Well the easiest way to look at it is are you trying to maximize your merits, your current gear, or your utility?I currently have 75 Sam, Mnk, Pup, Sch, and Blu.
Sam and mnk share a lot of gear with with war, bst and nin.
Blu has homam which if you had would also help pld, drk, drg, and thf (pup also shares some gear with thf and dnc)
Sch does share a lot of gear with the other mage jobs, though you expressed disinterest (though smn can be more up in your face).
You have melee, so meh to drk, drg, war
You don't like mages, so whm, blm, and rdm are out
Pld or nin could give you more a tanking range, though sam can tank tons of things as is.
Bst or smn could give you better soloing options as both can be up in front with the pet, and there is plenty of things they can solo (at least easier) than other jobs can't.
Thief is good if you could get armlets, but TH3 is also useful in general for certain things, and it isn't terribly hard to gear it decently.
Bard or corsair could give you support, which is helpful when you have tons of people that are just melee jobs only. Corsair would prolly be more fun from what it sounds like you like, and you can be a cheap bastard and still get it to 75 without spending tons on ammo.
Ranger would offer ranged damage, but unlike cor you're almost always shooting for TP, so it costs quite a bit of money. Plus if you don't have awesome gear and are trying to use gimp ammo, your damage will fail.
Dancer...is interesting I guess? You can solo some stuff like you were a ninja, you could haste samba merit parties, but I've never seen a dancer at a serious mob nor really heard of them doing anything useful on anything bigger than a 6 person party, though great for low manning triggers!
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As far as luisant vs Iron ram
Luisant gloves are 1str/dex 2atk/acc, legs are 1str/dex 1acc/atk
Iron ram would be glovs 3 acc, legs 2 dex, together another 1acc/atk
Luisant for both is total 4.5acc/atk, 2str/dex
Iron ram for both is 5.5acc, 2dex, 1atk
They are basically comparable, except luisant is still moderately expensive. Mixing and matching would be meh since both luisant pieces are better than the iron ram without the set bonus.
Also remember spiked finger gauntlets are lvl 50 and 12 atk and would beat both gloves.
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