Arrested for harassment?

[Trelution]

Wewps. I seem to have missed that part where he said he printed the stauts updates out after the fact, but, most "wtf facebook" comments were talking about before he got arrested, at which point there was no reason for him to have removed her. I'm sure you can agree with me on that point. It's also possible that when printing them out, after the fact, that she just has her profile set so you can not be a friend and still see it.. but I doubt he removed her yet at that point. If you haven't already Alt, I'd remove her now.

I could buy that she was still on his Facebook before this. It's not my way, First thing I did when I broke up was somebody was get rid of all communication/rememberence of her. Serious relationships included. It really is the best thing to do. (Well, in my opinion.) But yeah, I could at least wrap my head around that. However, by his own "lolz its too hard to remove a friend from FB" comment, it seems like she still remains on his list. Which just goes to show he has learned zero from having his barefoot ass thrown in jail.

Honestly, I'm not seeing anything that really creeps me out lol. Texting at weird hours to try and get in contact with someone you care about, who supposevly cared about you, who randomly won't talk with you for no apparent reason, is perfectly reasonable to me. :3 Waiting at her house for her to come home so he can ask her wtf, would be mildly creepy imo, but still ok because they were good friends.

I could understand one or two random texts at that hour, but by his own admission this is the time he texted her the most for days on end with no response. Thats when the creepy flags start flying. And the creepzilla slimeball flags were busted out when he said he did all this while having a new girlfriend, and that he is pining after his ex while his new girlfriend is asleep.

We all make mistakes, I don't hide the fact that sometimes I'm hypocritical, accidentally or not.

Now if we could only beat this into Alt's skull we might could get back to Bang Fu.

Meh, for a situation like this there are multiple levels of moved on. He had moved on that she and him weren't going to be a couple anymore, that's obvious. They were still friends though, and to completely stop talking for no apparent reason... that's going to make it hard to move on. What he was doing was trying to move on, to get an answer, whether it be an actual reason or just a demand to stop; something that would have helped him a lot to move on. Instead of telling him the reason why, or asking him to stop, she went psycho and sent him to jail. That was probably enough for him to move on, lol.

You would hope so, but judging from some of his responses, and the fact it seems she is still on his FB, I get the feeling he has learned nothing from any of this.

[Pringles]

Altwight should post the text of all his 3am texts. Bet at least 75% come off as creepy. 3am texts are for drunk rides home, bootie calls or for those still playing FF, a hnm pop. Don't care how much of a friend you are with someone, texting at 3am is a no. Any normal functioning person goes to sleep by midnight to get optimal 8 hours before a normal work/school schedule.

But again... Pics of the ex girlfriend need to be posted. The thread has reached 20 pages, pics are due.

[Deadgye]

If someone text me when I'm asleep, I'm awake. I'd hate to have to mute my phone because some tard won't stop texting me. I keep that shit on incase something important, otherwise I know most my friends or family are smart enough not to text me for stupid shit while I'm sleeping.

Are you female? If my sister woke up to answer every text she got she'd never be able to sleep through the night.

Either way it's pretty clear she didn't want his texts, as I'm sure everyone here can read through all the bullshit as well as I can.

There was nothing that indicated that.

You would hope so, but judging from some of his responses, and the fact it seems she is still on his FB, I get the feeling he has learned nothing from any of this.

Meh, I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt here. Considering the situation the time frame that was given to him to get over her isn't really long at all.

[Day]

There was nothing that indicated that.

Except for the part where she went to the police, never responded, and now all his original posts are edited out, (which I also believe is bannable), sure you'd be right.

[Pringles]

Hahaha he edited and deleted the original posts. Worried you're going to have the courts or her somehow get ahold of this thread?

[Deadgye]

Except for the part where she went to the police, never responded, and now all his original posts are edited out, (which I also believe is bannable), sure you'd be right.

It's unbelievable how retarded you are. You can not use something after the fact to show previously indicated intent. At the time it was happening, there was zero indication she would have called the cops. There was zero reason for her to randomly stop talking to him.

Hahaha he edited and deleted the original posts. Worried you're going to have the courts or her somehow get ahold of this thread?

Considering it's still very possibly an open case, and that someone in this thread said he was going to text the ex the thread(joke or not), it's a legitimate worry. You don't say shit unless you know what you're doing when you've got an open case, so the very existence of this thread was a bad idea from the get go.

[Day]

It's unbelievable how retarded you are. You can not use something after the fact to show previously indicated intent. At the time it was happening, there was zero indication she would have called the cops. There was zero reason for her to randomly stop talking to him.

Except for the texts at 3am? Sure.

