
Originally Posted by
Talus
How many times a day you eat does not matter. Cutting out carbs does not matter. Cutting out fat does not matter. You need a balanced diet.
The amount of calories you're eating in a day is pretty important.
Calories in > calories out (via basal metabolic rate, exercise/activities and stuff you eat) = you gain weight.
Calories in < calories out (" " ") = you lose weight.
It's pretty simple. What kind of oatmeal are you eating? If it's the instant kind, I can imagine you'd be pretty hungry soon after. Have you ever tried steel-cut oatmeal? Whenever I have it for breakfast I feel fuller for longer than when I used to eat the instant kind - I usually put some fresh strawberries or blueberries on it, and I'll eat some yogurt too.
Whether or not you want to eat a lot of small meals during the day, or three balanced bigger meals, it's up to you. Just burn more calories than you take in, and you'll lose weight, just think of this: eat whole grains, fresh fruit and vegetables, and lean meats, and don't eat to excess. It takes some getting used to when you start eating healthy, but your body will thank you for it - you'll have more energy, you'll sleep better, etc.