To be perfectly honest, I don't mind if anyone decides to take a negative stance on my LS, we do our events, and keep to our schedule; we even go so far as to follow the Dynamisbums.com calendar for Phoenix server (which surprisingly, 90% of LS's on our server follow) that Haze and Volume said "Screw you guys." to and have been running around zone-jacking dynamis zones for each other just to piss each other off, as well as other LS's they just don't care for very much.
I'm just organizing my oppinions and experiences with these guys, giving it a voice, and letting the "outside world" of other servers try to understand what me, my linkshell, and my friends have to put up with on a daily basis; since pulling facts out of the Haze vs. Volume e-peen wagging contest is as easy as giving a crocodile a root canal.
Actually,
I told everyone "Don't party with Haze or Volume." Mainly because we just don't care much for you or most of your members, due to past conflicts with them, and the responce I got from my linkshell was largely in agreement.... infact it was unanimous. And, for having no issues with my linkshell, I've got some amusing screenshots of not-so-nice things you've personally said about myself, my linkshell, and my friends here. So as far as "grudges," yeah. They're there; anything short of an apology to myself and my members won't make that go away.
You guys seem to be living in a fantasy world where you think people like you. Sorry, this isn't the case for most.
You can complain about my officer's all you want, but when most of their arguments for "grudges" come from things like... us camping Aspi, not saying anything to you guys, and you (specificly.) and your LS, along with Volume just start laying into us in say/shout, and into each other in say/shout, which is rather annoying. We play to have fun and to camp HNM when we can, not to sit around and pretend we're e-thugs. Sorry, we won't play that game. If that means us not even partying with you guys, then maybe you guys should re-think your actions before you start to complain about the behavior of my officers.
My LS has a strict set of rules when we camp HNM, we opperate on a strike system. Some things are more serious than others; one of the main rules we have is no trash-talk at HNM camps; and no negative interaction with any other shells. We treat everyone else with the respect we expect to recieve in return, and odds are, if myself or my officers have snapped off at you, you've done something serious enough to deserve it, and we're letting you know how much we dissaprove of your immaturity.
Perfect example of what I was talking about above. Need a drool cup? I know reading is difficult for you, and grammar is near impossible.
http://img56.imageshack.us/img56/7817/dhalmelsaliva.jpg
Summary in easy language for you: Volume + Haze fight = embarrassing for other LS on server to everyone on other server who read on BG. Phoenix server </3 Haze + Volume. Go away, and we give you a cookie.
Or for the more literate: We don't like your cheating, account buying, RMT wanna-be, trash-talking, e-thugging shells on our server. Knock it off and gtfo of Phoenix, or go legit, and knock off the trash talking, cheating, botting, account buying, gil buying, currency via RMT'ing, and all the other "retart"ed'ism (I love that word Chopchop) that is your linkshells.