Is it really that hard to appreciate 2 close range stunners are better than one busy RDM/DRK? Any RDM/DRK who claim they can reliably stun Mega Scissors which has 1-2 second window either use some sort of cheat or do not know how to make full use of their RDM. It's almost impossible to stun MS if you are not targeting Krabkatoa when it redies MS.
Also if both tanks get hit by MS, NIN/DRK will be able to regain hate faster than MNK/NIN and there will be no hate issue since RDM/NIN can easily hold Krabkatoa. MNK/NIN will be having a hard time trying to build hate running after Krabkatoa, which will most likely go straight to your RDM/DRK and kill them. Check the post in this thread there are already reports of such situation.
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