Seriously how does a guy stay with just one woman?

[Mizango]

white wimmen

Dawg. I sed flawes not prefeckshun

[_chuchu]

Oh lawd. did she axe u 4 sum halp wit huh food stampz cuz nigga seh got kidz 2 feed

"my box aint workin, fix it."
What does it say?

"no signal"
change the channel ma'am

"i just paid my bill y mi die-rect tv not werkn?"
(she always late)

[Mizango]

"my box aint workin, fix it."
What does it say?

"no signal"
change the channel ma'am

"i just paid my bill y mi die-rect tv not werkn?"
(she always late)

ROFL.

[Mizango]

Alright fuck this, forcing sleep mode.

Peace niggas.

[_chuchu]

night http://www.bluegartr.com/forum/image.../ludacris9.png

[_chuchu]

playing hustlin' once more then I'm also sleeping

[archibaldcrane]

Seriously how does a guy find a woman he wants to stay with?

Every time I date a girl who seems cool, shit just goes fucking sour. And if it doesn't go sour, I end up moving 1500+ miles away before it does.

Girl before current one - we had a shitload in common, she's the only person as interested in race relations as I am that I've ever met, she was pretty and cool and we agreed on everything. And there was just no spark.

Current girl has spark, but we have fucking nothing in common. A PR girl from NYC who didn't go to college and is a singer/songwriter...yeah I dunno. It's working for now and she's crazy sexy but I know the shit is just going to blow up sooner than later. Makes me feel so helpless.

I have no idea how relationships last longer than 6 months or so.

[mootsfox]

Seriously how does a guy find a woman he wants to stay with?

Every time I date a girl who seems cool, shit just goes fucking sour. And if it doesn't go sour, I end up moving 1500+ miles away before it does.

Girl before current one - we had a shitload in common, she's the only person as interested in race relations as I am that I've ever met, she was pretty and cool and we agreed on everything. And there was just no spark.

Current girl has spark, but we have fucking nothing in common. A PR girl from NYC who didn't go to college and is a singer/songwriter...yeah I dunno. It's working for now and she's crazy sexy but I know the shit is just going to blow up sooner than later. Makes me feel so helpless.

I have no idea how relationships last longer than 6 months or so.

You find someone you actually like...

[Kuya]

I have no idea how relationships last longer than 6 months or so.

They don't. You just salvage or move on.

[_chuchu]

They don't. You just salvage or move on.

because salvage never ends

[_chuchu]

PR women are on another fucking level of crazy

[archibaldcrane]

You find someone you actually like...

What does that even mean?

They don't. You just salvage or move on.

This is what I fear.

I always said, since I was like 13 and started thinking about shit like this, "The perfect relationship is where both people do exactly what they want, and what they want is to be with each other."

And I'm starting to think that doesn't exist - like, not even close. Maybe I should stop thinking with my 13-year old brain.

[archibaldcrane]

PR women are on another fucking level of crazy

She's different, but she doesn't even show a sliver of what I think of when I think "crazy PR woman".

Not that I know shit about PR women, until like 3 months ago the only PR person I "knew" was Kuya.

And as I type that I realize it's true.

[Howard Roark]

Maybe I should stop thinking with my 13-year old brain.

tell me how to do this

[archibaldcrane]

I beat myself up over not locking down a LTR, but maybe that's stupid. I like dating, I like exploring the inside of the world's vaginas - do I really need the certainty and stability of a life partner?

I mean, I want kids someday I think, and I'm approaching 30 rapidly, but do I really need to feel like I'm salvaging for the rest of my life? Being single or available isn't exactly torture over here.

[BRP]

Are we talking about Public relations or puerto rico

[Blarg]

I met the perfect chick the other day. We liked the same things could make jokes without worrying about hurting each others feelings, didn't feel like we had to call each other after hanging out, plus she has a great ass.

Turns out she's a dude

[archibaldcrane]

Are we talking about Public relations or puerto rico

Lol, like I would date a chick from Puerto Rico - they're crazy according to the internet.

[Kuya]

That's probably why i want to try a polyamorous relationship. At the realization that human relationships are extremely dynamic and volatile, and that you can't predict how long they last nor can a single person ever be perfect or enough to satisfy you; i want to see how it would be like to intimately care for multiple people. I want that communal feeling, because truth be told, monogamy feels lonely to me.

[Howard Roark]

this pre-30 crunch is driving me nuts sometimes

other times I don't mind, and having a plan for longterm feels good man, house, kids, you name it, I got a 2 year timeline to be on top of things; being part of a team gives you that security, that peace of mind


but then I start thinking cake-and-eat-it-too and I want it all -- unfortunately that would likely mean starting over




one thing I wish I could change would be appreciating what I did have, and prematurely throwing away a stand-up girl in favor of playing the market or really just "I don't feel like dealing with this" or otherwise not thinking it will work and giving up too soon

of course I'm trying to avoid doing that now obviously and I try to ride out these periods of doubt and overanalyzing; it's tiring