Woman problems BG Help!

[Brill Weave]

Be up front. Tell her don't pull that shit again. When you ended the relationship your commitment ended. Period. I'm going to have to agree with your own assessment. You definitely sound like the jealous type. But that's neither here nor there. Your relationship ended so she could do her thing. That doesn't mean use ex-boyfriend to hide her activities.

[Guitarman]

text her saying 'we broke up, don't use me to cover up your shit ever again', then be done with it. DONT hang around to 'get a little more fun out of it'. Leave, now. You're just going to make things more complex on yourself and make it harder to walk away. I know it hurts, i know it sucks, but do it for your own good. Though, by your replies it sounds like you already have your mind made up and are gonna largely ignore the suprisingly solid advice BG is giving you. I just hope you stop yourself and do the right thing before it's too late and you end up looking desperate.

[shidobu]

whats up with not wanting to confess to your fam you "broke up" isnt it fucking normal to be single for periods of time? Since when was it a requirement to have a significant other?

what im trying to say is. dont be a fool. Tell that bitch she can lie to her own family but your not gonna do it for her. Hell she doesnt even have to lie to her family. Just say "im staying single for a while we are just friends" just like she tells all those guys shes prob already fucking.

I know your 18 it will sting for a minute. But man the fuck up <_<

[Hex]

Call the parents one night when you two are supposed to be together and ask for her. Tell her you forgot that was the night she was using you for a front.

[Melchiah]

First off, are you certain about who broke up with whom? You say you did the deed, but are you sure about that?

With that question out of the way, best advice you'll hear about this issue, and I'm summarizing what everyone else has told you:

Do not let puerile bitches use you. Period.

However, and this part is important: The best thing for you to do is to ignore her from now on. Don't text her, don't call her, don't give a shit. She's now a total stranger, not worth your consideration. The reason I say this is because if you get vindictive and rat her nefarious deeds out to her parents, then you're admitting to yourself, her, and the rest of the world that you let her bullshit fuck with you. If you just erase her out of your life, then you've won. You don't give a shit, and whatever she does is inconsequential to you and your life. Believe it or not, that's the best victory you can achieve. Bitches pull shit like this for the gratification of knowing that they can still yank your chain. That's the game, and the only way you win is by not playing.

[Brill Weave]

That's the game, and the only way you win is by not playing.

I think our job here is done.

[vagus]

doesn't matter, rofl. You're broken up, so she has no reason to be with you all night.

Correct. Just move on and if and when she does call in the future, bang her. Lol.

[archibaldcrane]

You broke up with her so she could explore the ins and outs of other men's penises, then you get mad that she's doing so?

Wake up dumbass, you gave her freedom, she's gonna use it. She's also gonna not wanna feel like a slut, so she'll, I dunno, kinda sorta try to be your "friend" (heavy emphasis on quotes) and keep you around to talk about boy problems/emergency dick/etc.

Whatever.

Go out with other girls. Don't date any of them for longer than 3 months. Don't try to restart anything with this one, even if she seems like she wants to. Do this for a few years and you should have things figured out well enough that you won't need advice from BG.

Best advice in this thread.

I stay friends with many of the girls I date, but it works because when those relationships end I'm done with them, and they weren't all that long anyway. This relationship is neither - you can't be friends with this girl. Sorry.

[Amiel]

She's 18...enough said <.<

[SephYuyX]

Key Logger.

[Knyghtmayre]

Call the parents one night when you two are supposed to be together and ask for her. Tell her you forgot that was the night she was using you for a front.

i'd go with this tbh, just to get the vindictiveness out of your system before you erase her from your life

[Wakabo]

Home now from all the christmas fun. I ended up letting her parents know today that we weren't dating. They were shocked and was upset that we weren't dating anymore, they said they liked me too much. Her loss? Her dad then asked me "So was she with you last night" and I never lied to the guy and he could kick my ass so hard, so I told him I we were not together last night and from there on I have no idea what will happen. She is clueless to the situation and now she and I wont be seeing each other :D Any young ladies want a taste of this Wakabo :3 please send all pm's via delivery box and don't forget your photo!

Ty bg for the advice, it helped

[sephir]

Stop trying to be the hero to everyone - all you will do is hurt yourself in the process. I know your trying to be the good guy, but you have to realise that you are young and although you may still have feelings for this person, they do not.

If you want to stay friends with her thats cool, just make sure she knows where the boundaries are. Its none of your business if shes out with another guy, and its just creepy if you start asking where and what she was doing.

edit: Upon seeing post shortly before mine: congrats you've come a long way young grasshopper

[Kyo]

There are plenty of ladies out there, dont get tied down to a crazy bitch too early.

[Colenzo]

You are 18 years old, get the fuck over it, your girlfriend was a whore, shes not your girlfriend anymore close your mouth and stop talking to the cunt. Drop all communication and be an asshole to her if she keeps trying to talk to you.

[Lordender]

Sweet justice is what I say. People need to learn the hard way or they will never learn at all if you just keep giving passes to people. Whether or not if its none of your business you still did the right thing in the long run because if something happens to her and the parents think she's out with you when it happens then you're fucked and no matter what you'll be the asshole.

Now just don't associate with her anymore, go your own seperate way and move on.

[wipers]

We need to see pictures of this girl to make sure you are doing the right thing.

[antihero]

post her tits or gtfo

[Elites]

Key Logger.

LOL

-Go find yourself a new mmo to be busy with before your jealousy grows, I wouldn't use her for pleasure while you can because that's going to put you in a deeper hole than you already are. Tell her parent's you weren't with her that night, don't have to reveal she was with someone else, because time will eventually bring out the truth. Fuck this bullshit i don't even feel like talking about nonsense since I came out of a horrible breakup few months back, there are more serious things to worry about and a girl always fucks it up.

[kuronosan]

Scroll down for tldr;
Ex-gf of 1 week goes out on the night with this guy after week we been dating. she been interested so i broke up with her so she can have freedom of other men instead of going behind my back. She tells her parents excuse she is with me and then doesn't come home until late at night. Ends up going to the guys house and watching videos with friends and him [suposibly] and then lied to me on phone about already being home when she wasnt.

Tell parents? Yes no maybe?

Post troll comments all you want but a real post will help too.

Okay, first, stop fucking stressing over this chick. She ain't worth it.

Second, if her parents call you and ask where she's at, tell them the truth. They will respect you for it. Don't lie for her just so that she can give some other guy some booty. Have more self respect for yourself.

Lastly, don't answer your phone for her anymore and don't text her or respond to her. Don't bother with anything to do with her. When she asks why, tell her straight up - "Look, you're lying to your parents and asking me to cover for you so you can be with someone else. I'm not comfortable being the third wheel so you're on your own."

And don't look back. Cut her loose, suck it up, and be a man.