Probably a stupid question...don't laugh at me

[Norellicus]

If you want the girl you probably should be, yeah

[Colenzo]

If you want the girl you probably should be, yeah

no

[Tajin]

Nothing wrong with the girl paying if she invited you tbh

[Shiroikage]

fuck yeah

we're pros

[Lucavi]

I don't even like coffee. I wanted to go out to eat but neither of us have cars at the moment.

If you want to fuck her, pay. If you want to hang out, don't.

Simple.

[Charismatic]

Mertron pwned this topic with his wisdom.
I am seeing the man in a new light

[Linliel]

Nothing wrong with the girl paying if she invited you tbh

Damn right. If I invite someone on a date I will pay for them, or at least offer to go halves if they get all chiv-tastic on me.

[Blarg]

Damn right. If I invite someone on a date I will pay for them, or at least offer to go halves if they get all chiv-tastic on me.

what if you invite them and they start to order the most expensive food and tons of drinks

[Qalbert]

excuse yourself to the restroom and escape via the window

[Conrad]

what if you invite them and they start to order the most expensive food and tons of drinks

I've bought dinner for friends who have joked about doing this, but none of them ever followed through on it. I think I would dine and ditch them if they ever did.

Otherwise it's generally never even a question that everyone pays their share.

[Ikith]

Coffee? Really?

I made this mistake once. Take her to a bar Woozie get your dick wet.

[quannum]

mertron putting in work.

it doesn't matter who pays for coffee, don't make it a big deal either way.

to restate the week or 2 weeks thing: you have 3 dates to fuck her. to avoid the friend zone, you need to show sexual interest .. the kids call it "flirting"

don't stay in the coffee place, go out, take a walk. you want to be close to her and having a table in your way is a pain.

don't wait to kiss her till the end of the date, do it at the high point.

get her back to your place, not necessarily on the first date, because you want to show her your pet turtle, a funny youtube clip, your golden astrolabe, whatever. you can bring it up w/o suggesting on the first date.

[Klaatu]

I'm pretty sure I asked her to dinner. But we're having coffee instead, so it must have been her.

Sounds like she deflected dinner date with a coffee instead. Either she's not sure she's interested in you, yet or she is completely sure and wants to just be friends.

[Blarg]

Does asking her to go back to your place so you can look through your photo album of your ex girlfriends work well?

[Klaatu]

No but baby pictures work wonders I heard lol

[Mertron]

pictures of my cock always work

Spoiler: show

i get the definition of always confused with never sometimes

[Kaliden]

This thread was very insightful. You guys are pretty cool.

[Woozie]

For the record, neither of us drink and neither of us plan to have sex before marriage.

[Woozie]

Also, going back to my place isn't an option right now because neither of us have a car at the moment and we'll be pretty far from my place.

Going to her place isn't a good option because she lives on campus at a Christian college and they have super strict rules I don't want to deal with.

[Woozie]

Yes, we are very boring people.