need some advice BG (never thought i'd make one of these threads lol)

[Abandon]

Brb, finding pic of elphaba instead.

[Abandon]

Optimum word.

Unintentional, I promise. But it works.

[_chuchu]

Uncalled for.

[Skjie]

Personal attacks.

[#686578]

Brb, finding pic of elphaba instead.

Sounds like an attack on my person.

[Abandon]

=(

[#686578]

Personal attacks.

GDI

[kuronosan]

I'm not a fan of terrorists, but while the "JP" chick is quite prettier than your girlfriend, she's not exactly hot enough to be demanding you keep your sex life quiet.

I missed the bus on that part of the thread but basically don't get attached to her. Use her to get laid until you learn the ropes, keep your mouth shut, then find someone more attractive that you can use your new confidence on. Oh, did I mention that once you do that, that the JP chick will probably want you more?

Women are funny like that.

[Roranora]

.....wow

I know I'm way late to the party that is this thread, but I just wanted to say that my cheeks will be sore tomorrow from the uncontrollable laughter that resulted from some of these posts. Good work, BG.

[Skjie]

Hmm, the JP chick I guess is super hot when compared to the other one. But, let's be honest here.

[TheTaru]

Ex-girlfriend slightly resembles Yoda...

[Jerseyprophet]

I only read the OP's message, so pardon. I'm going through a similiar situation in that I ended a long term relationship with someone that refused to be broken up with as well.

Other than that, our situations are different.

Since you've ruined something intimate and unrepairable (the saving yourself for each other thing, which I'll bite my tounge on, your choice if you wish), the absolute only thing you can do for her AND you is to end it and deal with the roller coaster you'll have to as a result.

It is not easy, and anyone that says it is lies, just...make your heart cast iron and know the tears she'll use against you wont last. You'll feel like a heartless jerk, and maybe (we) are, but in the end it's whats best for both.

Remind yourself that because you care about her in any way, you care enough to do one last thing for her - let her go.

(and because someone commented on the situation in my break up thread - when she broke my technique 1200 TT, I have an ex-wife, my daughter's mother. We work enough for my kid and now, my ex-GF, of 2 1/2 years).

If she lives with you it's even harder. Alot of fighting, alot of guilt trips thrown my way, alot of my shit broken - but you HAVE to work through it. Theres a light at the end of both of your tunnels. I miss the way she cleaned my house, and weird shit hits me with a depression like sinking feeling sometimes, like seeing a towel she folded in my linen closet (since I tend to use the same mother fucker even when it's wet - im a guy) but....and I hope the same for you, beyond the missing her and lonely bed - I know what I did was better for her and me.


Best wishes mate.

[Aerin]

I missed the bus on that part of the thread but basically don't get attached to her. Use her to get laid until you learn the ropes, keep your mouth shut, then find someone more attractive that you can use your new confidence on. Oh, did I mention that once you do that, that the JP chick will probably want you more?

Women are funny like that.

Pretty much this, she's a fuck buddy. Use it as you need it. Other than that, I have no idea how you put up with that for 3 years man.

[gairaiden]

i really don't either.

[Electro]

Got a bit of a situation on my hands and need some advice BG. Long story short here i been dating my GF 3 years without getting laid and by extension staying a virgin still at 25 (sure lol all ya guys want i know ya will =p ). Problem is the other night one of my Japanese friends i known since childhood that's seriously hot as all hell decides ok i'm going to fix your virgin issue. sure enough we go back to her place and get it on a while. Not only did she fix my virgin problem shes actually willing to sleep with me more. I need help deciding what to do about my GF and go about talking to her. My gf is a crazy clingy chick that won't let me dump her no matter how hard i try to and refuses to have sex till marriage.

Post a pic of your g/f and the jp chick. I will then decide.

[Dimmauk]

Post a pic of your g/f and the jp chick. I will then decide.

He did. Then other people reposted them.

[Electro]

Ah ok I found them. My final answer is. Leave both and move on.

[Quixon]

Just read all 10 pages.......

Laughed at least once on 9 of those 10 pages.


It's like an ugly pudgy love triangle. Both girls are ugly as hell, "JP" chick being the lesser of 2 evils. Normally I'd say raise your standards a bit, but judging by your picture, I'd take what I could get.

[zoobernut]

I seriously laughed at "pudgy love triangle".

[Pringles]

Ex-girlfriend slightly resembles Yoda...

After reading this, I change my statement on the matter. Get back with the ex and dress up as Obi-Wan and have her dress up as Yoda and talk to you in a Yoda voice as you learn the way of "The Force" from her. Videotape and post on pornhub.

...if possible have a person dress up as JarJar Binks or Aniken and stand off in the corner watching.

Once you bore of that, then break up with her again because she's a controlling whatever.