As in, you, a male, sleeping with another male. Do you consider that doing so is unmasculine? For example, to some, wearing tight pants is unmanly, wearing makeup is unmanly, or even shaving is unmanly. So do you consider that sleeping with another man is unmanly in the same sense as the examples i pointed out? You can even mention whether you consider sleeping with another woman to be manly, although i assume that by definition it is. I'm going to post a poll and put two scenarios, being the catcher and being the pitcher.
edit: in order to explain: pitcher means being the insertee in penetrative sex, and catcher means being the one who receives in the relationship.
edit 2: Option 5 and 6 are self explanatory, but if you don't think that both positions are umanly or that they are both manly, then you pick which one you think is the exception. For example, if you don't think both are unmanly, but just one position, then you pick the position which you think is unmanly. In that sense, option 1 and option 4 are probably the same opinion, but pick whichever you want to emphasize.
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