The Recent Break Up Club

[Omnipotent]

Ha! I hope not, it's a shitty situation. Is she Asian and going to grad school in St Louis in the fall? Maybe we've identified the problem.

Negative, white chick who loves the color pink more than the air she breathes. Also gives into peer pressure very easily and doesn't think before she takes action on most things.

[Ivve]

Without getting too disgusting, let's just say enemas are not necessarily a free ass pass. The inexperienced should beware.

[archibaldcrane]

Meh, never had a girl do the enema thing and I'm 4 for 5 on clean. YMMV I guess.

[Despain]

@anal sex and the poop...

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I've had my share of experience, ESPECIALLY foreign chicks. I'm a guy, and I'm really not fond of anal sex for this exact reason. Also, a lot of chicks don't bother to... shave near their bumbum, and some chicks I've encountered were so hairy that my dick went from erect to flaccid in a matter of seconds. I wish I were making this up.

Thought I'd spoiler because that little story is very NSFW

[Omnipotent]

Need a diagnosis/Analysis BG. Long story, sorry.

Current GF. I am 20, she is 19.

Downfalls: Dropped out of H.S. Never had nurturing family / Mom figure. Has shitty friends, and a best friend who get her into trouble non stop. I.E: Drug(s) ( just ecstasy that I know of), to much drinking, fights, stupid shit at clubs. Has massive CC debt, car debt and cell phone debt, credit is smashed. In a dead end job, and isn't smart enough to pass her math section for her GED. Gives into peer pressure VERY easily, definitely willing to learn from mistakes, even though she knows the mistakes she is about to take, has no good outcome. When I am not with her, I am constantly worried about her. I feel like I need to be there to hold her hand so she doesn't do anything stupid.

Goodside. Smoking hot, blond hair, perfect toned body and perfect proportions. Best sex I have ever had, hates the things I hate, and loves the things I love in bed and out. When I am with her, time stops, nothing is better and we connect better than (insert lame metaphor here). My family loves her, relatives included. She lives very close, and is VERY romantic. I love her. I am and I say this with the utmost cockiness, the best bf she has ever had. I treat her with respect, I make her laugh and I am VERY responsible. I am very trustworthy, and literally haven't even shaken a girls hand in the 6 months with her. I am the only man in her 7-8 bf's to actually make her cum/orgasm, (which before we had sex the first time, she told me something was wrong and couldn't do anything like that, which I proved wrong obviously). Her family loves me, and her sister's kids actually trust me already to be alone with the kids no older than 2 years for hours.

My story:

