Arrested for harassment?

[altwight]

This is the most retarded thing ever to compare. Comparing get fired to breaking up with someone? lol at best. If you get fired, you clean your stuff up and leave. In half the states across the country, they're at will states. Boss can fire you basically for anything without having to give a real reason or not. Also, unless you just broke up with the girl, the whole "asking your boss why you got canned" argument is null unless you wait until 6 months down the road to ask your boss why you got fired at 3am via text messages. An employer isn't going to call the cops on you if you ask ONE time the reason your being fired, and if they don't answer then oh well, you leave. You don't stay and argue with him or her.

A normal person knows better than to argue with their boss after being fired, don't look good on the ol' resume to see you got arrested after being fired for harassment of the boss. Now a days a potential employer can actually look up criminal records on most people on local area government websites, as it's usually on public record.

In the case with the boss and everything of course if you actually went as far as to text him every now and then it'd come off as really weird, however put yourself in my shoes. This chick was my best friend for 3 years. Of course I'd want to have a complete understanding as to why this is going down. Had she done that it would've been said and done.

Grats.

[Brill Weave]

I'm to the point where I find this thread annoying.

Everyone: You were harassing her.
You: NUH UH!

Getting over someone does not involve texting to find out why she is doing these mean hurtful things to you. You wanted her back so you tried to open lines of communication. This wasn't some ploy to get yourself some closure. You sat there and thought why did she do this, if I talk to her I can make her come back to me! She's obviously moved on past you, yet I can't say you've done the same despite your claims to the contrary.

My advice, straight up. Stop posting. Stop trying to defend this shit. Get over this bitch and leave her alone. Take your lumps that are coming to you and learn from them. You're twenty. Don't let some white trash cunt ruin your life before it's even started. That's what marriage is for.

[Seraph]

What this thread really needs are nightly AM updates letting us all know how sad you still are. Make sure to include smileys too.

[Jodwahh]

So why compare 2 two situations that even by you own admission totally different. You need to face up to the fact that what you where doing was kinda freaky. If one of my ex's, regardless of bff(!) status, started texting me in the middle of the night repeatedly and didn't stop then I'd probably call the cops to get rid of the crazy bitch too.

If this was the other way round then this entire thread would basicly be 14 pages of people saying bitches be crazy. Grats, you are both a bitch, and crazy.

[altwight]

I'm to the point where I find this thread annoying.

Everyone: You were harassing her.
You: NUH UH!

Getting over someone does not involve texting to find out why she is doing these mean hurtful things to you. You wanted her back so you tried to open lines of communication. This wasn't some ploy to get yourself some closure. You sat there and thought why did she do this, if I talk to her I can make her come back to me! She's obviously moved on past you, yet I can't say you've done the same despite your claims to the contrary.

My advice, straight up. Stop posting. Stop trying to defend this shit. Get over this bitch and leave her alone. Take your lumps that are coming to you and learn from them. You're twenty. Don't let some white trash cunt ruin your life before it's even started. That's what marriage is for.

It's sad that you say that cause that's what her crazy psycho mother would think. Despite the fact I told her countless times (3 or 4) to her face I didn't want to get with her. I'm actually dating a really cute girl at the moment.

[altwight]

What this thread really needs are nightly AM updates letting us all know how sad you still are. Make sure to include smileys too.

Check the times, most of my posts occur between 1am and 5am.

[Takie]

So does that make us your new ex-girlfriend & do we get to throw you in jail for harassing us at that hour?

[Seraph]

It's sad that you say that cause that's what her crazy psycho mother would think. Despite the fact I told her countless times (3 or 4) to her face I didn't want to get with her. I'm actually dating a really cute girl at the moment.

I'm starting to think the mother is far more intelligent and sane than you give her credit for. This is starting to turn into a "remembering only what I want to" event. Also, do you like fish sticks?

[altwight]

I'm starting to think the mother is far more intelligent and sane than you give her credit for. This is starting to turn into a "remembering only what I want to" event. Also, do you like fish sticks?

Explain how you think her mother is far more intelligent and sane than I think? Her own daughter has cried her eyes out infront of my family telling us how horrible of a parent and retarded her logic is. She was literally on medication for her behavior or something but one day she just up and stopped taking it and said "i don't need this anymore" Also, her own husband has said to my ex "if it wasn't for you and taylor I would have left your mother a long time ago"

Fish sticks are good only if they're crispy.

