tomorrow my parents meet my fiance for the first time

[Sera]

this. my dad is a shitbag, so we don't talk. i don't feel like he's earned it.

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[Ksandra]

Why do people feel so obligated to keep in touch with their parents if they don't get along?

Cause I still <3 them!

this. my dad is a shitbag, so we don't talk. i don't feel like he's earned it. maybe that sounds ungrateful to some people, but i think people who feel indebted to their parents so much that they're willing to give up their own happiness just to appease them are sick. not saying you're doing that KAYSAN, just saying

ya I get ya, my parents are nice though, just very very very old fashioned. I will say it was hard choosing between my parents and moving to Cali, they made it way harder than it had to be. But ya I totally chose happiness on that one and glad off it XD



Good news is my parents seem to like him so wewt for me. XD

[Howard Roark]

Why do people feel so obligated to keep in touch with their parents if they don't get along?

I cut off my entire maternal side of my family, my mom would come home so upset every christmas

still feeling zero need to be in contact with them

[mootsfox]

ya, like I said I learned to basically live two lives. I won't lie and say I'm perfect around my parents, we tend to argue a lot over things when it gets the better of me that they refuse to see things in a different light. When I take a step back though I know it's just who they are, and they don't do it to be douchebags and that they do love me. It's just the love of a black n' white 50s show that they dream off, and I can't be like that 24/7

Living two lives isn't that hard. It's the third and fourth lives that trip you up

[Shiroikage]

In my second life, I post my dick on the internet.
I hope the two never intersect.

[_chuchu]

In my second life, I post my dick on the internet.
I hope the two never intersect.

in a perpendicular manner amirite?

[Shiroikage]

in a perpendicular manner amirite?

<3

[Conrad]

In my second life, I post my dick on the internet.
I hope the two never intersect.

lol

[Skjie]

Good news is my parents seem to like him so wewt for me. XD

He is fucking their daughter and caused her to move far, far away from them. The best you can hope for is silent condemnation and polite conversation.

[Shiroikage]

To be fair, they probably like him because they like you.

[Skjie]

To be fair, they probably are pretending to like him because they like you.

I know without reservation my in-laws hate me for living 4000kms from them.

[Shiroikage]

In my defense, I thought "pretend."

[Skjie]

That's the problem with you flatlanders. Too much thinking, not enough saying.

[Shiroikage]

Not even enough thinking out here.

[Skjie]

Too much sky, clearly.

[_chuchu]

So between a Quebecois, a flatlander, or whatever other derrogatory names canadians call each other, which one is closest to calling one a cavedweller?

[Shiroikage]

Interpreting Quebecois as an insult is the deepest understanding of Canadiana I have ever seen in an American.

Flatlanders aren't really cavemen. We're like people who only play Final Destination.

[Blarg]

do you have items in flatland

[Howard Roark]

Canadian disparaging terms (proper term in brackets): Newfie (Newfoundlander), frog(Quebecois/Quebecker), dirties (small-town, poor people/underpriveleged?), people from BC are commonly and mistakenly all called hippies, Alberta is known as the Texas of the North, and I think rednecks is a pretty accepted term, we use that too

oh, and people generally hate Toronto for no reason (besides our huge capital-drawing capabilities garnering more federal funds than other cities QQ)

[Shiroikage]

do you have items in flatland

Only that which can grow in the fields, be used to grow stuff in the fields, or that which can be made with every part of the buffalo.