Keyloggers

[Lee]

Like the others have said, pics with logs when you are done with the investigation would be great.

[Azalee]

If you feel like you need to use a keylogger then you need to break up with her now.

[Elites]

I gladly would, after making her feel guilty or atleast figuring out who the asshole is!

[Tyche]

Azalee is a girl, and girls cannot be trusted. You have to keylog her and post the logs.

[Azalee]

No, I am just a firm believer that if you can't trust your significant other then you need to gtfo of the relationship lol.

[Mici]

I say don't do it, you think its a good idea now, but if you find nothing and tell her about it, shit gets crazy.
I am telling this from experience, thinking back on it now and going behind her back with it was probably one of the dumbest things I have done in our relationship, and I feel embarrassed about it when ever it gets mentioned now.
Simple point, do not do it, it fucks things up bad, once you start doing shit like that you start doing other shit and will never find a limit until there is a big blow up about it.

But if you disregard this and use it, then find out she is, I agree with the postings of logs and pics.

[Furtwangler]

If you find stuff, tell her, argue about it etc, if you find nothing, don't tell her, move on with life. Post pics/logs either way.

[jimbobsonofgod]

Regardless if she is cheating or not. By all means

Please


Post pics

On a side note whether she is actively cheating/ on her way to cheating/ or isn't ever going to cheat.

She is currently not being truthful and fully open with you and you obviously can not trust her.

That speaks volumes for your relationship. At this point. Even if you would want to salvage it, it is probably broken beyond your repair.

[Izzy]

Not gonna read the rest of this but, to the guy that said, "Oh, just talk to her about it."

It doesn't work, if she wanted to talk to you about it, she woulda told you already. Ex did the same thing to me and I only caught her after keylogging and confronting her about it. I asked her multiple times before it and she denied.

Good luck to you, just break up with her if you're already suspecting it. Odds are, you're right.

[Izzy]

You have to keylog her and post the logs.

This too.

[Odon]

There is tons of free parental programs to keep track of what kids are doing, search for them. I used to use them to key log the sys admin's passwords way back in highschool.

[Shuvo]

Doesn't AIM have an add-on that saves message history? I'd try that route myself. =P

[Ddz]

If your intuition is telling you she's got some shit going on, odds are you're right.

[archibaldcrane]

Keylogging is a great idea until you find the logs that say:

God my faggot boyfriend has such a small cock, he has no idea what he's doing - thank god you're here to fill me up and fuck me straight. I swear to god I hope he gets our HIV.

[Mici]

That would suck for him yes, but if he follows procedure and posts the logs here... I just might piss myself if its anything close to that.

[OzzofAsura]

What if she's quicker than you and is keylogging this???

[Cjskater]

She could just be planning a surprise birthday party!

[Pikarya]

She could just be planning a surprise fuckfest, without you!

fixed

[Kerberoz]

Fuck with her head, then dump her. After you post logs and pics, of course.

[Blabj]

What if she's quicker than you and is keylogging this???

brix



I'm gonna go with talking to her rather than keylogging her and having your only option be to dump her. If she's talking to guys, it might be bad, but it's not the end of the world. Maybe even asks what she talks to them about, and then do the same. Not to sound too harsh, but she's probably doing it because they offer her things that you don't.

I think situation is still salvagable, but not if you keylog her. *2cents*