Woman problems BG Help!

[Melchiah]

I don't think I can. Its hard enough to keep telling her no, but I don't think I'd be able to if I'm seeing her just to fuck. We were both virgins before we met. Also, if I can get over it, I know there's a few girls that will give it up for me with a little effort. Right now I still feel weird thinking about it.



I'm sure shes only cheated once, because when we were dating she was almost always with me. I didn't like it, but I knew where she was at all the time. She told me she used a condom when she did, and I believe her 'cause she only let me not use them afterward.

Hmmm after typing that out, maybe she didn't use a condom with the other guy and could be pregnant. This will be an interesting few months I guess. She is on BC, but just started a few weeks ago. I guess there's always I mean falcon puuuunch.

Short and Dirty Answer: Man up, take a tough pill, and stop being a whiny faggot. The only whiny faggots that girls are interested in are whiny faggot rockstars, and since you fit only the first two criteria, and not the third, girls will not give you partial credit for being a whiny faggot 2/3.

[Wakabo]

So after armanii's deal..

If chick wants to fool around and make you cum if you do it for her, and emotion free, go for it?

[raginbull]

Edit: posted in the wrong thread, sorry

[Drex]

I'd be very suspicious of the emotion-free part

[Mostwanted]

Wakabo, I guess you are probably not speaking from your heart, even though it seems like you are following BG's advices, you still care about this girl in some way, there is no such thing as "i didnt know it was her and i answered the phone" shit, especially nowadays the phone screens are as large as textbooks. you were probably curious what the ex has to say that other time and still care about her in some way... well just my opinion


Arrmani, it seems to me you still want the chick back, but you are bragging how this chick wants you back on BG, and god, asking her to send you pics every hour...... again, just my opinion


btw, if you live in US and use AT&T, they dont let you block any calls or texts unless you pay 5bucks lol

[kuronosan]

Who the fuck are you?

[Wakabo]

Who the fuck are you?

This.

Also when I sleep. I fucking sleep. I wake up and had work call so many times waking me up so I always answer right away.

[Mostwanted]

just my opinion, you dont have to like it


i think it's already been said, make yourself attractive to the girls, they will all come to you
good luck

[kuronosan]

No, I'm just interested in who you are and where you came from. You're either a long-time lurker who just happened to view this thread and go LOLIPOST or you've randomly selected this thread to post in.

[Mostwanted]

i was mainly browsing the FFXIV forum, and was bored at work and decided to check General Discussion
and this thread just caught me eye and i was like LOL gotta make an acct and post now

[Sylvrdragon]

Holy fucking shit @ this thread. Getting the girl is the part when you have to be smooth and manipulative, but when you want to keep one or lose one (and be happy about it), there is only one policy that works: Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Don't sugar coat it, and don't fucking hide it. If you want to know something, ask it straight up. If you're concerned about something, state it out front, and clearly. If you have something to say, then say it (Whether it be "I love you" or "I can't stand you") If the other can't handle that, then you don't want it anyway.

Don't even get me started on suicide threats...

[Ferien]

Holy fucking shit @ this thread. Getting the girl is the part when you have to be smooth and manipulative, but when you want to keep one or lose one (and be happy about it), there is only one policy that works: Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Don't sugar coat it, and don't fucking hide it. If you want to know something, ask it straight up. If you're concerned about something, state it out front, and clearly. If you have something to say, then say it (Whether it be "I love you" or "I can't stand you") If the other can't handle that, then you don't want it anyway.

Don't even get me started on suicide threats...

This. Just grow the fuck up and mean what you say and do. If she can't handle it, she's not worth your time, end of story.

[Wakabo]

Well if people want an update on my part, gotten way over the girl now and don't even talk or cross my mind.

There is another girl tho who has caught my attention and things been going much better ;3. The End.

[kuronosan]

Just make sure not to try too hard and the second she starts asking you to put herself before you all the time, find somebody else.

Real women are allowed to expect that, but not all of the time. Sometimes it needs to be about you too.

And, do yourself a favor and end the relationship if she doesn't want to have sex and you do (and aren't willing to wait for her) because then you're just keeping her from finding someone who will wait.

[Royal]

Your problem is caring too much. Don't give a shit and be an asshole to her and she would want you so bad.

[Nitsuki]

Your problem is caring too much. Don't give a shit and be an asshole to her and she would want you so bad.

I really hope you're trolling, cuz that's always the worst thing you can do. Only retarded girls that'll guarantee they cheat on you will want you to treat them like an ass.

Just simply don't care TOO much and anyone will be good either way.

Wakabo, grats on the possible new gf, just keep a cool head and learn from your mistakes, don't care way too much like the last one.

[Wakabo]

Just make sure not to try too hard and the second she starts asking you to put herself before you all the time, find somebody else.

Real women are allowed to expect that, but not all of the time. Sometimes it needs to be about you too.

And, do yourself a favor and end the relationship if she doesn't want to have sex and you do (and aren't willing to wait for her) because then you're just keeping her from finding someone who will wait.

No this is how it is going to be, not going to bend over backwards for everything for the girl. It will be more about me as well and not just all her shit.

[Royal]

Definitely not. Emotionally or compltely ignoring a girl is the best way to get them pumped. Its sad but true.

[kuronosan]

It's the best way to get them pumped if you just want to fuck random people and don't want an emotionally fulfilling relationship.

You can be an asshole, sure... you have to be sometimes... It's called showing women you have balls and that's what a woman wants - a man.

If you're too much of an asshole then they'll just cheat to get emotional fulfillment elsewhere. If you don't care, sure. Be that way. Or you can be the type of man a woman really wants - someone who's not afraid to disagree and be an asshole but who is also sensitive enough to pay attention when it counts.

[Wakabo]

Figure why make a new thread so I will ask another question. Long distance relationships, has it worked for anyone or there are benefits/risks?