Seriously how does a guy stay with just one woman?

**Mizango** · 2009-09-23 00:11

Originally Posted by Howard Roark

man I got questions all day

lol

**Howard Roark** · 2009-09-23 00:11

I don't want to seem like I'm talkin smack 'bout my woman, I'm just being brutally honest and speaking my cold-feet out loud

she's really great and I spend all my time with her but comfort is not the same as thrill, chase, excitement, muses, mystery, bla bla bla

people say that's high school shit, but when you take all that away.. isn't that a bit boring?

**_chuchu** · 2009-09-23 00:11

Originally Posted by Kuya

I don't know, sometimes i think i should get a gf

LOL

**Howard Roark** · 2009-09-23 00:12

Originally Posted by Mizango

Well you would be hard pressed to find a woman that fails to deliver the drama. I mean it comes as natural as breathing, here are some tips:
1) Criticize her and never ever compliment her.
2) Leave dishes around, toilet seat up and complain about her mother.
3) Tell her she's disgusting when she is on the rag.
4) Have emergency shelter available because if you follow my advice you will definitely be calling Tyrone.

lololol

**Howard Roark** · 2009-09-23 00:14

Originally Posted by Kuya

As i see it, i've always been somewhat selfish and never liked having things imposed on me, but i also always had an affinity for comunal things. I just did not want to have it assumed upon me that a two person relationship is the only thing i can and should do (it should be obvious by now that i hate determenism). So the idea that a monogamous relationship which should end in marriage was natural and inevitable always rubbed me the wrong way. So i felt that i should be able to decide what the rules of a relationship are. Not to mention that i felt that i needed to have different things from different people instead of having one person who is supposed to satisfy so many different things (this is a pretty modern way of thinking, no? Lots of diversity and the need to do lots of things at once to remain interested).

I don't know, sometimes i think i should get a gf or a bf because it would be easier, but that only makes me angrier because i know that i don't really want it and am just feeling preassured into it.

seriously speaking, shouldn't you ultimately have a bf and a gf? you guys could all be like 3s company or whatever, hell, maybe they like each other too

my good friend is bi and she married a woman, and she hasn't had a good dicking in.. years? I mean how the hell does she do that. I've asked and she says she's fine with it but I just don't buy it

**Mizango** · 2009-09-23 00:16

Originally Posted by Howard Roark

people say that's high school shit, but when you take all that away.. isn't that a bit boring?

Hell no, well not for me anyway. My idea of love isn't listening to nagging and having a chronic migraine.

I mean I see what you're trying to say and that is the inner playa in you talking. You can blow unicorns and sunshine off of her ass all day long but there is something you are missing deep down

Maybe yours is just too domesticated, but with that said be careful what you ask for. There are plenty of trifling hoes out here that will gladly walk over you and cheat when you're at work or being Mr. Too damn good for her.

Maybe you have a sub side of you and you miss that adrenaline rush. Have sex in public or something, it works.

**_chuchu** · 2009-09-23 00:16

Originally Posted by Howard Roark

seriously speaking, shouldn't you ultimately have a bf and a gf? you guys could all be like 3s company or whatever, hell, maybe they like each other too

my good friend is bi and she married a woman, and she hasn't had a good dicking in.. years? I mean how the hell does she do that. I've asked and she says she's fine with it but I just don't buy it

Correct. All women are bi for a reason

**Cheerios** · 2009-09-23 00:19

Originally Posted by Mizango

I mean I see what you're trying to say and that is the inner playa in you talking. You can blow unicorns and sunshine off of her ass all day long but there is something you are missing deep down

The only thing I'm missing deep down is that I wish she was better at video games, or played more of them.

She'll learn!

**_chuchu** · 2009-09-23 00:19

Originally Posted by Cheerios

The only thing I'm missing deep down is that I wish she was better at video games, or played more of them.

She'll learn!

Teach her how to play brawl

**Howard Roark** · 2009-09-23 00:19

Originally Posted by Mizango

Maybe you have a sub side of you and you miss that adrenaline rush. Have sex in public or something, it works.

I really need reminders like this now and then, cuz

we did all that

You name a place, you name something to do, we dun did it except for cream soda'ing all over each other.

