Hi man. As happens on pretty much a weekly basis we were talking about you the other day.
http://www.theorderls.com/belt/bgff/img/octnidhogg.jpg
Some of this is speculation - and it's just a sampling - but here's where you can find them and what I know of where they went.
Joft: you
Curtis, Avv: still in ffxi
Hellboy: xbox live, played wow a bit but not with us
Twentytwo: pro poker player in chicago, quit mmo's for now
Ganbachi: was part of the leadership of a controversial UAE LS after we left FF
Bikwin: plays WoW with BG for about half of every expansion, professional IT dude in texas
Lito: Starbucks (Twin rage quit the joint) - xbox live
Almaa: web dev, maybe plays ffxi some?
Deus: no idea
Quicklet: physics-obsessed in college and sparse ffxi/wow revisitations(?)
Blazer: active in ffxi for a while after we left, quit eventually I think. became a teacher.
Mitzki: doing the same thing he was doing before, just in different games
Ryoske: has some job doing something
Ondori: runs part of his pops' company and plays consoles
Imperatrix: hangs out with BG in WoW, married to some guy we never knew
Our generation's BG is an intangible energy that might rematerialize for FFXIV, but basically the good friends still keep close in touch. To hear the whole story you'd have to join our next MMO or game and build at least a week of playtime.