Hubble's law, yeah I understand that. Let me phrase my question another way: say we happened to find a way to leave our galaxy. We would have to faster than the universe is expanding in order to reach another galaxy, and that can be measured, right? Just like how a fly on a train doesn't realize it's moving at the speed of the train. Or rather, lets use your example of a balloon: the ant on the ever expanding balloon is at point A. In order for the ant to make it to point B he has to overcome the rate at which the balloon is expanding, and that can be measured. Furthermore, as the ant gets closer and closer to the speed of light everything around the ant, from the ants prospective, starts to slow down. Therefore the ant perceives the rate of expansion of the balloon to be slower than it actually is the faster the ant goes.
Edit: Going out to brunch or I would turn on the tube
