SRS POST

[Sera]

I LOVE CRANKY OLD LADY! okay so what I need to look for is a prisspot then, and she'll turn into cranky old lady cat. Kitty was already a cranky old lady when i got her so i had no idea what kind of kitten personality to look for.

[Olo401]

Memories comin' back now.. she was also quite the lap cat, tho I imagine that was part of the whole 'you're my human throne' thing.

[Rocl]

i apologize for the death of your cat

(seriously I don't get why after someone dies people walk up to you and say "I'm sorry" what are you apologizing for? did you kill my grandmother? no she just fucking died, thanks for thinking of me but wtf dude)

[Kiarax]

THEY FEEL SORRY FOR YOU DUMMIE

[Day]

idiort

[Ksandra]

i apologize for the death of your cat

(seriously I don't get why after someone dies people walk up to you and say "I'm sorry" what are you apologizing for? did you kill my grandmother? no she just fucking died, thanks for thinking of me but wtf dude)

I read once, that men take the phrase "I'm sorry" literally, as in you think you're at fault. whereas, women use it as a form of sympathy when there's really not much else that can be said.


So, congratulations, you're a man.

[zoobernut]

Our cat just went through a similar situation though we were able to catch it soon enough to save her. She isn't that old and my wife noticed her acting strange so we took her in and they found a massive stone in her bladder and she went in for surgery to have it removed and now she is ok. These kinds of stones are formed from certain compounds found in the food we feed our cats. The ironic part is my wife used to run a research lab that was doing experiments on a food additive for cat food that would prevent this from happening, too bad her project and lab got shut down when the company downsized.

Really sorry to hear about your cat.

[Rocl]

THEY FEEL SORRY FOR YOU DUMMIE

Then they should specify it more than walking up to me after the funeral and saying "I'm sorry" Sorry for what? That she's dead? I'm not, she was fucking old you know, and people die, I'm glad she's not alive anymore because the world sucks and she's a fat old polish woman. Sorry for my loss? What loss? I didn't lose a limb. I lost someone I cared about, sure, but how selfish do you have to be to cry over the fact someone died of old age. I mean really, they lived their life and went out fine, it's no big deal. It's like MAN IM SO UPSET THEY WERENT ALIVE LONGER TO BE WITH ME. Fuck that, now if it was like "I'm sorry for the loss of your younger brother" I'd be like OK yeah I can respect that he didn't live to the age of 3, so I can understand feeling sorry about the cool shit we never had because he never was, but to say I'm sorry for a bitch who's been around for 90 years and has done everything from bathed me to listened to me graduate high school, then goddamn man, so she won't get to see my graduate from somewhere else, but bonus points I won't have to explain to her why I'm marrying a man

[Ksandra]

you know, because it's always easy to come up with the right words in those situations....mostly people dunno what else to say but they feel sad and feel they should say something.

[Rocl]

It's rude as shit to assume you have any feeling of loss as much as the people who actually knew the person. Especially when the person you're apologizing about you didn't even know. I'm more ok with "Hey Alex, I heard your grandma died. Shit sucks" rather than "Hi.. Alex.. I just heard... about your grandmother... it's really sad.. I'm sorry..."

[Rocl]

to make up for my previous post:

Hey Sera, heard about your cat. Shit sucks, buck up.

[Day]

I read once, that men take the phrase "I'm sorry" literally, as in you think you're at fault. whereas, women use it as a form of sympathy when there's really not much else that can be said.


So, congratulations, you're a man.

Congratulations you're a generalizing, stereotyping biatch.

[Day]

shut the fuck up rocl don't be a retard, they just want you to know they care

[Cheerios]

"Hey Alex"

[Sera]

i think it's just meant to be an expression of sympathy. no one is trying to imply that they are as sad as you are or have suffered a loss like you have, i think they're just saying that they care about YOU and are sympathetic to the fact that YOU are sad. honestly in today's world where people are self centered pricks i am always happy when someone shows another person some empathy, most people are too busy being obsessed with themselves to care about whether or not another person might be feeling sad ("oh, your grandma died? well i got a 50" lcd hdtv today so i guess the day wasn't a total loss!") try not to over-analyze it and just accept it... it is hard to know what to say in a situation like that. you just have to kind of know what they mean.

[Sera]

shut the fuck up rocl don't be a retard, they just want you to know they care

this

[Ksandra]

Congratulations you're a generalizing, stereotyping biatch.

I was just saying what I read...and even you once asked me why would I say "I'm sorry" so

[Day]

i think it's just meant to be an expression of sympathy. no one is trying to imply that they are as sad as you are or have suffered a loss like you have, i think they're just saying that they care about YOU and are sympathetic to the fact that YOU are sad. honestly in today's world where people are self centered pricks i am always happy when someone shows another person some empathy, most people are too busy being obsessed with themselves to care about whether or not another person might be feeling sad ("oh, your grandma died? well i got a 50" lcd hdtv today so i guess the day wasn't a total loss!") try not to over-analyze it and just accept it... it is hard to know what to say in a situation like that. you just have to kind of know what they mean.

that's what I said in one sentence, god damn girls love to talk.

[Day]

I was just saying what I read...and even you once asked me why would I say "I'm sorry" so

listen up:

stfu


jay kay



j/k bout the j/k


<3


not really


ok maybe a lil bit.

[Sera]

that's what I said in one sentence, god damn girls love to talk.

i said it in a nicer way you tactless prick