I need to exorcise this playa some how or eternal sunshine myself.

keep in mind, people talk smack about that girl they break up with all the time but in order to break up with her, you know your ass went back to her all those times (for a reason)

**_chuchu** · 2009-09-23 00:19

takes alot of skill

**_chuchu** · 2009-09-23 00:20

to play brawl, that is

**Mizango** · 2009-09-23 00:21

Originally Posted by Howard Roark

my good friend is bi and she married a woman, and she hasn't had a good dicking in.. years? I mean how the hell does she do that. I've asked and she says she's fine with it but I just don't buy it

She is mentally and emotionally stimulated, nothing more. Just how we equate shit to sex and whiskey dicking a bitch down to romance that is how she defines it in her world. See that is how niggas get pussy whipped. Youre single, shes single and you go back to her place to beat it out of the frame. Shes there to have a good time but since we equate that with romance the next thing you know she is going flip mode on your because youre blowin her fucking phone up and emailing her non-stop. Again, see: Elites.

You can try with her but you're wasting your time barking up that tree. A bitch that has found mental and emotional nirvana is on a level that is unreachable. Sorry bro.

**Howard Roark** · 2009-09-23 00:21

Originally Posted by Cheerios

The only thing I'm missing deep down is that I wish she was better at video games, or played more of them.

She'll learn!

my woman hates hates HATES ffxi and mmo's due to a couple lame indiscretions of mine

I reeeeeeeally wish she were cool with me playing or oh god if she actually wanted to play unff unff unff

**Cheerios** · 2009-09-23 00:22

Originally Posted by Howard Roark

my woman hates hates HATES ffxi and mmo's due to a couple lame indiscretions of mine

I reeeeeeeally wish she were cool with me playing or oh god if she actually wanted to play unff unff unff

I met mine on an MMO, so I was fortunate enough for her to be tolerant about that genre.

She's bayad at fighting games, though.

**#686578** · 2009-09-23 00:23

Originally Posted by Howard Roark

Seriously how does a guy stay with just one woman?

By not being dependent on the other person and having fun. When you realize the difference between WANT and NEED you can just have fun rather than trying for a perfect relationship. My mom doesnt NEED my stepdad, but she wants to keep him around because she likes him and they have fun. Not like they go out all the time exciting life fun, just the kind of fun you can have with someone you like.

**Howard Roark** · 2009-09-23 00:23

Originally Posted by Mizango

She is mentally and emotionally stimulated, nothing more. Just how we equate shit to sex and whiskey dicking a bitch down to romance that is how she defines it in her world. See that is how niggas get pussy whipped. Youre single, shes single and you go back to her place to beat it out of the frame. Shes there to have a good time but since we equate that with romance the next thing you know she is going flip mode on your because youre blowin her fucking phone up and emailing her non-stop. Again, see: Elites.

You can try with her but you're wasting your time barking up that tree. A bitch that has found mental and emotional nirvana is on a level that is unreachable. Sorry bro.

oh.

nowhere did I mean to imply this girl wanted it from me, I just meant in general and I was kinda directing it at kuya's dilemma of a gf or a bf (choosing 1)

being bi's gotta be difficult especially if you're monogamous

**_chuchu** · 2009-09-23 00:23

Originally Posted by Howard Roark

my woman hates hates HATES ffxi and mmo's due to a couple lame indiscretions of mine

I reeeeeeeally wish she were cool with me playing or oh god if she actually wanted to play unff unff unff

The only games you need to play with her are tip drills. great sport to play to win in

**Kuya** · 2009-09-23 00:23

Originally Posted by Howard Roark

seriously speaking, shouldn't you ultimately have a bf and a gf? you guys could all be like 3s company or whatever, hell, maybe they like each other too

my good friend is bi and she married a woman, and she hasn't had a good dicking in.. years? I mean how the hell does she do that. I've asked and she says she's fine with it but I just don't buy it

People like different things. Some people feel they should have everything they want at every moment possible, and others can be complacent with what they have. You could try to explain her tastes in many different ways, but the point would always be that you have to explain her tastes as her tastes, not as a bi person. I think that should help you buy it.

But then again, i don't care for the concept of bisexuality.

**#686578** · 2009-09-23 00:24

But damn son, I know exactly how you feel sometimes. I would be straight up gay if women werent so god damn attractive.

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