Woman problems BG Help!

[Nitsuki]

The thing is I always try to treat my girl as special as possible to let her know I care for her and want to spend my time with her, and her alone. Regarding A, knew what they were doing as in..? didn't know how to raise me or what? B, I am probably too sensitive to others because I don't want to do the wrong thing and end up losing the person I care about.

I have a gym membership and need to lose the weight I gained because there was a time she told me she didn't like the way I looked, and so that is why I got the membership. I haven't gone for a while and I use to be good looking but not athletic. I am 19, 20 in march, so I probably have a chance of losing my weight in a good way pretty fast, but I don't know a thing about losing weight. I would work more if my job would give it to me too, but it is random on the hours.

For now I planned on heading to the gym more and losing the weight, find a few girls to hang out with, and see what happens with the girl I been posting about. See if she bothers to contact me or leaves me alone. Either way I won't give in, and if I do there better be a good fucking reason after everything that happen between us.



She claimed that it was the only way she could hang out with the guy that night. The guy is like 23 and she is 18, I don't see anything good coming out of it in the end to be honest.

I know exactly what you went through when i was around 18-21 years old. I've let women walk all over me until i realized that all that was a huge life lesson. If you put that mindset, you're gonna learn a lot and gain a huge confidence boost. The fact that you let her control you by saying she doesn't like the way you look so you decide to change yourself is an automatic loss no matter what.

Even now my current gf walks all over my back only when she wants to give me a badass massage (shit's awesome yo!).

You have to understand that to many, love is a huge mutual understanding of each others feelings. That bullshit of you saying to yourself that "she's coming back" WILL NOT HAPPEN EVER! Trust me, i've been through all that, you're not gonna win that battle, she'll never come back and you have to move on. As harsh as that sounds, it's the bottom line truth.

Just forget about her, EVERYTHING about her, erase her from your mind, erase her pics erase everything about her.

What you should do however, is don't worry about getting a girl at this very moment, just take it easy and enjoy being single, fuck bitches if you like cuz they only want that. BUT NEVER LET ANYONE WALK ALL OVER YOU EVER AGAIN!

[Wakabo]

At first with the girl I was dating, she said she didn't deserve me because I was more attractive/people wanted to be around me and hang out. My mistake I guess for letting my self spend more time with her and not with all the other people as well, because in the end I can say I have no friends to talk with [hence I speak my mind here.] and all I got really is family and co-workers.

Also I can now understand trying to forget her/delete everything... but what about the nudes ;; good fapping material..

[RandomJoe]

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It's great for confidence building and understand women better (along with yourself).

Seriously.. if you're willing to change everything about you because of some woman you got some fucked up priorities. Be the MAN, make decisions for yourself, not the other way around.

[kuronosan]

Thanks for that.

Any cures to this bitchman syndrome?

Also, been trying to look up proper foods to eat as well, but with how money is being tight, all the good food for you seems a waste while the junk food is cheaper and can last a bit longer. Also a few questions about the walking, does it have to be walking, and What is the distance around a track? There is a high school near where I live and can use the track to judge how much I walk/run.

Any other misc. stuff will help. I get blinded by women too easy because I try too hard to make them happy and know I care.

Yes, it's called experience. Eventually you start to not give a shit about what girls really want. Girls you really want to be with are going to be the ones that notice you off the bat and LOVE your sensitive side. Don't kid yourself, though, even girls that love your sensitive side have to be romanced and treated like whores once in a while.

You can walk like 20 minutes a day and get enough exercise to maintain a healthy weight. Do an hour a day of cardio and you'll do enough to keep your heart burning fat. Do regular strength exercises every day and you'll get lean. Buy a podometer if you have to.

Your problem is that you're young and have such a strong desire to please females you forget that you also have to please yourself. My girlfriend tells me constantly not to forget about myself, even though my main focus is her.

The main protip here is that if you have to try and show a girl how much you care, she doesn't know and probably won't care enough this early in the game to want to know.

If you really want a harsh opinion, every time you threw that condom on and she backed out at the last second, you should have just stuck it in and see what she said. If she said she didn't want it, then you could have backed out and been done with it. If she said nothing, you fuck her until you finish and let her make the next move.

She clearly wants a more aggressive guy, and it's something you're not. Don't *TRY* to be a more aggressive guy. Go find yourself a girl that helps you get there.

[Milks]

Wow, I'm honestly surprised no one mentioned my Gonzo ex-girlfriend.

Dude, speaking from experience, don't change yourself for a girl. You'll never be happy that way. You gotta find a girl that likes you for you, not what image or front you can put on for her. If she doesn't like the way you are, time to move on. I had a wacko girlfriend at one time who demanded that I not look at any female friends on Myspace, not speak to any girls at school, etc.,

Hell, she bitched at me for posting on these forums. I used to post every now and then in the Fuck or Duck thread and she found those. Next thing you know, I come home from work, and Net Nanny is installed on my god damned PC. Also, since I was so stupid, a combination of her bitchiness and my stupidity and ignorance made me look like a complete dick/retard/pussy. Don't be like me. lol

I learned from that shit, and now the girl I have is awesome. She'll watch me play Modern Warfare. She'll get me something to drink while I'm flashing Xboxes because I'm too lazy to get up. She even went and saw Ninja Assassin with me. In return, I do things that she wants to do, like watch Hannah Montana. She likes me for ME, not an image that I had to change to become.

also, sorry bg for being a tool and pussy bitch fag who wouldn't dump his girlfriend, even though that was two years ago. XD

[Zalius]

why would you fap to some beezy? did i miss the part where this chick was better looking than a pornstar?

[Milks]

There's just something about fapping to nudes of girlfriends...perhaps the fact that they are perceived as real beings as opposed to porn stars? I dunno. I like real lookings girls, not plastic bitches with extra oily tan skin with entirely too much makeup.

But of course, you can find porn with real looking girls, but I dunno. Just not the same. XD

[Xiona]

The only thing you have a right to be mad at is that she lied to you and used you to fuck another dude. I would personally show up at her parents house to drop off some of her stuff to her parents, mentioning that i was sorry it took me 2 weeks to get it to her but i havent been able to get ahold of her to see her.

this is how you passive-aggressively get dumped

[Zalius]

fapping to ex girlfriends is like super cling defcon 3

[Jodwahh]

Man I'd totally forgotten about Milks' ex-gf. Goddamn that shit was epic. Happy that you found yourself a sane ladyfriend chap

[Zalius]

Man I'd totally forgotten about Milks' ex-gf. Goddamn that shit was epic. Happy that you found yourself a sane ladyfriend chap

that the one that got all bitched up about FoD?

[Wakabo]

After all of the posts and such, it is really good to know that I am not the only one and there is actual advice. Thanks everyone again for the help and I will be working on getting life back together and move on from being a pussy :3

[Jodwahh]

that the one that got all bitched up about FoD?

And the winner of biggest understatement of 2009 is a last minute entry from Zalius!

[Zalius]

man there are like thousands of minutes to go

[Chen]

can not see the pics!

get one of the mother also!

[Wakabo]

can not see the pics!

get one of the mother also!

Quote my post and copy link and paste into URL? And no photos of mother but she is a milf. Ex never liked how I said I wanted to do her mom... >.>

[Rocl]

imagebeast is down

[Wakabo]

http://i46.tinypic.com/2431bmw.jpg

[Zalius]

im tired of looking at that beezy why doesnt she know how to smile

[Wakabo]

im tired of looking at that beezy why doesnt she know how to smile

Dunno. She didn't like taking photo's much or me looking at new ones she took.