Pointers for a virgin?

[TripleX]

The "problem" is with my roommate. I say "problem" because this guy is basically a chick magnet: when we go out he just sits at the bar drinking and girls come to him. The point is he always turns them down. He's a pretty good looking guy, dresses really well, works out and takes pretty good care of himself overall but just to give you guys an example of what he's like this is what happened like two hours ago at a bar: a girl walks up to him and asks what's a dog fight (a shot they serve in this bar, I have no idea what's in it). It was clearly just an excuse to start chatting, and his answer was "I don't know, the night you were conceived?". Before you even ask, the girl was pretty attractive, on a scale from 1 to 10 I'd give her 7.5. When I ask why he acts like this he just laughs and changes the subject.

Try bring him a guy yet?

[Rocl]

that is a terrible rainbow fyi the guy said he knows "for sure" said person isn't gay

[Cyn]

ROYGBIV!

[Seraph]

that is a terrible rainbow fyi the guy said he knows "for sure" said person isn't gay

I'd suggest something more sinister, like he can't get it up so he doesn't want to disappoint them...

[Cyn]

Or a horribly disfiguring STD.

[TripleX]

that is a terrible rainbow fyi the guy said he knows "for sure" said person isn't gay

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And doesn't hurt trying!

[Kaliden]

I realize his problems probably run deeper, but I think a girl is just really what he needs.

I'd leave him alone. I know I hate it when people assume the answer to my problems is a relationship/girl/sex/whatever.

[raginbull]

There is something that kind of surprised me in this thread. A few pages back, someone posted that "women like fresh meat". Fresh meat meaning guys who are virgins. There are actually women out there who are both a) not virgins and b) would even look twice at a guy who is one?

[Shiroikage]

You should not be surprised at anything in this thread.

[Kilhart]

There is something that kind of surprised me in this thread. A few pages back, someone posted that "women like fresh meat". Fresh meat meaning guys who are virgins. There are actually women out there who are both a) not virgins and b) would even look twice at a guy who is one?

If they're surprised that you're a virgin, then yes, it can work to your advantage. If you're a total herb then they wouldn't want to fuck you either way.

[Aksannyi]

Personally, I'm not interested at all in training a new guy how to use his tool. I'd rather have someone with some experience. I guess maybe some women want to "program" a man, but fuck that shit. I don't have that kind of patience.

[Devolver]

I guess maybe some women want to "program" a man, but fuck that shit.

but fuck that shit.

Fuck that

Oh ho ho.

[Kilhart]

Personally, I'm not interested at all in training a new guy how to use his tool. I'd rather have someone with some experience. I guess maybe some women want to "program" a man, but fuck that shit. I don't have that kind of patience.

I'm going to just guess and say it has something to do with empowerment and the psychology behind being the first one to sleep with a guy, but I could be wrong. All I know is that certain girls definitely entertain those intentions.

[Galkaeater]

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Well here I am asking BG for help. I thought I'd post this here, even though it's not for a virgin but I didn't feel like making a whole new thread about it so sorry if I'm hijacking this one, but I don't think there's much more to be said about the OP's situation.

The "problem" is with my roommate. I say "problem" because this guy is basically a chick magnet: when we go out he just sits at the bar drinking and girls come to him. The point is he always turns them down. He's a pretty good looking guy, dresses really well, works out and takes pretty good care of himself overall but just to give you guys an example of what he's like this is what happened like two hours ago at a bar: a girl walks up to him and asks what's a dog fight (a shot they serve in this bar, I have no idea what's in it). It was clearly just an excuse to start chatting, and his answer was "I don't know, the night you were conceived?". Before you even ask, the girl was pretty attractive, on a scale from 1 to 10 I'd give her 7.5. When I ask why he acts like this he just laughs and changes the subject.

This guy is one of my best friends, but he's kind of a loner and doesn't have a lot of friends but he's really smart. I always thought the best thing to do was just to let him do his thing and not interfere, but it hasn't worked at all so far and it really kills me to see him like this. He's had a pretty tough life with a fucked up family situation etc., and I realize his problems probably run deeper, but I think a girl is just really what he needs.
I guess basically what I'm asking is what would you do in this situation (or what you've done if you have already been there).

nah your friends cool
he doesn't let pussy get in the way of wit

[SilverBreeze]

I'm going to just guess and say it has something to do with empowerment and the psychology behind being the first one to sleep with a guy, but I could be wrong. All I know is that certain girls definitely entertain those intentions.

Empowerment and Psychology behind watching a guy cum in 3 strokes cause it's his first time? Pass. I guess I can see how some people might enjoy that though, we all have our kinks.

[Galkaeater]

Empowerment and Psychology behind watching a guy cum in 3 strokes cause it's his first time? Pass. I guess I can see how some people might enjoy that though, we all have our kinks.

yeah spread that bullshit like its hard fact

[SilverBreeze]

Bitter virgins are bitter.

[Kilhart]

I'll have you know I lasted a good ten minutes my first time. <_<

[SilverBreeze]

I call bullshit!

[Galkaeater]

k

Most if not all my friends who have talked about our first times tell the same story that they had the opposite problem in that they struggled to acturrly climax. As with most guys you'll of probably been used to getting off (alot) with your hand before your first encounter which will stimulate you in an entirely different way to what you are used to making it hard to climax. Nerves can also effect your performance though it can go either way making you climax too soon or block you from climaxing at all.
You though probably got a guy(or guys) whos first time was over very quickly I would say unlucky but for some the guy not climaxing at all can still be quite bad for both aswell.
So yeah just because a guys a virgin doesn't mean hes gonna be a quick finisher he could last for for a decent time or not climax at all, experiance itsn't the only thing that effects endurance in sex.