, a period that lasts only 3-4 days, or a full cycle. It also makes said periods much lighter. I know a guy who calls birth control pills miracle pills, because they can stop the crimson flow. =) That itself makes it worth it in my mind. Planning a trip to Vegas? No problem, just keep taking the pills and have a planned period when you get home.

[volcanicweather]

fuck that. I don't know if I've had sex lasting any longer than 10 minutes in the past 5 years. As neo said, I finish first, I win. how people can continue to go and go and go for 30, 45, or even an hour+ is beyond me.

This. Some night I'm just tired and want to finish the job, although we usually max out at 20-30 minutes. Over an hour is just ridiculous.

[Hosom]

No thanks. I'm not about to have a baby and pump my kids full of hormones just because I want sex to feel better. People going on birth control should be using it because they want to avoid pregnancies, not because they want to feel better when they fuck.

The use of oral contraceptives (birth control pills) for five years or more decreases the risk of ovarian cancer in later life by 50%.[81]

Combined oral contraceptive use reduces the risk of ovarian cancer by 40% and the risk of endometrial cancer by 50% compared to never users. The risk reduction increases with duration of use, with an 80% reduction in risk for both ovarian and endometrial cancer with use for more than 10 years. The risk reduction for both ovarian and endometrial cancer persists for at least 20 years.[19]

Taking oral contraceptives also reduces the risk of colorectal cancer, and improves conditions such as pelvic inflammatory disease, dysmenorrhea, premenstrual syndrome, and acne.[82]

Not for any of these reasons, amirite?

[Dantrag]

Nah dawg, see that's the worst advice ever. She can find another dick to hop on in no time flat while you're left at home beating your shit off because your trying to be some sort of patriot or some shit.

Yeah, If you have someone that's going to cheat on you then you probably don't want to be with them anyways. And not to mention NOT using a condom...

[Dantrag]

fuck that. I don't know if I've had sex lasting any longer than 10 minutes in the past 5 years. As neo said, I finish first, I win. how people can continue to go and go and go for 30, 45, or even an hour+ is beyond me.

Lol, for me sex beyond 30min gets boring... that's just me though. I prefer get in get us both done and move on.