Manhood problems..

**Senoska** · 2010-05-23 22:12

So, long story short I've ended up in a few sexual situations with someone I care about a lot. This has probably come about 4-5 times.

My problem is this: I'm perfectly fine before stuff goes down. Foreplay, etc. But soon as shit is about to get real my dick decides it doesn't want to play along anymore. This has happened every time and its quickly turning into a vicious cycle where I don't want to do anything sexually with her anymore because its just going to come down to being limp-dick'd when shit gets real.

I've tried everything I can think of short of going to my doctor but this feels like more of a mental block than a physical one. People don't seem to really talk about this in person and its something people are kind of ashamed of but I can't change the way my body is deciding to work.

Anyone ever had a problem like this (And would care to own up to it) and would be able to tell me how they got over it?

In b4 pedo jokes, etc. Serious question here.

**Zouri** · 2010-05-23 22:14

hypertension

**Pirian** · 2010-05-23 22:15

Have you gotten her to completely shave off any body hair except for her eyebrows/hair and compress her breast?

Oh god damn it you did the nb4

ok ok, yeah man it's probably just psychological, as you've already assumed. Get her to use her mouth. No really, it's hard to stay soft with a vacuum on that shit

**Senoska** · 2010-05-23 22:17

Yeah. None of it worked.

**Hank** · 2010-05-23 22:18

Stop masturbating for a month. Your dick needs to reset itself.

**Zouri** · 2010-05-23 22:18

do you drink lots of caffiene? take pills with pseudophedrine? weight loss pills? anything that would cause a dialation of the blood vessels?

**Tyche** · 2010-05-23 22:18

You can't Ib4 in the OP, that's not fair.

Anyway, happened to a friend during his first encounter. A smoking hot 26 year old with a boob job took him to the back seat of a car after she bought us beer (we were ~15). He couldn't get it up. He told us, and we've never let him live it down. We call him limp26. He will take that name to his grave.

TLDR: Don't tell your friends

also: it's probably for the better, as it's hard to get your name off the sexual predator list.

**AidenCarby** · 2010-05-23 22:19

Could be mental, but you want to make sure it's nothing physical. I'd say visit your doctor and have a chat with him/her and maybe talk about viagra? That or maybe you had a bad sexual experience you haven't shaken off yet, I'm not asking you to spill your guts to the public. A simple PM would do, but I'd say hit the doctor, and maybe undergo a prostate exam. Good luck

**Zouri** · 2010-05-23 22:21

The same sort of thing happened to my husband once after he ate some cold medicine. I am pretty sure the same thing could be caused by a number of factors more than just mental.

I dont understand why guys would make fun of each other over something personal like that..... really I think they more try to make fun of each other because of their own "shortcomings" .

**Tyche** · 2010-05-23 22:21

This your first piece of ass? Had this problem in the past?

**Seanr** · 2010-05-23 22:21

or maybe you're just not really into the bitch. it happens. sometimes you get a hard on because thats perfectly normal body response but when it comes down to it, you really don't wanna fuck a person. don't force it, it happens sometimes

**Sythe** · 2010-05-23 22:22

Def sounds mental. Try to narrow down what it is that could be turning you off. Bad teeth, weird hands etc and once you've figured it out tell her to change it NOW! or try to look past it.

**MarkM.** · 2010-05-23 22:24

Hank was right, quit whacking it for a while. It's probably mental, if not, hi2u viagra internet websites.

**Beckwin** · 2010-05-23 22:25

have her dress up like a dude. see if that works.

**Terrestrialrage** · 2010-05-23 22:26

Hank mentioned some posts up about frequent masturbation. If you do masturbate frequently, your body becomes accustomed to that method and you temporarily lose the ability to become aroused without your perfect ideal image in front of you. If you masturbate alot, need to stop for a week, possibly longer and let yourself "reset".

**Senoska** · 2010-05-23 22:27

Originally Posted by Zouri

do you drink lots of caffiene? take pills with pseudophedrine? weight loss pills? anything that would cause a dialation of the blood vessels?

I don't drink caffeine, nothing with pseudophedrine, I'm skinny enough, etc. I'm in good health, no smoking, only drink like a few times a year, etc.

Anyway, happened to a friend during his first encounter. A smoking hot 26 year old with a boob job took him to the back seat of a car after she bought us beer (we were ~15). He couldn't get it up. He told us, and we've never let him live it down. We call him limp26. He will take that name to his grave.

This girl is a model. She's way out of my league. Seriously...

or maybe you're just not really into the bitch. it happens. sometimes you get a hard on because thats perfectly normal body response but when it comes down to it, you really don't wanna fuck a person. don't force it, it happens sometimes

There is no way I could articulate how badly I want to hit this ass. I would cleave off my own leg for a chance at her, and now that I have that chance, I'm kinda blowing it.

**Senoska** · 2010-05-23 22:28

Originally Posted by Terrestrialrage

Hank mentioned some posts up about frequent masturbation. If you do masturbate frequently, your body becomes accustomed to that method and you temporarily lose the ability to become aroused without your perfect ideal image in front of you. If you masturbate alot, need to stop for a week, possibly longer and let yourself "reset".

Despite what I say on these boards, I'm kinda prude about sexual stuff and only fap if I remember too and only a few times a week at most. I don't think that's my problem. In my mind, this has to be an anxiety thing. I don't want to fuck up or disappoint her, so I get worried but then obviously I can't do anything because my dick decides to not work. I want to make the most of what I have.

**Fievel** · 2010-05-23 22:29

Drinking a lot of alcohol and also not working out can fuck with your dick.

Edit: Also energy drinks fuck with shit.

**Milkster** · 2010-05-23 22:29

Originally Posted by Senoska

This girl is a model. She's way out of my league. Seriously...

There is no way I could articulate how badly I want to hit this ass. I would cleave off my own leg for a chance at her, and now that I have that chance, I'm kinda blowing it.

Found your problems sir. You feel as if you don't deserve her so you're sabotaging yourself so you won't disappoint her, etc.

**Tyche** · 2010-05-23 22:30

Originally Posted by Milkster

Found your problems sir. You feel as if you don't deserve her so you're sabotaging yourself so you won't disappoint her, etc.

I was thinking this, but didn't know how to articulate it. You need to fuck a fat bitch, then transition into the hot girl.

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