Probably a stupid question...don't laugh at me

[Ragnell]

gdi people

[Shiroikage]

protip: you can't be friendzoned by girls if you don't meet girls

[Mertron]

There are only three ways to avoid the friend zone.

1. Girl is actually genuinely interested in you, perhaps more than you are in her, and this should then not be a problem (good luck with this scenario!)

2. You have to find a way to let her know, as soon as possible, that you are interested in her more than just casual conversation and hanging out. This should be done in under a weeks time, and if you fail, you saved yourself time (and money) anyway to find someone else to work on.

3. Alcohol.

In the scenario you listed about the coffee thing, odds are she agreed because she is at least somewhat interested in knowing you better, if things go well dont just sit there going hurr durr well was nice meeting you maybe we can come here again sometime hurr durr, ask her what shes doing later and see if she wants to go out, if she is busy offer another time over the weekend. If it is still no, smell ya later.

[Kuya]

Friend zone is one of the biggest things i do not like about women. Men have other stupid issues, but with women, the friend zone is the thing that has always made me the angriest.

[Woozie]

protip: you can't be friendzoned by girls if you don't meet girls

Tried that. Was a bit easier on my wallet though, but overall I still wasn't happy with the results.

[Obev]

Don't get too much sex either though. Some you win, some you lose.

[Blarg]

there is an equation to figure out when you have to pay or not, I thought you would know that

[Shiroikage]

Tried that. Was a bit easier on my wallet though, but overall I still wasn't happy with the results.

the result is that you suddenly become me

[Shiroikage]

the result is that you suddenly become me

which is definitely a win some-lose some situation

[Woozie]

2. You have to find a way to let her know, as soon as possible, that you are interested in her more than just casual conversation and hanging out. This should be done in under a weeks time, and if you fail, you saved yourself time (and money) anyway to find someone else to work on.

Seriously? Under a week? With most girls I'm not even sure if she's annoying or not in under a week. Though this one seems pretty cool. But there's this other girl I was talking to last month who seemed pretty cool at first but now I'm all like FOR THE LOVE OF GOD PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE.

I actually told her on one occasion I don't want to talk to her, but that doesn't seem to deter her at all whatsoever.

[Mertron]

Seriously? Under a week? With most girls I'm not even sure if she's annoying or not in under a week. Though this one seems pretty cool. But there's this other girl I was talking to last month who seemed pretty cool at first but now I'm all like FOR THE LOVE OF GOD PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE.

I actually told her on one occasion I don't want to talk to her, but that doesn't seem to deter her.

You use this time at said coffee house or whatever to chat her up and find out how annoying she may be. You can still ask her out and find out if she is annoying while dating. If you sit there and try to unravel all of lifes mysteries with her over the course of time, friend zone.

[Obev]

Friend zone is a bit of a myth. It is possible to fuck your way out of it.

[Mertron]

I will maybe allow two weeks, but seriously, there is a direct corellation between time spent bullshiting and not doing anything to likelihood of friendzone'd.

[Mertron]

Friend zone is a bit of a myth. It is possible to fuck your way out of it.

See: Scenario 3.

[Obev]

Alcohol helps, but what you're really going for is a good dose of dick.

[Akanei]

Never visited Friend Zone.

Does it at least have a Chick-Fil-A?

[Demosthenes]

So when I take a girl out to dinner, I'm expected to pay for her dinner. If I take her to the movies, I'm expected to pay for her ticket.

What we're just meeting for coffee? Am I expected to pay for her coffee?

If you invited her, then you pay. If she invited you, she pays. If it was mutual, pay for yours.

[Linliel]

If you invited her, then you pay. If she invited you, she pays. If it was mutual, pay for yours.

THIS THIS THIS; so important to get this right.

Also good luck Wooz!

[Woozie]

I'm not even sure who invited who tbh.

[Kuya]

Woozie can do maths, but can he see who invited who?