need some advice BG (never thought i'd make one of these threads lol)

[Stiker]

I don't get the sentiment that you have to be some kind of douche nugget to end a relationship and still maintain your manhood.

TBH, I think it has more to do with the slight QQ'ing of "oh but what if I'm an asshole" or "but her dad and brother will come get me" kinda excuses that the OP has thrown around so far. At some point, if you want out, you get out and stick up for yourself and stop worrying about everyone else's opinions about you.

[Norelco]

I don't get the sentiment that you have to be some kind of douche nugget to end a relationship and still maintain your manhood.

You don't, but everyone is hoping he'll report back to us all of the shenanigans that go down after he does.

He should say "I think we should break up" and when she asks why he can just say "I can't wait any longer, sorry."

[Day]

He doesn't even have to give that as a reason. That's a whole can of worms you could just leave alone, and trust me if you're worried at all about looking like an asshole, telling her you are leaving because of sex is the LAST thing you want to do.

You really shouldn't need help breaking up with someone smoothly at this point in your life, but seriously just be honest, but what she doesn't know isn't going to kill her. You're not happy, and it's not fair for her to believe that you are. It's just not working out etc... all that bullshit is said a lot for a reason. It can be true and cliche at the same time.

[Norelco]

He doesn't even have to give that as a reason. That's a whole can of worms you could just leave alone, and trust me if you're worried at all about looking like an asshole, telling her you are leaving because of sex is the LAST thing you want to do.

You really shouldn't need help breaking up with someone smoothly at this point in your life, but seriously just be honest, but what she doesn't know isn't going to kill her. You're not happy, and it's not fair for her to believe that you are. It's just not working out etc... all that bullshit is said a lot for a reason. It can be true and cliche at the same time.

Well, I was going on the supposition that MAYBE she'll relent and put out for him if he tells her why.

[gairaiden]

posting pics of the gf in a sec gotta search through my photobucket pics. (honestly shes not very attractive)

[Norelco]

posting pics of the gf in a sec gotta search through my photobucket pics. (honestly shes not very attractive)

Ah, all that crap is blocked at my office (except Flickr, upload them there). Leave them up if you can plz.

[Day]

Well, I was going on the supposition that MAYBE she'll relent and put out for him if he tells her why.

After 3 years? Nah man you gonna need a lot of hot water and a special jar opener to crack that shit.

[MrW]

I agree, more pics. Lets break this down ...

-You are a virgin and dating a girl for three years. Still a virgin.
-She isn't a virgin and always gave it up to all of her other boyfriends but just not you.
-Your brother dated her, which means his dick has been in her vagina and yours hasn't
-Your mouth has indirectly been in contact with your brother's dick via kissing your girlfriend.
- She threatens to have her family kill you if you break up with her
- You have a still to be determined hot JP chick wanting to fuck you for an undetermined amount of time and you follow through

Assessment: Neither of your relationships are meaningful. You need to grow balls. Your heart and mind aren't happy but your dick sure will be if you choose one. I say 'sword in the stone' that chick then post pics.

[Day]

Wait she's slept with her other boyfriends?

I just kind of glossed the thread.

Damn man. Sad.

[Norelco]

Wait she's slept with her other boyfriends?

I just kind of glossed the thread.

Damn man. Sad.

LOL yeah I missed that too. Holy crap.

[Absolutely Virtue]

I wouldn't fuck you either.

(too soon?)

[sephir]

from the sound of it your current gf is crazy. All I have to say is the more you hang out with crazy girls the worse it gets. You Dont want to wake up one morning with your balls glued to your leg.

If she is threatening you then that should be enough for you to leave. Whether or not you and Julie have any sort of future relationship is between you 2, but my advice is to get out of the bad relationship first.

Also lets see how hot Julie really is. BG demands pictures (I in no way shape or form speak for the collective BG when I say this)

[Dimmauk]

Yeah, OP needs to get gangsta on that bitch. Then post pics. Or post pics now, then fuck the JP girl again. Then break up with old GF, and was you walk away rub your finger under her nose.

[Jefe]

Yeah...I'd be careful making that assumption. From my experience, it is true they'd like to be with a nice guy for a change...and then love to revert back to the asshole type and complain about them. Happened to me a couple times, and seen it happen to a couple of my friends as well.

(...)

That^. Usually they had some horrible experience w/ an asshole that fucked up their brain. They unconsciously sabotage the relationship w/ the nice guy so they won't have to deal w/ getting dumped again. Interesting how most women react to a situation like this vs men. Men just get drunk (sometimes) and move the fuck on. Women on the other hand... yeah.

[MrW]

Post pics of crazy bitch. Chest up (be gentle with us)
Give the JP chick the business while taking pics and sending them to the crazy bitch.
Take those same pics then post them here for our enjoyment and commentary.

[Mizango]

I don't even know where to begin tbh.

[Ivve]

That^. Usually they had some horrible experience w/ an asshole that fucked up their brain. They unconsciously sabotage the relationship w/ the nice guy so they won't have to deal w/ getting dumped again. Interesting how most women react to a situation like this vs men. Men just get drunk (sometimes) and move the fuck on. Women on the other hand... yeah.

Wow, really? I'm pretty sure there are a lot of guys out there who have developed some fucked-up behavior (albeit different kinds of behavior) as a result of their relationships, but if not then good on your gender for being so emotionally evolved.

Aside from that, this doesn't really even seem like a question. It doesn't really matter if she doesn't want to have sex again until marriage. If you weren't comfortable with that arrangement you should have taken your leave pretty soon after finding out. There's no shame in not wanting to marry someone you don't know for certain you're compatible with on all levels, and if all the other ones outside the sex aren't working out either, there's really no reason to continue.

Why did you even stay in this? Low self esteem or something?

[Mizango]

That coming from a hot bitch, you best be listening.

[Jicent]

eh shes a 516 if im drunk

[gamez]

keep crazy virgin, romp around with asian, marry crazy virgin eventually, watch 25 years of pent up virginity explode in newly wed bliss, get divorced, convert to jehovah, never sleep with anyone again.