Met her about 6 months ago at my old job working at a restaurant. After about a month working together I finally decided to ask to hang out. Typical hang out situation/gatherings up until week 3 from asking her to hang we had sex. Asked her out on valentines day 1 month after we started hanging, now the story starts:
The first week of us going out she decided to go clubbing with her friends and best friend who I have yet to meet, I agree. Comes back the next day with a hickey. I asked her where she got it from, said it was from her best friend, they both got drunk and made out / hickey. Didn't believe it at all and finally got her to admit it was her X-bf. Unfortunately for me, I am a very forgiving person, and I let it slide, almost letting her have 1 strike in the back of my head. Everything is going now well besides an annoying problem she has; Anger management. She has a tendency to blow up VERY easily, and gets mad at me. i.e. She says we can't hang out Friday, so I make plans with a friend or two. She then tells me her friends canceled so we can hang, but I told her I can't. She will then in-turn get very upset, and not talk to me rest of night.
About a month into our relationship, she tells me she is going to a party at guess who, her best friend's house, if I didn't make it clear before, she is a girl incase anyone thought her best friend was a guy. Around 12 she calls to say goodnight, I noticed she was drunk and she admitted she was drunk, so I told her bestfriend to take her keys and she said she did. We said goodnight and I went to bed. 3AM rolls by and I get a call on the cell from my gf sobbing and crying saying she crashed her car driving home. In shock/fear I rush to where she crashed luckily 7 mins away from my house. She crashed into a ditch about 30 yards from her house, I took her to her house, put her to bed and managed to get her car out and park it in her driveway, unscathed. Go up to her room to see if she's ok and she is awake begging me to not break up with her, to weak to even move. I tell her everything is going to be ok, stay with her for about 30 mins till she falls asleep and go home. Next morning we have a talk, everything is ok, that is a strike 2 in the back of my head.
Around the same time, her ex-bf kept calling her, threatening to rape her and tell her dad that they had an abortion a year back ( which they did ), this is a bad thing because she kept this from her family. She tells me this, and I called him right away and got the typical response of a deuce bag with no balls but a big mouth. A day later, and 32 missed calls from her X, I take her to the police station and get a restraining order against him, that settles that.
The relationship is going well, I would say we argue commonly, but she is going to therapy and is trying her best to not. School is out now and another problem arises. She apparently has a ton of guy friends, the ratio of her 15ish friends? 80% guys. Now that they are all back from school and some are coming back from Army. She is getting alot of calls from "Just guy friends". She claims to have known them for 7-8 years, and promises they are nothing but friends. I can be jealous, but I let her see some of them under one condition; I meet them face to face and assure them she, (without sounding like a dick or a controlling fuck), she is mine and you will remain strictly friends and will not touch her. This kept going on for about a month, had a select group of guys, trusted them were ok. Well, after a huge fight over something I can't even remember, we break up out first time. Three days later we fix it and are back together. Now, from her select group of guys, I notice that it has gotten bigger by 3-4 new guys. I tell her she can only see the select few, and she agrees. Now here comes the biggest problem we face yet:
Dave Mattews band came near us last week. She didn't plan on going to the concert, but just wanted to go tailgate. Normally I woulda gone, but I had plans with my cousin to go see a college with him. She goes with the select group of guys and her best friend. Around 7PM, she texts me saying she loves me, I am everything. I said the responce of love you too, I know baby yadda yadda. Around 11PM she calls me to say goodnight, saying she was drunk and she was going to bed. I knew she wasn't drunk by the way she was talking, but said ok. Next morning after I went to her house to see her, I asked her if she took any drugs. Before telling me she started crying saying yet again, don't break up with me, I love you, please. After that she tells me she took perks, I laughed and told her bullshit, thats nothing to cry and whimper about, after about two more lies, she finally admitted she took ecstasy. I was extremely pissed, because I am a HUGE believer in no drugs, no smoking. I asked if anything else happened, and she said no. Two days later I get a call from her saying don't beleive anything you hear. To sum this up rather quickly, a bunch of H.S drama shit happened, I heard from people she did something with someone, I confronted her and she said she had sex with her best friends brother. This pissed me off and caused our second break up, which is currently going on now. She leaves work and comes to my house BEGGING me to stay with her, her life is nothing without me. The thing is, which is hilarious that I think this is the worst, the guy she fucked is the exact opposite of what she likes. She likes kids like me, abercrombie and fitch model style guy who has a nice body and can make her laugh. She fucked a gothic, chain wearing hair over face tight jeaned kid. (no offense to anyone). She said she was fucked up, and tried to say cover it up saying that even with ecstasy I was better in bed, I am the best you name it she was throwing it at me. Here is where I am at now listed.

- I don't think I can physically be with her, seeing her naked makes me sick, all I see is a that kid doing her in my favorite position, (missionary) and boobies bouncing etc.
- She knew how headstrong I was about drugs, so she had the choice to do it, and then had the choice to have sex, both ignoring my feelings.
- This break up I said it was for good, she then hit me with a, "I am nothing without you, I am going to commit suicide".
- I still love her, I hate her(lol) for doing that, but I admit I still love her.

Our current status:
- Friends who see each other 2-3x a week, watch a movie / dinner, no sex / kissing or basically touching besides a goodbye hug. The suicide thing scared me, and right now she thinks I am trying to forget what happened, and eventually I will go back to her, which I can honestly say I don't know.


She hurt me bad BG, she is willing to drop all of her guy friends, and her best friend to be with me, basically will do anything for me to come back. Eventually I think I will get past the not physically attracted thing, its been 5 days and I almost already am. We kissed today.

My Question:

What would you do, is my situation almost normal? Has this happened to you somewhat? What happened? Am I an idiot for probably going back to her? Please help me. I gotta go soon, sorry for not being able to check spelling and grammar, if this doesn't make sense then fuck me.

[Linliel]

Seriously she sounds like seriously bad news. Passive aggressive guilt martyr shit just isn't good. I'd stick with the broken-upness, tell her to go see a counsellor/psych and get her shit sorted and then you might consider seeing her again. She's in a seriously unhealthy state and you don't want her dragging you down into that shit.

basically crazy girl is crazy. If she really wants to be with you she'll go sort her shit out. If not, then you're young and there'll be many others I'm sure. You sound like a good guy and deserve someone who treats you better!

