Manhood problems..

[Pringles]

This girl is a model. She's way out of my league. Seriously...

As long as you think that, you're going to mentally block yourself and cause this kind of thing to happen. Try taking 1 shot or so before seeing her next to loosen yourself up, don't get drunk, just a bit buzzed to take the edge off and relax with.

[Pirian]

Well you already said you're nervous and if you're doubting yourself in the heat of the moment then of course things aren't going to work out. I've talked to girls about ED before (having the whole "why does it have to be the mans fault he can't get it up" discussion), and the basic consensus I got was that most of them had no idea about the pressures to preform, lol.

This might not be a good idea since it can sometimes cause impudence (although it's never been a problem for me) but try getting slightly tipsy. If your problem is thinking too much about it, and not an actually physiological problem, it could help bring down the stress of the situation. Of course, you're not going to want to get rip-roaring drunk, but a glass of wine or two could do it.

Also, if you're getting ready to do the deed and your junk just ain't wanting to cooperate, then stop thinking about it entirely and go down on her for a while and try and clear your mind and relax. If it truly is a stress issue then anything to take your mind off of your dick is probably going to help

have her dress up like a dude. see if that works.

quoting so it doesn't get lost, and so I'm not making a completely serious post

[Jefe]

Could be anything, psychological, physical, some weird disease, etc. Could also be that you can only function sexually during certain types of situations. For example, maybe you got used to beating off to cartoons or w/e. Hell, maybe you ain't rdy.

[Despain]

So, long story short I've ended up in a few sexual situations with someone I care about a lot. This has probably come about 4-5 times.

My problem is this: I'm perfectly fine before stuff goes down. Foreplay, etc. But soon as shit is about to get real my dick decides it doesn't want to play along anymore. This has happened every time and its quickly turning into a vicious cycle where I don't want to do anything sexually with her anymore because its just going to come down to being limp-dick'd when shit gets real.

I've tried everything I can think of short of going to my doctor but this feels like more of a mental block than a physical one. People don't seem to really talk about this in person and its something people are kind of ashamed of but I can't change the way my body is deciding to work.

Anyone ever had a problem like this (And would care to own up to it) and would be able to tell me how they got over it?

In b4 pedo jokes, etc. Serious question here.

You may be interested but your mind isn't because you probably are attracted to loli-porn (idk if you actually are, just shooting in the dark here).

I've heard of this shit a lot, especially with people in denial. Friend of mine confessed to me that he jacked to gay/tranny porn for a while, then when it came down to having sex with his girlfriend, his dick just wasn't into it, and it'd go limp. The problem was that he could only get off on either a. porn, or b. gay/transexuals.

I know it sounds dumb as fuck, but I have seen this shit happen D:

[Rhinox]

Pics needed of the 'model gf' to properly diagnose the problem.

Spoiler: show

As long as its legal

[Pirian]

This girl is a model. She's way out of my league. Seriously...

Well there's probably your problem, lol. Get that out of your mind because if she's with you then she's clearly not out of your league and you just don't have high enough self-esteem to regularly pull her caliber.

[Beckwin]

so are we gonna see pics of the girl or not?

[Senoska]

No thanks. Need to get past that phase.

[Tyche]

Son
I am disappoint.

[Klaatu]

Go see a doctor and stop jerking it to loli

[netz]

Anyone ever had a problem like this (And would care to own up to it) and would be able to tell me how they got over it?

G'luck. I can't even always stay hard jerkin' it.

[Kwijiboe]

Oh, Daecca...

[Gulkeeva]

You may be interested but your mind isn't because you probably are attracted to loli-porn (idk if you actually are, just shooting in the dark here).

I've heard of this shit a lot, especially with people in denial. Friend of mine confessed to me that he jacked to gay/tranny porn for a while, then when it came down to having sex with his girlfriend, his dick just wasn't into it, and it'd go limp. The problem was that he could only get off on either a. porn, or b. gay/transexuals.

I know it sounds dumb as fuck, but I have seen this shit happen D:

pretty much what he said, although having a dark room helps, if you can get your imagination to run on what you like during sex, and over time, if you can just do that without the lights off even better!

[Senoska]

Loli is a trolling thing. I think lolis are cute but it pretty much ends there. Its an effective way of pissing everyone off, though.

That being said, I'm fairly certain its not an orientation thing or me in denial. I'm the type of person where if I liked guys, I'd have no problem with it.

Frustrationnn :<

[Despain]

Then idk what the problem is.

How often do you masturbate?

[Senoska]

Despite what I say on these boards, I'm kinda prude about sexual stuff and only fap if I remember too and only a few times a week at most.

^

[Despain]

Then its probably hypertension like that crafter chick said.

[Moss]

I think it's a combination of poor self-esteem and performance anxiety. I think going into the next encounter with a buzz would help.

[Milkster]

Found your problems sir. You feel as if you don't deserve her so you're sabotaging yourself so you won't disappoint her, etc.

I was thinking this, but didn't know how to articulate it. You need to fuck a fat bitch, then transition into the hot girl.

How many times have you had sex before this? If they were only with girls you found mildly attractive then please read above quotes.

[Dareus]

You are screwing yourself up by thinking to much. This shit happened to me when I started getting serious with my girlfriend. I got so worried that I wouldn't be able to please her that I was fucking myself up. Just relax and stop thinking, if you are in that " It's time to start fucking" moment and you are not ready yet, start eating her out. 9/10 chicks will go crazy with some good oral, and it gives you plenty of time to get in the mood without being embarrassed.