need some advice BG (never thought i'd make one of these threads lol)

[Stiker]

I know you've rationalized all the reasons why no one can know, but I've been straight with you so far, so here's more real talk:

You're not a particularly good looking guy. Your virginity and sexual exploration is a novelty for her, and you're a "nice" guy for her to show the ropes, so that's what interests her.

But she's not retarded, if she's actually attractive (to be determined, of course - just being asian means little) she doesn't want people knowing that she's fucking you because it makes her look badly and she doesn't want to have to safe face.

I'm not saying this shit to be mean, I'm saying it to keep your expectations in check and wise up to the reality of the situation so you can understand it and not fuck it up.

I'd listen to this man. Tread lightly and know what you are likely getting yourself into. If you can treat it as just sex and will care less when it ends, then kudos to you, but getting any kind of attached (even just to the sex) would be an absolute disaster.

That all is a lot easier said than done too. But hey, if you think you'll be cool with it, dive in head first (pun slightly intended). Like I said, just know what you are getting yourself into.

[Atreides]

this is why advice threads should never be locked

[Seraph]

Because getting laid is hard right?

For the guy not getting any for 3 years, I would say yes, it is. That's a pretty high pedestal right there.

[Zalius]

just fyi, your gf used you because you allowed yourself to be used. bitches do that. if you want to avoid this situation again, being an asshole will go much further than investing your well being into a shitty relationship. You're gettin laid, fuck it. Good luck in the future.

[donnie]

Did you see his picture?

that's really silly to say, if anything any guy would know , is that girls dont care about looks more then they care about everything else ( money, work, good in bed , personality). There are soo many hot chicks end up with really ugly guys, and he is not ugly , all it takes from any guy is enough confidence and again its all about body language.

[SephYuyX]

Looks help though, there is always that initial judgment before something is said.
Reason why there is so much internet dating now a days, much easier to get to know someone as a person rather than judging them by their looks.

[gairaiden]

k just back to my pc again had to run a few errands with julie.

got her pic i'll upload it shortly. wasn't the best pic i could get on my phone either plus she blinked when i snapped it lol.

btw dav i really am seriously 25 although i know your just messin lol. my whole bloodline looks young well into their 50's. my mom is 45 and looks 30 at most. everyone thinks without my beard i look 16. when i got my beard i look my age.

[Day]

that's really silly to say, if anything any guy would know , is that girls dont care about looks more then they care about everything else ( money, work, good in bed , personality). There are soo many hot chicks end up with really ugly guys, and he is not ugly , all it takes from any guy is enough confidence and again its all about body language.

whatever helps you sleep at night bro.

[Dimmauk]

k just back to my pc again had to run a few errands with julie.

got her pic i'll upload it shortly. wasn't the best pic i could get on my phone either plus she blinked when i snapped it lol.

btw dav i really am seriously 25 although i know your just messin lol. my whole bloodline looks young well into their 50's. my mom is 45 and looks 30 at most. everyone thinks without my beard i look 16. when i got my beard i look my age.

Pics of your Mom next?

[gairaiden]

pic of julie incoming

http://i172.photobucket.com/albums/w...iden/julie.jpg

not the best pic but it'll do for now

[Rhinox]

I see no tits

[SephYuyX]

Really bad angle >< Cant really tell anything.. but doesnt look hideous I guess, could have good potential. Hard to tell :E

[Day]

Well one thing for sure, it's not hard to tell which one he should be banging.

[SephYuyX]

Definitely with that though.
Doesnt sound like a good person to have a relationship with though, but idk what the situation really is though.

[Warudo Ecksu]

You should just stop being a bitch and dump the chick who treats you bad. I'm surprised after 7 pages of advice, you haven't actually ended things. Breakups are not that hard. You just do it. And remember out of sight, out of mind. Block her phone #, email, AIM, MSN, don't go places she goes to. Avoid her completely. You have no reason to be nice to her. If she starts pleading with you on the phone, just say "No, it's over." and hang up on her. You're 25 years old so stop acting like a teenager.

[Stiker]

Well one thing for sure, it's not hard to tell which one he should be banging.

More or less my exact thoughts.

[Jeryhn]

OP should ask his brother how those skins felt when he tapped them.

Alternatively, OP should quit his current gf, and keep JP girl on the side in a non-committal relationship until he finds someone who is actually relationship material that will satisfy his needs (as, surprise, that's kinda what relationships are about!). Replace JP girl if and when necessary to prevent sliding back into old habits.

Also, get a haircut.
I don't care which one you pick out of the Supercuts catalog. Fucks sake.

[Olo401]

thing is my gf is NOT a virgin. shes had sex with everyone of her past bf's and admits to it. shes been trying to make up stories for ages that her ex's "forced" her into sex. to that i called bullshit right to her face. It's not that shes saving herself till marriage its that she don't wanna fuck another bf till marriage

edit: yes dav he did. and it drives me nuts knowing my bro has fucked my gf when they dated back in high school.

Okay now here's where I have some experience and I can call bullshit on this girl.

My ex-fiancee's first time was a date raping. She was 15 at the time - we went to high school together, and she was a quiet mousy chick before that happened. It made her into an absolute FREAK.. literally overnight she became the school biker slut. Years later when we hooked up I found outshe was into all kinds of kinky shit, most of all rape fantasy because her first time kinda programmed her brain to think sex was supposed to be rough and violent.

If this chick had past boyfriends that forced her into sex at a young age, chances are her brain would be programmed the same way and she'd have given it up to you early and often. The fact that she's not means she's playing games with your head.

[Tyche]

pic of julie incoming

http://i172.photobucket.com/albums/w...iden/julie.jpg

not the best pic but it'll do for now

514-515 out of sheer curiousity. Picture lacks detail. Could easily be a 303.

Also, don't be clingy witht he asian chick. Don't turn into your ex in that sense.

[gairaiden]

tried getting a better shot of her from front but she started wondering why i was taking pics on my phone lol.

personally opinion of mine is a 617 maybe closer to 618. shes got bigger tits then a typical JP girl due to being half white. wish i coulda got a better pic.

least i can screw her and not listen to that typical little girl sound JP chicks make in bed. seriously why are there guys turned on by that lmao

edit: woulda been better if i got standing pic of her those pants show off her cute ass really well lol