[_chuchu]

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Need a diagnosis/Analysis BG. Long story, sorry.

Current GF. I am 20, she is 19.

Downfalls: Dropped out of H.S. Never had nurturing family / Mom figure. Has shitty friends, and a best friend who get her into trouble non stop. I.E: Drug(s) ( just ecstasy that I know of), to much drinking, fights, stupid shit at clubs. Has massive CC debt, car debt and cell phone debt, credit is smashed. In a dead end job, and isn't smart enough to pass her math section for her GED. Gives into peer pressure VERY easily, definitely willing to learn from mistakes, even though she knows the mistakes she is about to take, has no good outcome. When I am not with her, I am constantly worried about her. I feel like I need to be there to hold her hand so she doesn't do anything stupid.

Goodside. Smoking hot, blond hair, perfect toned body and perfect proportions. Best sex I have ever had, hates the things I hate, and loves the things I love in bed and out. When I am with her, time stops, nothing is better and we connect better than (insert lame metaphor here). My family loves her, relatives included. She lives very close, and is VERY romantic. I love her. I am and I say this with the utmost cockiness, the best bf she has ever had. I treat her with respect, I make her laugh and I am VERY responsible. I am very trustworthy, and literally haven't even shaken a girls hand in the 6 months with her. I am the only man in her 7-8 bf's to actually make her cum/orgasm, (which before we had sex the first time, she told me something was wrong and couldn't do anything like that, which I proved wrong obviously). Her family loves me, and her sister's kids actually trust me already to be alone with the kids no older than 2 years for hours.

My story:

Met her about 6 months ago at my old job working at a restaurant. After about a month working together I finally decided to ask to hang out. Typical hang out situation/gatherings up until week 3 from asking her to hang we had sex. Asked her out on valentines day 1 month after we started hanging, now the story starts:
The first week of us going out she decided to go clubbing with her friends and best friend who I have yet to meet, I agree. Comes back the next day with a hickey. I asked her where she got it from, said it was from her best friend, they both got drunk and made out / hickey. Didn't believe it at all and finally got her to admit it was her X-bf. Unfortunately for me, I am a very forgiving person, and I let it slide, almost letting her have 1 strike in the back of my head. Everything is going now well besides an annoying problem she has; Anger management. She has a tendency to blow up VERY easily, and gets mad at me. i.e. She says we can't hang out Friday, so I make plans with a friend or two. She then tells me her friends canceled so we can hang, but I told her I can't. She will then in-turn get very upset, and not talk to me rest of night.
About a month into our relationship, she tells me she is going to a party at guess who, her best friend's house, if I didn't make it clear before, she is a girl incase anyone thought her best friend was a guy. Around 12 she calls to say goodnight, I noticed she was drunk and she admitted she was drunk, so I told her bestfriend to take her keys and she said she did. We said goodnight and I went to bed. 3AM rolls by and I get a call on the cell from my gf sobbing and crying saying she crashed her car driving home. In shock/fear I rush to where she crashed luckily 7 mins away from my house. She crashed into a ditch about 30 yards from her house, I took her to her house, put her to bed and managed to get her car out and park it in her driveway, unscathed. Go up to her room to see if she's ok and she is awake begging me to not break up with her, to weak to even move. I tell her everything is going to be ok, stay with her for about 30 mins till she falls asleep and go home. Next morning we have a talk, everything is ok, that is a strike 2 in the back of my head.
Around the same time, her ex-bf kept calling her, threatening to rape her and tell her dad that they had an abortion a year back ( which they did ), this is a bad thing because she kept this from her family. She tells me this, and I called him right away and got the typical response of a deuce bag with no balls but a big mouth. A day later, and 32 missed calls from her X, I take her to the police station and get a restraining order against him, that settles that.
The relationship is going well, I would say we argue commonly, but she is going to therapy and is trying her best to not. School is out now and another problem arises. She apparently has a ton of guy friends, the ratio of her 15ish friends? 80% guys. Now that they are all back from school and some are coming back from Army. She is getting alot of calls from "Just guy friends". She claims to have known them for 7-8 years, and promises they are nothing but friends. I can be jealous, but I let her see some of them under one condition; I meet them face to face and assure them she, (without sounding like a dick or a controlling fuck), she is mine and you will remain strictly friends and will not touch her. This kept going on for about a month, had a select group of guys, trusted them were ok. Well, after a huge fight over something I can't even remember, we break up out first time. Three days later we fix it and are back together. Now, from her select group of guys, I notice that it has gotten bigger by 3-4 new guys. I tell her she can only see the select few, and she agrees. Now here comes the biggest problem we face yet:
Dave Mattews band came near us last week. She didn't plan on going to the concert, but just wanted to go tailgate. Normally I woulda gone, but I had plans with my cousin to go see a college with him. She goes with the select group of guys and her best friend. Around 7PM, she texts me saying she loves me, I am everything. I said the responce of love you too, I know baby yadda yadda. Around 11PM she calls me to say goodnight, saying she was drunk and she was going to bed. I knew she wasn't drunk by the way she was talking, but said ok. Next morning after I went to her house to see her, I asked her if she took any drugs. Before telling me she started crying saying yet again, don't break up with me, I love you, please. After that she tells me she took perks, I laughed and told her bullshit, thats nothing to cry and whimper about, after about two more lies, she finally admitted she took ecstasy. I was extremely pissed, because I am a HUGE believer in no drugs, no smoking. I asked if anything else happened, and she said no. Two days later I get a call from her saying don't beleive anything you hear. To sum this up rather quickly, a bunch of H.S drama shit happened, I heard from people she did something with someone, I confronted her and she said she had sex with her best friends brother. This pissed me off and caused our second break up, which is currently going on now. She leaves work and comes to my house BEGGING me to stay with her, her life is nothing without me. The thing is, which is hilarious that I think this is the worst, the guy she fucked is the exact opposite of what she likes. She likes kids like me, abercrombie and fitch model style guy who has a nice body and can make her laugh. She fucked a gothic, chain wearing hair over face tight jeaned kid. (no offense to anyone). She said she was fucked up, and tried to say cover it up saying that even with ecstasy I was better in bed, I am the best you name it she was throwing it at me. Here is where I am at now listed.

