How Can I Help My Friend?

[Day]

I'm not going to write you a love song.

[Krye]

I'm not gonna write you a love song
'cause you asked for it
'cause you need one, you see
I'm not gonna write you a love song
'cause you tell me it's
Make or break in this
If you're on your way
I'm not gonna write you to stay
If all you have is leaving I'm gonna need a better
Reason to write you a love song today

[Day]

Exactly.

[Ansems]

Just tell him to stop wasting money on bitches and stop being nice to the bitch, which is the only problems I see here.
Your boy seems that he doesn't know what real love is because its hard to fall 'in love' with someone.
I'm a relationship type of guy, I like having a girl in my presence. From what I know only one of gfs cheated on me and that's when I was nice to the bitch.

[Day]

Just tell him to stop wasting money on bitches and stop being nice to the bitch, which is the only problems I see here.
Your boy seems that he doesn't know what real love is because its hard to fall 'in love' with someone.
I'm a relationship type of guy, I like having a girl in my presents. From what I know only one of gfs cheated on me and that's when I was nice to the bitch.

I like having a girl in my presents too.

[Charismatic]

A girl in your presents? I sure hope you get large presents.

If not, I would wonder how you would fit those girls in there.

[Day]

ilu char

[Ansems]

motherfuckers didnt even let me edit before I re-read.

[Argettio]

He is pretty, smart, funny, he has money, he does anything his girlfriends want and more. A few examples would be that he drives an hour every day just to see his bitches because he's too fucking retarded to find anyone local, and he bought his girlfriend a $400 ring when they were both like 15 years old, stupid fag shit like that. BUT, since all women are whores, they all cheat on him. He won't leave them because he's addicted to "love", he HAS to feel as if a girl cares about him. He finds out they are cheating through some way or another(Women are stupid, so they don't cover their tracks for shit), and just lets it slide and does nothing about it. He tries to pretend as if they aren't whoring around, but it eats away at him and tears him apart from the inside. Let me reiterate, he CANNOT BE ALONE, if he does break up with whatever hoe he's with at the time, he stops eating and starts randomly fainting. He started taking Zoloft a few months ago and for a while he didn't give a fuck about tricks and sluts, but I guess that shit stopped working. He was going to switch meds, but he's a bitch that gets any and all side effects listed, and everything else has fucked up side effects so he didn't want to risk it.

He's got an epic case of bitch dependency and this has to stop. He won't listen to me when I tell him that the only thing women are good for is sex and I really don't know what the fuck to do now. He used to be pretty punk rock and now he's dating this retarded poser bitch that listens to green day and dyed her hair blue so now she thinks she's hardcore and shit. He's basically sold his soul at this point and I think we're nearing the point of no return.

Balls... he needs a pair

[Conrad]

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[AkashiXI]

I gotta admit, you sound like a pretty chill friend, Krye.

also lol @ "I'm shooting for a little gay."

[Day]

I'd be a close friend of Krye's if I lived near him Im sure of it.

[Day]

Also he was jeans shopping with another dude... I think he already hit his "a little gay" mark.

[Linktri]

Cavemen had it right. You want a woman to love you?

Club her ass like a baby seal.

[Mistress Stowastiq]

If he cannot exist in a healthy lifestyle without a partner, it is likely codependency. Codependency is only convenient when the other partner is emotionally able to support two people and has a knack for that neediness, willing to accept it.

It takes time, dedication and the desire to help oneself but it is possible for him to learn to be independent first, before latching into a relationship that will temporarily provide that for him. Nothing wrong with wanting a partner and to share everything with some one, it is just that having a whole self to offer means being able to emotionally support one self too.

At least your friend has you, a friend who deeply cares for him and I hope he listens to you. You can help your friend by trying to inspire him to work on some independence and self esteem. Seeing himself as being perfectly capable of being single and emotionally all right would be a start. Have him try taking comfort in self reliance.

Good luck to you and your friend.

[_chuchu]

You can help your friend by encouraging him to step away from that ledge. Maybe he simply doesn't want to see you again, so you gotta understand

[Conrad]

Perhaps maybe then he could cut ties with all the lies that he's been living in

[Day]

And if he did not want to see you again, would you understayand?

[Day]

Oh fuck you chuyu you fucked it up