So I'm attempting to get a good video session going with my girl on AIM for the first time, and we're both running into the same problem. We can hear one another but we cannot see each other (both of us see a black screen in the video box). I'm using AIM of some sort (I don't know what edition because it just made me update as my archaic old 6.0 finally became unsupported) on a Sony VAIO with built in webcam, using Windows Vista as my OS if any of that helps. I attempted google for a little, and it seems to be a tricky issue - using Webcams on AIM - with lots of problems, but none specific to OSs or anything. If anyone's had this problem, I'd greatly appreciate any advice or suggestions.
Here's a screenshot I took of the issue for a little visual help:
http://tinypic.com/r/29mli4g/6
Below the Task Manager you can see the black video screen.
Ignore the archaic start bar, as that only appeared for whatever reason after an automatic Windows Update last night.
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