what the fuck is this? help

[Ksandra]

Worst thing you can do right now is become clingy and obsessive

This is 100% truth, and usually what people end up doing.


Even if that's what you want to do, you have to have the will to not do this or you're pretty much fucked.

[Zalius]

some dudes are naturally clingy and emotional about relationships, other dudes arent. clingy and emotional are turnoff for girls because that isnt what they want men for, thats what they want women for, unless theyre kind of crazy and want someone that is clingy and obsessive

its ok to get emotionally attached to someone that youve known for a couple of years that has been with you through a lot that has proven themselves to know, care for and trust you, but just going for any bitch because they accepted you isnt going to get you anywhere but a fucked up relationship.

emoclings get laid the least, dgafs get laid the most. guys that are fall somewhere in the middle usually end up the happiest overall though.

its awesome once you know this shit. like seriously, if youre cleaned up and in shape, and you go somewhere with a lot of girls, you can honestly just ignore them and get more action than most of the try hards. it might seem shocking, but seriously, not giving a shit is apparently a huge turn on for women. idk either, just go with it

[Zalius]

ignore doesnt mean sit quietly in a corner btw. it means be involved, enjoy yourself and dont treat them any differently than anyone else. if a lot of people seem to like being around you, youre going to be attractive to women. if they get to know you and find out youre a crazy cling, then yeah youre pretty fucked either way

[Linliel]

ignore doesnt mean sit quietly in a corner btw. it means be involved, enjoy yourself and dont treat them any differently than anyone else.

THIS THIS THIS

[Kiarax]

NO AMERIKKKANS ALLOWED.

[Ksandra]

You can now blame Kiarax for all your problems.

[Ohaigaiz]

people still do long distance dating? get with the times lol

[Shiroikage]

Why are you Mosbying your girlfriend?

[Sup3rB4d]

I say you should nip this mother fucker in the bud. The one thing you don't want is to be stuck in this unsure I'm not sure if she likes me anymore stage. Send her this link and when she says "no" tell her fuck you and be out. If she says yes, tell her fuck you and be out.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAxUIjJrFKQ

[Ohaigaiz]

BACKUP ALL YOUR PERSONAL FILES ONLINE. SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBERS, CREDIT CARDS, TAX REPORTS! ALL SECURE AND UPLOADED TO THE WORLD WIDE WEB!

wait...

[Tajin]

people still do long distance dating? get with the times lol

I thought meeting people over the netz was the times, guess I didn't get the memo

[Ohaigaiz]

i guess you didn't notice people wearing tight white shirts and their jeans rolled up at the cuffs

[Ksandra]

i guess you didn't notice people wearing tight white shirts and their jeans rolled up at the cuffs

the 50s?

[Mizango]

I'd give you some good advice but the hounds would probably call me out for "crewing" or some shit. I personally would read what Kyo's saying.

I think this is the part where I mention about me not having 99 problems but a bitch aint one right?

[Ohaigaiz]

all of you are idiots even trying with this bigot. all he wants is one person to give him any reassurance of what he wants to do and he's going to do it. he's not going to follow what people on the internet told him because he doesn't want what's best. he's ignorant, and wants to get in starr's pants. he'll learn eventually and hopefully evolve and stop torturing himself because he doesn't want to be alone

thread oven

[Mertron]

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[Killgannon]

i've been there, done this

but i learned from it

ldr SUCKS. period. never let anyone tell you any different, it can be done but it SUCKS.

ive been the clingy type, and i learned after a couple times (actually just once but its a long story i wont go into here) and i learned that it sucks, because regardless of how much you want them to, its likely that they aren't going to reciprocate your feelings in the same way, and that is going on here (see the whole "i love you" thing you said) so you can drop it now completely, or back off for a bit, and give it time.

you are likely pushing too hard after something major happened (customs) and im going to go out on a limb here and say this is the first MAJOR thing thats happened to your relationship and both of you have no idea how to react.

your relationship was damaged by something out of your control (mostly), and you both need time to figure out what you want to do about it. constantly pushing on about it and getting upset is only going to make it negative

so as i stated, back off for a while, you arent "not caring" by doing this, you're being adaptable (people in general like this) and letting her find out what she wants to do

otherwise, just let it go, meeting people who are cool isnt hard... you can volunteer, go to random classes, go to parties with your close friends, etc. not everyone in the world is bent on being an asshole and fucking with you.

like i said, ive been there done that, you can AIM me if you want more insight on what i said, but im pretty set so i'll never say "obsessing is your best bet man, just keep pushing and she'll give in!" like you apparently want to hear

[Colenzo]

yo Knyght, you know my AIM, lets cyber about this it will be "o k"

[Knyghtmayre]

i've been there, done this

but i learned from it

ldr SUCKS. period. never let anyone tell you any different, it can be done but it SUCKS.

ive been the clingy type, and i learned after a couple times (actually just once but its a long story i wont go into here) and i learned that it sucks, because regardless of how much you want them to, its likely that they aren't going to reciprocate your feelings in the same way, and that is going on here (see the whole "i love you" thing you said) so you can drop it now completely, or back off for a bit, and give it time.

you are likely pushing too hard after something major happened (customs) and im going to go out on a limb here and say this is the first MAJOR thing thats happened to your relationship and both of you have no idea how to react.

your relationship was damaged by something out of your control (mostly), and you both need time to figure out what you want to do about it. constantly pushing on about it and getting upset is only going to make it negative

so as i stated, back off for a while, you arent "not caring" by doing this, you're being adaptable (people in general like this) and letting her find out what she wants to do

otherwise, just let it go, meeting people who are cool isnt hard... you can volunteer, go to random classes, go to parties with your close friends, etc. not everyone in the world is bent on being an asshole and fucking with you.

like i said, ive been there done that, you can AIM me if you want more insight on what i said, but im pretty set so i'll never say "obsessing is your best bet man, just keep pushing and she'll give in!" like you apparently want to hear

i don't want to hear that obssessing is right, i want to hear how someone like myself gets past their nature and just lets it be. i am starting a new job next week, so hopefully that will help me have something to think about besides her. i do appreciate all the responses though, whether it was what i wanted to hear or not. I think i am going to just step back a little and let it take its course. I obviously don't want to lose her, but if she doesn't want to be with me (in this way, anyway), then there's nothing i can do and i recognize that. Hopefully it gets better, since it can't get much worse than not knowing, imo at least.

and no cole, no.

[Colenzo]

you are the only taru melee that I will ever like