
Originally Posted by
Firas
I researched about that, because i myself was not satisfied with that (ohmy im not brainwashed).
I asked shiekhs about this, "How can Islam glorify women and rejects violence say that about treating women?" "How would the Prophet (PBUH) preach this, if he himself never ever hit a woman, or even acted agressively towards his wives?"
"his wife Khadeeja (RAA), was one of the main influences in his life, he spoke very highly of her, it doesnt make sense"
first, we should be clear that it is the last resort to things, secondly, I asked my sheikhs, because Islam has taught me question and discover everything, "whats the limit of this hitting?" "would a bat on the face do the job?"
the hitting that was allowed is like hitting her with a siwaak, a stem of a plant as big as your index finger but thinner in width. the idea behind it is not to inflict any pain, it is just to indicate the mistake she's done. and again i tell you, and this is very important, it is the absolute LAST resort, the hitting that i explained.
I dont understand how that is pedophilia