[Trelution]

Hahaha he edited and deleted the original posts. Worried you're going to have the courts or her somehow get ahold of this thread?

Oh damn he did, didn't he! Must have got nervous when his buddy hinted at telling the ex!

[Day]

He's still quoted all over the place though, which is hilarious.

[Trelution]

Oh man this is golden. He edited those posts a little over an hour after Awoir said that. Please for the love of all internets Awoir, please tell you really sent a link. You will be my personal internet hero.

[Pringles]

So what if it's an open case, guy is idiotic for making the post on the Internet in the first place. He can't take responsibility for his own actions. He's proven this over and over again in this thread. "wahhhh my ex doesn't like me and is ignoring me /wrists." everything he says about them is all her or her moms fault and he's trying to make himself be the one who is innocent of everything.

And after a few days of her not texting back, and her current bf saying to leave them alone, it was pretty evident she didn't want to talk with him anymore. No one needs a reason not to talk to someone. Plus as he put it before going and deleting his post, he was sending her texts at 3 am going all "sad face" on her. It would make any reasonably sane person be like "wow this guy is creepy" especially even if you saw it on facebook, telling a person "I know where you are" is beyond creppy. I don't care if you saw it on facebook (which by the way you can EASILY adjust it so your news feed doesn't list peoples updates on it) or not, that is fucking creepy as hell.

[Siniroth]

I don't know about you, but me and many other people, when we go to facebook, read the status messages that are displayed on our 'home wall'. Is he supposed to trick his mind into skipping over the ones by the ex? And to the retard who said it was his fault because he should have removed her; they were still good friends until she randomly stopped communicating with him, why the hell would he remove her?

Skipped everything else, this caught my eye, there's a little Hide button that works quite well

[westsider_x]

just say nooooo to drugs guys!

[Abandon]

OUT

[Null]

Shouldn't this guy just get banned already for deleting his op. Sure it would ruin the thread.

[Deadgye]

Except for the texts at 3am? Sure.

Bitch be tripping balls. Continue your attempt at trolling, seriously. It's pathetic how bad at it you are lol. Now, GodRaiden, that was an awesome troll.

it was pretty evident she didn't want to talk with him anymore.

If you make assumptions, sure. But making assumptions is stupid.

telling a person "I know where you are" is beyond creppy. I don't care if you saw it on facebook (which by the way you can EASILY adjust it so your news feed doesn't list peoples updates on it) or not, that is fucking creepy as hell.

You're right, it is creepy. Too bad it never happened.

Skipped everything else, this caught my eye, there's a little Hide button that works quite well

Before the arrest there was no reason for her to not be there, and after the arrest there's no reason for her to still be there. Hide button failure.

[Jodwahh]

Even if the op isn't creepy, he's still a fucking pussy for deleteing the op.

[Day]

Bitch be tripping balls. Continue your attempt at trolling, seriously. It's pathetic how bad at it you are lol. Now, GodRaiden, that was an awesome troll.

If you make assumptions, sure. But making assumptions is stupid.



You're right, it is creepy. Too bad it never happened.



Before the arrest there was no reason for her to not be there, and after the arrest there's no reason for her to still be there. Hide button failure.

Is alt your little butt buddy or what? Haven't you noticed you're the only one defending the creeper?

[Ziero]

Have you ever had a close friend you care about suddenly stop talking to you completely, for seemingly no reason?

I have, in fact I've even done it to others myself. And they've never texted me at 3am because that is not normal. There is absolutely, positively *nothing* normal at all, in any way shape or form, about sending emo, whining text messages to your ex girlfriend at all hours of the night. Especially if she doesn't respond for over two weeks. The things he was sending her weren't "where are you, are you ok" type messages, they were "My life sucks and I cry myself to sleep" type messages in his own words. This is all ignoring the fact that he actually has a new GF he could be pestering with his emo problems.

Considering the circumstances, and what other people were telling the OP he did wrong(the amount of things they said he did wrong that his posts show he didn't do are hilarious), I'm far from the ones who should be called idiots. There are things that the OP posted he did that were retarded, yeah, but that doesn't make it okay for half the "serious" replies to him to completely twist his words or flat out make things up.

The fact of the matter is that the masses at BG were right about his situation 6 months ago. He chose to ignore their advice and is now paying for it. And once again the masses at BG come in to tell him what he should do (own up, take it like a man and let the whole thing blow over) and instead he's whining and telling em they're wrong. News flash, they're not.

I don't know about you, but me and many other people, when we go to facebook, read the status messages that are displayed on our 'home wall'. Is he supposed to trick his mind into skipping over the ones by the ex? And to the retard who said it was his fault because he should have removed her; they were still good friends until she randomly stopped communicating with him, why the hell would he remove her?