[Brill Weave]

Then why did you keep pressing to find out why she ended it? Why text her between three and five in the morning? Because you couldn't let it/her go. You're doing a fantastic job of attempting to convince yourself that her mother is the one that's crazy.

Here's the long and short of it. You're going to remain in trouble until the matter is settled. You're most likely going to have a restraining order against you. Hopefully you remember this shit when your new girl ends things for some unknown reason to you but reasons painfully obvious to everyone else.

Just with what you yourself have said I have no doubt in my mind that you are indeed an emo clingy guy. Did you call her as soon as you got home from work/school. Did you call her on your lunch breaks? Did you call her repeatedly on the weekends she couldn't hang out with you? Man up, take the punishment, move on.

Or you can keep attempting to defend your asinine moves here on BG. I'm hoping for the latter because at the very least, you are amusing.

[Pringles]

Grats.

I can read. The fact you used that as an example is retarded. The second part that you intended to quote doesn't mean anything at all, so not sure why you quoted it. The entire paragraph I quoted was you comparing your relationship to a job. The two aren't on any equal ground unless your boss is your ex.

Put myself in your shoes? This is why you best friends shouldn't date. Just because in movies and TV the shit works out doesn't mean it's going to work out in real life. I'd never date a best friend just for that reason, I wouldn't want to screw up a friendship over something that might not work out. And if I were you, I'd never text an ex at 3am every single night going all sad face on the girl. That would make me come off as creepy, and I'm not even going into that as stalkerish. It just looks dull and pathetic. I also know better than to argue with an ex's mother. It's called being a bigger man and walking away (or in that case stop responding to texts). You put up with her shit for 3 years? Good going buddy but news flash, you're not dating the girl anymore so you wouldn't have to put up with the mom's shit anymore. You can just ignore her and magically she completely disappears out of your life!

Also tip, you can't claim to being the one harassed because you had to wonder what happened. So in case you were still wondering here's most likely 99.99% of what happened on her side. New bf finds out you and her are still texting and talking to one another. New bf gets upset about it and told her he doesn't feel comfortable with her talking to you. Girl doesn't wanna start an argument with new bf so she said okay and cut of ties. In all cases this is most likely why she didn't respond to your texts.

*edit*
Hold up...you're dating another girl and your still texting this ex and saying things to her mom that basically insinuates "her new bf can't make her cum like i could". Wow why not instead of getting all emo at 3am and texting the ex, you text the new gf at 3am to talk?

[Brill Weave]

Her own daughter has cried her eyes out infront of my family telling us how horrible of a parent and retarded her logic is.

Oh my God. A teenage girl complaining about how unfair and evil her crazy mother is. You have got a ton of learning to do alt.

[altwight]

Then why did you keep pressing to find out why she ended it? Why text her between three and five in the morning? Because you couldn't let it/her go. You're doing a fantastic job of attempting to convince yourself that her mother is the one that's crazy.

Here's the long and short of it. You're going to remain in trouble until the matter is settled. You're most likely going to have a restraining order against you. Hopefully you remember this shit when your new girl ends things for some unknown reason to you but reasons painfully obvious to everyone else.

Just with what you yourself have said I have no doubt in my mind that you are indeed an emo clingy guy. Did you call her as soon as you got home from work/school. Did you call her on your lunch breaks? Did you call her repeatedly on the weekends she couldn't hang out with you? Man up, take the punishment, move on.

Or you can keep attempting to defend your asinine moves here on BG. I'm hoping for the latter because at the very least, you are amusing.

A girlfriend is far less to me than a close friend.

I'm actually not a clingy guy at all. I went with my current 'date' to meet her best friend who works at a tattoo place. The whole time I was their her friend's coworker was constantly talking about having sex with her. Clingy guy's would have raged, I found it funny as fuck.

As for the calling part my ex and I went through, she was the one calling too much. I'd be camping KA on FFXI and she'd be calling me out the ass.

[Seraph]

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[altwight]

Oh my God. A teenage girl complaining about how unfair and evil her crazy mother is. You have got a ton of learning to do alt.

You've nooooooooooo idea the things she's been through. It was far from a teenage drama queen. She had legitimate reason, otherwise she woulda got the boot a long time ago. My parents actually agreed to let her move in because they felt her mother was unstable.

