I personally just melee tbh. You can solo mobs but it's difficult to prevent people from ganging up on your mob and essentially negating the 1~2k exp you'd have got if it had actually looked at you.
My dagger skill is under 200 though so if i capped it and got evisceration or mordant rime I could probably do much better for points than i currently do.
NMs don't seem to resist threnodies until the 5th time per song either so spam those on NMs if you can.
When fighting a NM wear dmg reduction and regen gear while singing paeons. Your purpose there is to soak up as much damage as possible for points since you wont hit the nm very hard and those nms deal out retarded damage so you want some other guy to be tanking em anyway.
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