Again, I don't know much about Facebook, but does it actually and constantly update you on ever minute and tiny change to a person's account? God that would annoy the crap outta me.

If you'd let some psycho bitch talk shit to you constantly and just sit there and take it, good for you. But when somebody talks shit to me constantly, eventually they're going to push a button and I'm going to say something that will make them shut the fuck up. As would hundreds of millions of other normal people.

Most normal people would just ignore the bitch, it's psychos who try and one up people that cause all the problems.

So now asking for something that you've lent to somebody in the past is harassing them out of the blue? Do you see why I've classified the large majority of you as idiots? I'll be sure to call the cops on my friend for harassing me when he comes to take back SoulCalibur IV that I borrowed from him. Hell, if a friend that I've lost contact with manages to find me again and ask for ffx back, I'll be sure to report him for harassment AND stalking.

Because he wasn't just using it as an excuse to constantly call her. To the point where the girl's new BF had to answer the phone for her. In addition to the "facebook stalking" and 3 am Texts, it's starting to look like a pretty clear pattern of harassment.

If it's important and she's related to the case, he could subpoena her medical record to show that she was on a certain medication that was supposed to stop her from being a psycho bitch and that she is currently not taking said medication.

90% of teenage girls and their boyfriends will claim that their mothers are crazy, psycho old bitches who just want to ruin their lives. Most of them are completely wrong. Unless there's a history of abuse in the household, nothing about the mother can be used to defend against the ex-Boyfriend being a creepy dick.

I seem to have missed the part where her father told her to stay away from her. If you happen to know where it is I'd like to see it again, I tried skimming through his posts to find it but I must have missed it I guess. As for the current BF, I personally thought he was talking solely about the game system, and it didn't even click that it could have been issued as a "stop trying to contact her" until it was quoted, bolded, and stated that that was intention(which we don't know if it was). If it was in fact what he was trying to say, there's plenty of reason for the misunderstanding.

Actually, her father is the biggest pussy ever. The day we broke up (when everything was still hectic) back in May, he called me and he tried really really really REALLY hard to be stern and serious. He says to me 'don't even think about messin with jessie i pray you don't' I really laugh'd in his face before he hung up.

And no, the BF wasn't solely talking about the game console. That seemed pretty clear, even from his version of their conversation. He was calling her a lot, she didn't want to talk to him and the boyfriend told him to f off. Clear as day to me, and any judge and jury who would hear it.

You're getting that type of reaction from him because the posts telling him what he's doing wrong or did wrong are mostly exagerated and flat out wrong. Telling him he's stalking her by texting her for a relatively small period of time trying to figure out why the hell she isn't answering for example. If you want to show a person where they were wrong, you don't make up bullshit, or say things that are using a horribly incorrect point of view.

For example: The whole text involving the "I know where you are" thing. Alt, knowing where she was because facebook is far from stalking. Texting her that was overkill though, and frankly a little bit creepy.

Except he had that attitude on the very first post, with comments like "In response I talk shit and I pwn her fucking face through and through. The following day, today I'm arrested". Which he conveniently edited out btw, don't want that damning evidence coming back to bite him in the ass (any chance a Mod could bring back that comic gold that started this crap fest?). The more information we get about this situation, the worse and worse this guy gets. Which is sad since the only information we can get is from this guy himself, so everything he says just screws him more and more. While any one thing may not be much, added together over a period of a few weeks and it's starts to become very clear he was being a creepy emo ex-bf and obviously harassing her.

Now the girl is no innocent herself, she's just your average, every day crazy teenage chick who thinks the world ends after high school. He was told to get out, to drop her like a bad habit and move on completely. Instead he stuck around, emo'd out to her, eventually got dumped then continued to emo out to her until he got his punk ass chucked in the slammer.

Have you ever seen what happens when a whiny emo guy gets dumped by the "love of his life", cause I have. It's not pretty. That guy will do and say anything and everything to try and get back with her, be annoying and creepy and just generally drive the girl and everyone she knows crazy. All the while, nothing he's done will be bad or wrong in his eyes, he's done nothing wrong and only wants to help! Except the girl wants nothing to do with him, has moved on to other people and is eventually left with the only option of just completely and totally ignoring the ex-bf in hopes that he'll take the hint.

In this case, he didn't take the hint.

[Pringles]

You're right, it is creepy. Too bad it never happened.

actually almost pretty sure he said something along those lines, it's why he made the argument that he saw where she was because he could read her facebook updates. Once again though, can't be 100% sure cause he deleted his posts, but if I'm wrong I'm wrong. I'm pretty sure he did tell her though he knew where she was, anyone able to back that?