need some advice BG (never thought i'd make one of these threads lol)

[gairaiden]

Got a bit of a situation on my hands and need some advice BG. Long story short here i been dating my GF 3 years without getting laid and by extension staying a virgin still at 25 (sure lol all ya guys want i know ya will =p ). Problem is the other night one of my Japanese friends i known since childhood that's seriously hot as all hell decides ok i'm going to fix your virgin issue. sure enough we go back to her place and get it on a while. Not only did she fix my virgin problem shes actually willing to sleep with me more. I need help deciding what to do about my GF and go about talking to her. My gf is a crazy clingy chick that won't let me dump her no matter how hard i try to and refuses to have sex till marriage.

[ertyu]

Grow a set and just tell her "it's over, I don't want to see you anymore" if you don't like her. I'm not even kidding. You're already kind of a douchebag for cheating on her, but we'll ignore that part. You obviously don't want to be with her anymore, so just tell her. Stick to your guns, and take control of the situation.

[Qalbert]

alternatively let her 'catch' you with the hot chick

[Dimmauk]

Got a bit of a situation on my hands and need some advice BG. Long story short here i been dating my GF 3 years without getting laid and by extension staying a virgin still at 25 (sure lol all ya guys want i know ya will =p ). Problem is the other night one of my Japanese friends i known since childhood that's seriously hot as all hell decides ok i'm going to fix your virgin issue. sure enough we go back to her place and get it on a while. Not only did she fix my virgin problem shes actually willing to sleep with me more. I need help deciding what to do about my GF and go about talking to her. My gf is a crazy clingy chick that won't let me dump her no matter how hard i try to and refuses to have sex till marriage.

I'd totally dump your current GF, and have fun fucking JP girl. Fuck that waiting till marriage bullshit.

[Nightbreed]

Grow a set and just tell her "it's over, I don't want to see you anymore" if you don't like her. I'm not even kidding. You're already kind of a douchebag for cheating on her, but we'll ignore that part. You obviously don't want to be with her anymore, so just tell her. Stick to your guns, and take control of the situation.

Agreed, it's obvious you want out.

[Chen]

great, you're not a virgin anymore, now pick which you want. if you're ready to ditch your GF of 3 years cause some other girl will sleep with you, then there was obviously problems with your relationship

[volcanicweather]

Hot JP chick wanting to have sex with you > clingy chick waiting until marriage

This is mathematical in nature; there is no room for debate

[gairaiden]

I already tried telling her shits over and when i did she told me if i left her expect her dad and older brother at my house to shoot my ass lol.

Personally i'm tried of treating my gf like a queen only to be the last thing she cares for. hell i even got a call from her the other night saying her neighbors son shes been hanging with wants her to move in as his roommate free of charge. I'm like fuck that shit if ya move in with anyone its me not another guy. after that point is where i went fuck it. everyone i know tells me i'm too good a guy to women i'm with to be treated like my gf treats me. seriously what guy lets a girl stay with them free of charge without wanting something and how can a girl says shes my gf and only want to see me once a month :/ as good as i treated her she should be dying to see me everyday

[Day]

http://i30.tinypic.com/6qffwo.jpg

[Olo401]

BTW there's nothing wrong with waiting for your first time. Hell you did better than I did - I got to 22.

[Saithorx]

Somehow I thought of this.
YouTube - Wayne's World-Are You Mental?

[gairaiden]

its not really just wanting to dump my gf cause julie (the JP chick) was willing to sleep with me its also cause my gf rarely hangs with me yet julie has hung out with me all day basically since sunday. its nice having a beautiful girl around that shows interest in me and wants to spend time with me and that actually appreciates that i took her on a nice date and shows me respect for once.

[Ivve]

Dump her, threaten a restraining order against her and her whole family if she continues to threaten you with her dad/bro shooting you. I would think having her whole family dragged into police action would be enough to discourage her but if she still does that shit, actually follow through. You can't bluff when you play the police card or she'll run your life.

[Dazd]

She's probably screwing someone else dump her and have fun with the JP chick.

[Atreides]

go to the doctor, jesus

[Headspace]

Just go for it man, bitches love confidence.

[tyven]

threesome

[Olo401]

its not really just wanting to dump my gf cause julie (the JP chick) was willing to sleep with me its also cause my gf rarely hangs with me yet julie has hung out with me all day basically since sunday. its nice having a beautiful girl around that shows interest in me and wants to spend time with me and that actually appreciates that i took her on a nice date and shows me respect for once.

Yeah.. piece of tail aside, dump your gf. It sounds like you've got a much better chemistry with your friend anyways.

[gairaiden]

the wayne's world clip made me lol. my gf is exactly like that. when my bro dated her back when we were all in high school he dumped her at my graduation in 02 and she thought they were still dating in 05 even though he hadn't even talked to her since 02. i feel like a dumbass for even trying to date her in the first place.

[Hosom]

What Ivve said. Call the police if someone pulls that shit, hell, if she has half a brain tell her to go ahead and send them over. You might also to remind her to do a hell of a job hiding the body, because last I checked murder is a hell of a reason to throw away 20+ years. And hiding the body really is only half the battle, there's clean up, and god forbid a neighbor hears a gun shot.... But yea, don't pussy out on the police card.