- I don't think I can physically be with her, seeing her naked makes me sick, all I see is a that kid doing her in my favorite position, (missionary) and boobies bouncing etc.
- She knew how headstrong I was about drugs, so she had the choice to do it, and then had the choice to have sex, both ignoring my feelings.
- This break up I said it was for good, she then hit me with a, "I am nothing without you, I am going to commit suicide".
- I still love her, I hate her(lol) for doing that, but I admit I still love her.

Our current status:
- Friends who see each other 2-3x a week, watch a movie / dinner, no sex / kissing or basically touching besides a goodbye hug. The suicide thing scared me, and right now she thinks I am trying to forget what happened, and eventually I will go back to her, which I can honestly say I don't know.


She hurt me bad BG, she is willing to drop all of her guy friends, and her best friend to be with me, basically will do anything for me to come back. Eventually I think I will get past the not physically attracted thing, its been 5 days and I almost already am. We kissed today.

My Question:

What would you do, is my situation almost normal? Has this happened to you somewhat? What happened? Am I an idiot for probably going back to her? Please help me. I gotta go soon, sorry for not being able to check spelling and grammar, if this doesn't make sense then fuck me.

fuck you. http://www.imagebeast.net/images/vzo...51xaxindph.jpg

Move on without her.

[archibaldcrane]

What would you do, is my situation almost normal?

Sorry, you have to get the fuck out.

That's it. She can't be trusted. I'd say use her as a fuck buddy if you like, but you like her too much. You'll probably have to cut off contact to make it clean. She's going to continue to fuck up, probably worse since you aren't around, and that's the path she chooses.

She cheated on you. Fuck her.

[Despain]

My Question:

What would you do, is my situation almost normal? Has this happened to you somewhat? What happened? Am I an idiot for probably going back to her? Please help me. I gotta go soon, sorry for not being able to check spelling and grammar, if this doesn't make sense then fuck me.

Hey.

Alright, so... I read the entire thing and it was an interesting read. From what I gather, this chick sounds like bad news. She sounds like the type of person who would literally be nothing without you, which should NOT be the case. I understand that you love her, which is basically one of the greatest feelings in the world, even though at times it can honestly get to you.

