Sex problem (serious and humiliating question)

[Ratatapa]

Ok so this is a bit humiliating and everything but here we go.

Each time i have sex with my GF i cannot get myself to come, i sense it coming but it always seems to be "stuck" at the end and i cannot finish it.

I have to manually finish it after or she does with handjob.


What could be the problem? I do find her attractive and everything it's just i don't know.

Thank you if anyone could know what the problem is

[Pikarya]

In before the trolls, have you ever looked into health factors that could be contributing? Early stages of ED? Low blood pressure? Diabetes? Anything?

[Ratatapa]

Not sre what you mean by ED but i have no health problems.

All i know is that the first time we did it, i wasnt able to finish either and it gave me "blue balls" the next day which hurted alot

[Odesseiron]

Not that I am really contributing to this thread much, nor am I going to troll or ridicule, but you DO realize there are much better forums to ask this on than BG? Haven't you realized by now most of the people on BG are douchebags? Just search google for a sexual advice/problems forum.

[Pikarya]

Erectile dysfunction - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[Ratatapa]

in that case then no i dont have ED

[Rhinox]

Try thinking about guys when your about to blow your load.

[Kyo]

Fucking DP, lol. I was going to say try anal.

[Nystul]

it's mental. And the more you think about it the more difficult it will be to overcome. Do your best to distract yourself/try not to think about it.

[Weltall]

Jack off less. Also, why not just keep hitting it? It is a good thing, lol.

[Bregor]

Just tape this to the back of her head:

Spoiler: show

http://www.fansedge.com/Images/Produ...33-69798-F.jpg

[Lyn]

Relax.

[Meat]

it's entirely mental. It happened to me after i stopped seeing my gf as a dirty whore I'm banging and more as the potential mother of my children. Try having her initiate some dirtier shit, make her beg you to pop on her face or finger her ass

[bechyni]

Just try to relax and think about it less. The more you think about it the less likely you'll come. Your mind will wander and you'll lose it all together, just kick back and enjoy the ride

[Cream Soda]

Does she have Lupus?

[Eticket]

Relax.

This. It's more likely to be a mental issue than most other things. If all you're thinking about is having the orgasm, then you could be inadvertently be cockblocking yourself.

[Penthesilea]

Wasn't there another thread about this topic? The guy was a heavy drinker and what not, so go search for that thread and see if any suggestions in there help.

[Cantih]

Relax.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lyl5DlrsU90


In all seriousness though, it isn't really a problem unless you're trying to knock her up. Unless she's unwilling to finish you off.

[Sol-Blackguy]

If you're on any kind of regular medication check with your doctor for a full list of side effects. Had this problem a long ass time ago and found out it was from my allergy meds. Also, certain foods (mostly junk food) can affect your sex drive in negative ways.

If you're not on any meds, follow Residue's advice. Make sex more passionate, dirty, and freaky. Roleplay, costumes, whips, handcuffs, dirty talk, and even porno can help. If you're only doing it in the bedroom, be more spontaneous like throwing everything off the kitchen table and going at it.

[Ratatapa]

yeah like i said i donmt have any medications at all.

So i will try and relax a bit more and see how it goes

thx