This is all very true. My problem with 11 right now is I could not decide what healing/ support job I wanted to do because so many are contriversial EXCEPT RDM AND BRD. -_- I wanted to play DNC originally, but so many people dislike it cause its not COOKIE CUTTER or w/e, so I went with WHM. OH BUT WAIT!! WHM gets out done by RDM for merit parties and other things, so how am I suppose to get merit points on my WHM if thats the only job I want to play.

So then I thought SCH. Same thing and it doesn't have Haste...so other downfall. Then I thought, I hate RDM. I hate it so much I will never play it because I feel forced to play it to be needed.
I like to play jobs based on their usefulness, scarcity, challenge, and uniqueness .(as with DNC, it healed and buffed in an interesting way). RDM turned me off a lot because everyone I know has RDM 75 or mains RDM. :\ I mean jesus christ! >< If 14 turns out like this, where one mage class/ support class rules over I will be so mad... I can't play the game how I want to because others are asshats and can't do things differently based on what is available. :\ I hope this mind set changes. Also, I hope SE thinks about how they make jobs and classes a little better. I don't want another DNC.

(I loved this job so much, but even my good friend told me he wouldn't take me in end game stuff..)
I'm now currently lvling BRD because it's needed at all levels and I don't have to worry about not getting a party. /pout (RDM is not an option for me and never will be. I REFUSE to play it.)
Oh well, here is to hopes for 14 to be a bit more "balanced".