I've had a wide variety of girlfriends, but have only been in love with one by definition, but I managed to move on. Sometimes moving on is extremely difficult, as it was for me. I found myself constantly calling her from time to time and hanging up the phone, thinking to myself "Wtf is wrong with me? I broke up with her, its over." I'd lie if I told you that I don't think about her (shit I broke up with her back in January and I have thought of her every single day to this moment).

I've been done this road, and from experience I can tell you to move on. I'm not sure if you have any problems starting up relationships or not (which doesn't seem to be the case), but you're 20 years old, you'll be fine.

Now the most important thing is that she threatened to commit suicide after you two broke up. Lol, alright this is ridiculous, and I'm sorry if it offends you. If a girl threatens to commit suicide, she is basically saying that she's got no other options and has no way in stopping you from leaving her. Although her life sounds really fucking shitty from the descriptions you gave above, I honestly think she probably will commit suicide, or at least attempt to. Not trying to sound like an asshole or anything, but its necessary.

The solution to all this is basically just move on. Sex is no basis to judge a relationship on honestly, and if thats one of the few things you're saying is a good thing in a relationship, definitely not worth it. Although sex is a plus, its not everything in a relationship. If you want sex, just go out, meet some chick, fuck her, move on. Simple.

Also, don't just get out of her life completely, as she's already claimed to be suicidal. Be her friend, call her/text her every once in a while, go out to lunch, whatever, you know? Last thing anyone needs is for someone to commit suicide over a decision that said person made.

Hope that helps... relationships can suck, especially when the person you're with is a bum. :/ Sorry, had to be said.

EDIT: If she cheated on you, why the fuck did you stay with her? If any girl cheats on me, she'd best get out of my site honestly. This should have given you a hint that shit wasn't working out. The fact that you stayed with her even after she cheated on you suggests that you're too into this girl. Definitely need to move on, but read what I said above about not getting out of her life completely. Also, fuck buddy wouldn't be too bad of an idea. Just saying.

[Omnipotent]

Extremely insightful post thankyou, this is exactly how I feel Mez. The only thing that kept me with her was that I know she didn't like this kid, and the ecstasy was the only thing that made her cheat on me. My problem is, she was doing so well fixing the anger thing, we were on perfect path of bliss, then she did this. I just hate to ruin something that could be so great. All these posts are really helping, thank you.

[Despain]

Extremely insightful post thankyou, this is exactly how I feel Mez. The only thing that kept me with her was that I know she didn't like this kid, and the ecstasy was the only thing that made her cheat on me. My problem is, she was doing so well fixing the anger thing, we were on perfect path of bliss, then she did this. I just hate to ruin something that could be so great. All these posts are really helping, thank you.

"Could". You're not ruining something that "could" be so great, she is. Its on her. If she's not willing to quit doing all that bullshit, especially the drugs (another reason I would've dumped her ages ago), then its not worth it. Sure, I "could" be extremely rich, but I'm not :/

No point in basing a relationship on something that could. It either is, or it isn't. If she straightens up, which is going to be a long process, then I can see it working out. No point in hoping things will get better, because they won't. You can hope all you want, but its ultimately on her shoulders. I can understand that you love her and I respect that. Love isn't something that goes away so easily, though some people say that it is. Anyone's who's experienced love will tell you its something extremely powerful.

People say "move on". Its not that simple, and I understand. It wasn't simple for me, but some how I managed to do it, and here I am. Happily single. I have girls that I go out with every now and then, and occasionally sleep with, but no where near a relationship. I gave up on relationships for a while, which is something I recommend you do. Go out, meet new people... but don't get too clingy.

Its nice to have several chicks that you can call up and just chill with.

Just stay single for a while bro, and if this girl straightens her life up, tell her that there might be a chance that you two can get back together. Obviously your feelings for this woman are extremely deep, and that's something I can respect... but right now it is impossible for you to support a relationship with that woman until she agrees to straighten up and smartens up. Tell her ass to study and get her GED, it'll be a step. Tell her to stop going out, because obviously she can't be mature enough to know when to take control of a situation.

