Serious question

[Ryko]

Is being neutral toward someone in one venue assuming you're a raging asshole to them in another venue inherently twofaced?

[Seanr]

Sometimes, you're tired of drama, and don't feel like carrying it over from place to place. There is a time and a place for everything. neutral can be many things.

[Mertron]

do you benefit from being neutral to them in the one instance?

if so, probably.

[Qalbert]

not really, most of the time its a good thing. in my lol pen and paper RPG group, I am extremely pissed because one of the guys did something retarded causing my character to almost die, but outside of the game sessions we're cool.

[Zalius]

Sometimes, you're tired of drama, and don't feel like carrying it over from place to place. There is a time and a place for everything. neutral can be many things.

wisdom

[Ryko]

Nah it was left on a agree to disagree sort of thing. Ended before we started talking.

[Lyn]

it depends on who initiates contact.

Was him.

[Lyn]

I think I only said 'seems kinda two-faced'. He wasn't not nice, if that makes sense. I've never been asked "How are you?" by someone who dislikes me.

[Seanr]

I know a nigga I wanna stuff in a trunk and drive it off a bridge and he knows this, but in the lounge area, We won't carry on conversation other than maybe playing Spades or Bidwiz in the same room or as opponents.

[Ryko]

I think the nicest thing was probably me saying that I wouldnt call her a specific term because she has good reason to hate it. Aside from that, I just start with "hi"

[Shiroikage]

i actually hate all of you motherfucks

[Mertron]

saddlebags

[Ryko]

I'll admit to it being odd, but I wouldnt really call it deceitful or anything.

[Lyn]

Acting like you have a general interest in getting to know someone whilst saying you dislike them just seems two faced to me.

[Ryko]

Feel free to chime in. Just figured this was the easiest way to ask a bunch of people

[#686578]

Yes.

[Lyn]

I would think that if he actually stopped trying to get to know me in the middle of saying he dislikes me.

[Shiroikage]

i don't think there's anything inherently two-faced unless he misrepresented himself
but it's not like i can know the specifics without chatlogs
and it's not like i care enough to read the chatlogs

[Shiroikage]

not like there's anything wrong with getting to know someone for the sake of it

[Howard Roark]

getting to know someone is the consolation prize

originally, getting to know someone was for the sake of slaying them, or barring that interest, getting something from them