[altwight]

I can read. The fact you used that as an example is retarded. The second part that you intended to quote doesn't mean anything at all, so not sure why you quoted it. The entire paragraph I quoted was you comparing your relationship to a job. The two aren't on any equal ground unless your boss is your ex.

Put myself in your shoes? This is why you best friends shouldn't date. Just because in movies and TV the shit works out doesn't mean it's going to work out in real life. I'd never date a best friend just for that reason, I wouldn't want to screw up a friendship over something that might not work out. And if I were you, I'd never text an ex at 3am every single night going all sad face on the girl. That would make me come off as creepy, and I'm not even going into that as stalkerish. It just looks dull and pathetic. I also know better than to argue with an ex's mother. It's called being a bigger man and walking away (or in that case stop responding to texts). You put up with her shit for 3 years? Good going buddy but news flash, you're not dating the girl anymore so you wouldn't have to put up with the mom's shit anymore. You can just ignore her and magically she completely disappears out of your life!

Also tip, you can't claim to being the one harassed because you had to wonder what happened. So in case you were still wondering here's most likely 99.99% of what happened on her side. New bf finds out you and her are still texting and talking to one another. New bf gets upset about it and told her he doesn't feel comfortable with her talking to you. Girl doesn't wanna start an argument with new bf so she said okay and cut of ties. In all cases this is most likely why she didn't respond to your texts.

*edit*
Hold up...you're dating another girl and your still texting this ex and saying things to her mom that basically insinuates "her new bf can't make her cum like i could". Wow why not instead of getting all emo at 3am and texting the ex, you text the new gf at 3am to talk?

We weren't best friends before we met, it developed into that.

I agree with your tip, though I find it retarded (chicks are stupid) of her to do that.

@ your edit, my current gf has classes at 7 and actually sleeps.

[Brill Weave]

A girlfriend is far less to me than a close friend.

OMG alt, stop, please lol. If she means so much less why can't you just cut her loose? Why are you texting wanting to know why she left you?

Alt cut the shit, it's not selling here. You're an emo clingy kid who can't let it go. Period.

[altwight]

OMG alt, stop, please lol. If she means so much less why can't you just cut her loose? Why are you texting wanting to know why she left you?

Alt cut the shit, it's not selling here. You're an emo clingy kid who can't let it go. Period.

I wanted to know why she was being such a stupid bitch just because her new boyfriend is a fat jesus fuck.

I know why she left me, that was discussed back in May.

I'm not selling anything really, I'm not really a clingy guy. I used to be horribly bad back when I was 17. Though I'm not at all nowadays.

[Abandon]

Nigga, SHUT THE FUCK UP. First of all, you're a dumbass for texting this bitch. If you broke up with her and keep texting her, you obviously still want in that stank puss. You got arrested for being a clingy bitch. Yeah, I said it. And you come here asking for advice because you knowingly blew her phone up, and her mom, and got arrested? Here's some advice. Kill yourself. You won't have to pay court fees, no worries about civil suits, and judging from what I've skimmed through, nobody is gonna miss your punk ass. Don't do it a bitchy emo faggot way like cutting or something. Do it right, like that nigga on I-95. Traffic, meet face. Don't wear a heavy coat, as a coat may help soften the blow you'll get from getting smashed by a Prius doing 73. Wife beater, boxers, and flip flops. The true stalking trailer trash redneck way.

Holy shit.

[altwight]

Nigga, SHUT THE FUCK UP. First of all, you're a dumbass for texting this bitch. If you broke up with her and keep texting her, you obviously still want in that stank puss. You got arrested for being a clingy bitch. Yeah, I said it. And you come here asking for advice because you knowingly blew her phone up, and her mom, and got arrested? Here's some advice. Kill yourself. You won't have to pay court fees, no worries about civil suits, and judging from what I've skimmed through, nobody is gonna miss your punk ass. Don't do it a bitchy emo faggot way like cutting or something. Do it right, like that nigga on I-95. Traffic, meet face. Don't wear a heavy coat, as a coat may help soften the blow you'll get from getting smashed by a Prius doing 73. Wife beater, boxers, and flip flops. The true stalking trailer trash redneck way.

Holy shit.

Even I must appreciate this post. Win.