Keyloggers

**thetruepandagod** · 2009-05-18 04:39

If you feel like you have to use a keylogger then that means you cant trust her. If you can't trust her then why even stay with her? I'll never understand how people can let shitty as fuck relationships continue when they themselves know it should end. You are pathetic and there is 0 reason to use a keylogger except to possibly make a hilarious drama arise from your failure of a relationship.

**Alvinho** · 2009-05-18 04:49

He needs the keylogger. For closure.

**hagun** · 2009-05-18 06:35

Let the girl have a little fun. So you can have yours too. Why not? You are already keylogging her. Trust has ended. That means the relationship is mentally over i.e. it's dead and gone. So might as well play it cool and get back rationally. Cheating: never fails to spice up a relationship.

**Khamsin** · 2009-05-18 06:36

He doesn't trust her now, but if his paranoia is settled, that doesn't mean he can't trust her later.

After an evaluation of possible scenarios and outcomes, I say keylog.

Consider:

She's cheating and you confront her: You caught her and can break up with her knowing you did the right thing.

She's cheating and you don't confront her: She doesn't care about you, and you'll never know you're being used.

She's not cheating and you confront: Turns out you could trust her after all and she really was into you, but you just made yourself look like an ass and jeopardized the relationship.

She's not cheating and you don't confront: You really can trust her, but you don't know that, so you're still paranoid.

Now, the only way anything good can come of this is if you know for sure whether she's cheating or not. Last thing you want to do is alienate someone who may really like you and trust you, and it would break her heart to learn you don't trust her. If you keylog and find out she isn't cheating, then you can keep the relationship and know that you can, in fact, trust her from now on.

Likewise, if you find out she's cheating, you can be confident in breaking up with her and come out on top. You kicked her out with good reason, and that's important for both closure and ego.

A tip, though: If you catch her cheating, talk to her (without mentioning the logging or the cheating) and ask how she feels about your relationship. If she says she likes you and wants to continue, then ask if she's being faithful and that you've had a feeling lately that she may have been cheating. If she denies it, and answers any other questions you may have with lies, then (and only then) proceed to tell her how you know. Don't just open up out of nowhere with "Hey, so you're cheating on me?! I logged your chats!"

**Brill Weave** · 2009-05-18 06:45

Break up with her. Regardless if you think she's cheating or not in your head she already is. You don't trust her. End the relationship because it's just going to get worse as your own insecurities and suspicions start bleeding into the relationship.

**Elites** · 2009-05-18 06:54

I basically thought of this whole situation like Kham had earlier mentioned, it is paranoid to continue or not continue without knowing the whole truth. Could be a big situation for nothing or it could be. There's only one way to find out, and do not worry the logs and pics will come up after I'm done for your sick minds.

**MrW** · 2009-05-18 07:00

Save bandwidth. Get a new chick. If she's lying to you about petty things like going to the doctor by herself its time to go.

**Dimmauk** · 2009-05-18 07:06

Originally Posted by Tyche

Azalee is a girl, and girls cannot be trusted. You have to keylog her and post the logs.

This! Hoes before Bros. I say keylogger her or have someone you know or trust follow her. Girls are the best lairs in the world. Even if you did confront her, she would just lie to you.

**Lurking Badger** · 2009-05-18 07:23

Waiting in anticipation.

**Khamsin** · 2009-05-18 07:31

The whole "You can't trust her, it's over whether she's cheating or not" thing is basically telling him he can't have his cake and eat it, too... when he can!

Whether or not he wants her is up to him to decide. If he wants her when he can't trust her (yet), that's his decision to make.

If she isn't cheating, and really does want him, then the ball is in his court. He can decide to break up with her because of some emotional mindfuck reason like "he can't trust her, even though she's faithful"... or he can decide to stay with her because she wasn't really cheating, and might start trusting her more now.

**Azalee** · 2009-05-18 08:48

Even if she ISN'T cheating, somewhere down the road the same situation might occur and he is going to think back to this time. Once you lose that trust it is more or less gone.

**Day** · 2009-05-18 08:55

He's already lost his trust, regardless if she's done anything or not.

He can try to ignore this and act like nothing is up, but he knows some shit is sketchy.

Fucking keylog it. If she's doing know wrong then you'll just feel silly, but if she is at least you'll know.

I'd rather be with someone that cared enough to keylog my PC.

**Dimmauk** · 2009-05-18 08:59

Some people will never ever fully trust anyone. Funny, its usually someone that HAS cheated on someone in the past.

**MysteryMithra** · 2009-05-18 09:03

1) Keylog it.
2) Find out she's seeing a man named Antonio. (Antonio has a six pack and drives a Prius. He also likes roller disco and swimming)
3) You follow her to Antonio's house and trade your girlfriend for his 360.
4) We play some CoD4 Hardcore Team deathmatch while he bangs the life out of your Ex-Girlfriend. Everybody wins.

**Day** · 2009-05-18 09:04

Except the loser of CoD4 =(

**Avryll** · 2009-05-18 09:10

I'd keylog her. My friend keylog his gf a few months back and found out she was flirting with some guy...it made for quite a good laugh.

Ive never keylogged a boyfriend before but im sure if i thought something was up I would do it too. Just to clear my mind. If she isnt cheating then yay at least you know and she'll never know you did it (unless you tell her). If she is cheating I would talk to her first if she denies it then pull out the logger and let her know...it always fun to see a cheater caught in a lie...lol

**Royal** · 2009-05-18 09:17

I say keylog her since I want to see what shes saying.

**Fhqwghads** · 2009-05-18 09:22

I have nothing useful to add, just +1 the idea of posting logs and pix.

DO EEET

**Brill Weave** · 2009-05-18 09:32

brb keylogging Day. Soon my peach, we will be together.

**Mizango** · 2009-05-18 09:32

You guys are acting like someone that is cheating on you is just going to admit it the first time they are asked. You guys are fucking noobs. Don't you know that everyone is entitled to have their cake and eat it too? She could be getting an all bills paid free ride and just wanting an extra dick or two on the side, why would she want to fuck that up by saying "Yes, I am cheating on you why?". If people told the truth shows like cheaters would not exists.

Keylog that bitch, if she has nothing to hide and everything is good then get rid of it after a week. If she is sayonara bitch. There is no harm in checking oh and don't ever listen to a bitch for cheating advice. They will always say leave noaw. They don't think rationally, they think everything is like a fucking Matthew McConaughey or some shit.

Think with your head, not with emotions. Do it and post the lulz.

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