oh no, no whooshing. this is a recent development so you came in at a good time.
i think nice guys just come off as boring a lot of the time, really. it's kind of like trying to watch a critically acclaimed foreign film vs. watching the new transformers movie. the transformers movie trailer is going to impress you and probably win your money unless you've been to enough of those movies to know that you're likely going to walk out disappointed if you were expecting a good plot and character development and shit. they're good if you just want to waste two hours, though.
Nothing wrong with being a nice guy.
Not the type myself. I like being spoiled, pampered and told the truth. My husband treats me like a queen 100% of the time and I consider myself incredibly fortunate. On contrary, I enjoy the cocky attitude and bad mouthing only when it comes from bdsm submissive male partners.
Utility
unless, in stowastiq's case, it's a special BDSM harness sweater that just happens to cross in the shoulder region.
I never understood why some guys like one night stands. You enjoy endless nights of mediocre sex instead of awesome sex with someone that knows what you like?
i can see it now! stowastiq knitting bondage gear in her rocking chair when she's 85. stylish and practical. actually this is seriously sounding like a good idea to me; people buy all kinds of crazy shit. have you seen kittywigs.com? people buy that.
yeah, i have to agree. that and STDs kind of scared me out of that scene. too many horror stories took place in my high school with STDs and pregnancy. sometimes together, man. isn't that some shit? surprise, you have genital warts and you're pregnant! you've now ruined your entire future in the most complete possible way
hahaha, i guess you could do braiding. old people are way into braided leather. my grandma must have like 65 purses with braided leather handles to match her braided leather belts.
Sew some braided leather straps together and make a braided leather vest
If I had a one-night stand, I don't think it would be about the sex.
I also had no idea Stowastiq was married. I hope hes as kinky as you are.
Yea he is lol
I had requests for a leather knit scarf before, reminded me. And leather daddy's would like the braided /knit leather vest.
As for casual vs relationship, sometimes the need to get regular sex is not fulfilled in relationships and it comes with other packages that some do not want so they choose casual. Some also like the risk, theme and mystery associated with one niters and find it exciting but do not consider those partners for relationships and vice verse.