This actually made it to four pages without any major drama interrupting. I'm impressed.
This actually made it to four pages without any major drama interrupting. I'm impressed.
bitch is having her cake and eating it too with you right now. it sounds like you're wising up to that though, and have a good idea on how to handle it (i.e. ignore her). this is good, keep it up. I'm sure part of her is staying in touch, calling you after bad dreams, etc. just because she cares. but I'm also certain that another, larger part of her is doing it because she wants to keep all the benefits of your relationship around without having to deal with the constraints of an actual relationship. she might not even be doing that consciously, but she's doing it nonetheless.
although I wonder how much she really cares if she's willing to use your relationship as a cover for screwing around with other guys. that's pretty low, especially the way she stayed out late and disrespected you.
From chick to dude in all honesty, you sir are a security blanket, nothing more nothing less. No offense to you or your former chick, but from those pics and your description I'm going with insecure slightly too old and chunky to feel O.K. with being a virgin. It makes her feel better about herself to know at least one swinging dick in the world might want her.
Ignore and sew some wild seed advice you already got is the best you're gonna get.
I'm kind of going to have call bullshit on that one. But not in an assholey kind of way. It's going to bother you a little bit and it's expected to. You're younger so this was probably your first long term relationship I'm betting. And if you're actually doing what you say you're doing I have to give you mad props on this. Most of us(yes even our darker skinned brethren) were a mess when we lost our first piece of regular ass. Oh my God the sky is falling etc. Then you look around at all the shit you've been missing. Everytime a relationship I was in ended I took at the minimum a year break(note I say relationships, not hooking up) to get back to doing all the shit I didn't do when I was in said relationship.All I know for a fact is she didn't sleep with the guy yet, but at this point, I don't care.
You sound like you're on the right path but don't expect it to be easy every time man. She's probably going to come crawling back at some point in time when this relationship fails. If that's the case have some fun with her, but don't jump back into a relationship. Why put yourself through something that didn't work once already?
All I know is you're doing a hell of a lot better than the last guy looking for advice was. Hai2u 3am texting and stalking charges!
Whoa wait a minute. She's a fucking virgin and you were with her two years? What the fuck? I don't even know what to say to that if that's true. Please tell me it's not true. If it's true I'm kicking you in the balls as hard as I can.
My balls hurt now![]()
You were doing it wrong then. Bitch didn't put out? It was time for her to go.
Don't get wrapped up over a girl that didn't even put out for you. Find someone that you hate. Fuck the shit out of her because you're going to suck and since you hate the bitch anyways you won't care what she thinks. Practice on hoodrats. Then reinsert yourself into the dating pool. And don't date a virgin ever again. Unless she's asian. That's acceptable.
Did everything up to putting out so I didn't end up with completely nothing.. but still would of liked to of done her.
Man, I've been preachin a lot lately. I need a mother fucking pulpit. And some asian virgins.
I'd join the church of Weave.
*edit* apparently wrong thread.
Carry on.
Too late. Damage done. Couch for you buddy.P.S. Missez I'm talkin about random bitches and not Liljingles.
I hope that bitch swallowed.
with her 2 years...didn't put out...http://img12.imageshack.us/img12/4545/1261402328861.jpg
http://www.eros-atlanta.com/map/destinations christ on a bike, find yourself a hooker