I wish you luck... shit's not easy especially when the person you're with is stubborn as fuck D:

[_chuchu]

Extremely insightful post thankyou, this is exactly how I feel Mez. The only thing that kept me with her was that I know she didn't like this kid, and the ecstasy was the only thing that made her cheat on me. My problem is, she was doing so well fixing the anger thing, we were on perfect path of bliss, then she did this. I just hate to ruin something that could be so great. All these posts are really helping, thank you.

np. I'm sure if she wanted it bad enough, she'd do something to help herself

[Drex]

She was messing around with an ex-bf within a week of you two going out. That relationship was on the failboat from that point already. I probably would've gotten out then, to be honest.

Getting drunk and crashing her car, fine, oh well. I'd be pretty pissed to have to go bail her out that late at night but wouldn't break up over it.

But come on, now she fucked another guy. The drugs are an excuse. If you let it go, the precedent is set: Cheating on me is OK as long as you're on drugs/drunk. Don't put up with that shit dawg. It isn't gonna stop.

[Omnipotent]

"Could". You're not ruining something that "could" be so great, she is. Its on her. If she's not willing to quit doing all that bullshit, especially the drugs (another reason I would've dumped her ages ago), then its not worth it. Sure, I "could" be extremely rich, but I'm not :/

No point in basing a relationship on something that could. It either is, or it isn't. If she straightens up, which is going to be a long process, then I can see it working out. No point in hoping things will get better, because they won't. You can hope all you want, but its ultimately on her shoulders. I can understand that you love her and I respect that. Love isn't something that goes away so easily, though some people say that it is. Anyone's who's experienced love will tell you its something extremely powerful.

People say "move on". Its not that simple, and I understand. It wasn't simple for me, but some how I managed to do it, and here I am. Happily single. I have girls that I go out with every now and then, and occasionally sleep with, but no where near a relationship. I gave up on relationships for a while, which is something I recommend you do. Go out, meet new people... but don't get too clingy.

Its nice to have several chicks that you can call up and just chill with.

Just stay single for a while bro, and if this girl straightens her life up, tell her that there might be a chance that you two can get back together. Obviously your feelings for this woman are extremely deep, and that's something I can respect... but right now it is impossible for you to support a relationship with that woman until she agrees to straighten up and smartens up. Tell her ass to study and get her GED, it'll be a step. Tell her to stop going out, because obviously she can't be mature enough to know when to take control of a situation.

I wish you luck... shit's not easy especially when the person you're with is stubborn as fuck D:

This is what I am doing. Will sometimes go out to dinner and catch up, see how she is doing. But as far a relationship, it is going to be a long ass time before I get back into one with her.

[Titanss]

back on the ass thing my ex-gf just put her head in the pillow and simply said "fast or slow just get in over with."



win.

[Despain]

This is what I am doing. Will sometimes go out to dinner and catch up, see how she is doing. But as far a relationship, it is going to be a long ass time before I get back into one with her.

:D

[archibaldcrane]

back on the ass thing my ex-gf just put her head in the pillow and simply said "fast or slow just get in over with."

Ugh, that sounds awful. If a girl's not into it, I'm not into it.

When she says, in the heat of the moment, "baby, fuck my ass" and you look around like "shit, I don't have any lube, and we're at her place" and then you sneak past her 5 year old sleeping daughter in the next room all MGS-style to get to the bathroom and grab the baby oil, then Solid Snake back past said sleeping child to return to her and go to town, and it's all glorious...

...that's win.

God I sound like...I don't even know what I sound like anymore.

[Jinxs]

Must be something in the air bg my gf of 3 years just called me and was like I don't love you anymore and im going out with some other guy tonight kthxbye.

[volcanicweather]

Must be something in the air bg my gf of 3 years just called me and was like I don't love you anymore and im going out with some other guy tonight kthxbye.

That's a bummer =( what led up to this?

In regards to omni's tldr post:

Do you trust this girl? I'm calling her a girl because that's what she really is. If your answer to this question is no, then stay as far away from her as possible. Also, I hope you wrap that shit up if she's having sex with random goth dudes... because most of my goth friends, although very nice, have been with a lot of people in their day.

[Omnipotent]

That's a bummer =( what led up to this?

In regards to omni's tldr post:

Do you trust this girl? I'm calling her a girl because that's what she really is. If your answer to this question is no, then stay as far away from her as possible. Also, I hope you wrap that shit up if she's having sex with random goth dudes... because most of my goth friends, although very nice, have been with a lot of people in their day.

Yeah, I am very safe with sex. She's asked me to cum in her (lol), but obviously not going to do that. No, I do not trust her, as you can see, I have no reason too.