Manhood problems..

[Demosthenes11]

performance anxiety, especially if it's your first.

dont flex your penis muscle and you will perform fine

[Lucavi]

Loli is a trolling thing. I think lolis are cute but it pretty much ends there. Its an effective way of pissing everyone off, though.

That being said, I'm fairly certain its not an orientation thing or me in denial. I'm the type of person where if I liked guys, I'd have no problem with it.

Frustrationnn :<

You say that, and yet here you are, with a fine-ass non-loli, and you can't get it up.

On a serious note, start working out a bit. The human body is really wierd. Self-confidence factors heavily into performance, especially with a man. Think of it like Glenn Quagmire. The guy is overflowing with confidence, even though he's actually not really attractive, but he still gets ass.

The reference is of a cartoon, but the shit works IRL. I know tons of guys that are average Joes, but because they have this... unearthly sense of self-bravado, not only to they bag the ladies, but they tear them up as well.

As others said, if there isn't anything subconscious that you either don't know about or are just lying to yourself about in terms of how she looks (hairstyle, a physical feature, ect.), then its probably your own confidence level. Building up your testosterone is one way to boost your confidence without you even having to do much.

Even if you're already in good shape in your opinion, work harder. I know it helped a ton for me when I started fucking my girl. The difference that even 10 pounds of muscle put on and a few burned off was incredible (despite still feeling like I have/had trouble spots on the body).

Also, close your eyes if you have to, and count out each thrust. Hell, if she's understanding enough, watch a little porn or read an H-manga or something to get it up, then have her take over.

Use it or lose it, bub.

[Meresgi]

Stop masturbating for a month. Your dick needs to reset itself.

This^ and it's psychological, you're hyping yourself up so much WANTING to stay hard that you arn't going to stay hard. Just take it easy, make have a few drinks before hand.

[Kajii]

just relax and hit it raw if you aren't already(jk... unless she on bc, then hit it raw but pull out)

really though, my buddy kinda had this prob back in highschool. shit was nuts, he'd be hard but go limp when he felt like he was about to nut.

advice i gave him was: instead of worrying what she'll think, how you'll do, etc. just think of how boss it'll be to actually bust a load due to a chick instead of your hand. eyes on the prize, not the journey, once you bust that first load you should be good to go and can start improving your sex game from there.

[Sylvrdragon]

This girl is a model. She's way out of my league. Seriously...

A wise man once said: "That woman was sexy...Out of your league? Son. Let women figure out why they won't screw you, don't do it for them."

[bechyni]

You gotta stop putting the pussy on a pedestal

[Edgie]

Pretty much thinking of something I remember hearing or seen somewhere " Need to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal", cant recall where that quote is from.

Anyway talk to the girl, be like doesnt matter what happens on the first bust cause your too exited or something, but after that its all good.

Also raw dawg or raincoat ?, cause I had this one chick who I was head over fucking heals for, we went at it for like 2 hours with a raincoat and I could not bust. Talk about been out of my league hot, but fucking latex ruins shit for me. Better than getting the hiv though.


Edit: LOL at above post.

[Jonny]

quit being a bitch.

[bechyni]

Pretty much thinking of something I remember hearing or seen somewhere " Need to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal", cant recall where that quote is from.

Edit: LOL at above post.

40 year old virgin

[antihero]

Beating off should have little to do with it, I beat off 10+ times a day for years before I got laid for the first time, and all it did was desensitize the shit out of my dugan, I fucked that broad nonstop for at least 45 minutes, she was like are you sure you're a virgin? cuz she was hot as shit and that was my main selling point. Chiming in with another friend story though, happened to a guy named Daniel that dated my girlfriend's roommate, said he was hard up until the actual act of penetration, then flaccidtown: population, him; but she said she wasn't a cunt about it and helped him relax then he nailed it like a champ the next time around, echoing bech...you just gotta stop putting the pussy on a pedestal

[Kouu]

Despite what I say on these boards, I'm kinda prude about sexual stuff and only fap if I remember too and only a few times a week at most. I don't think that's my problem. In my mind, this has to be an anxiety thing. I don't want to fuck up or disappoint her, so I get worried but then obviously I can't do anything because my dick decides to not work. I want to make the most of what I have.

Don't think about it at all. I was having some problems related in nature (but not exactly what you're experiencing). Thinking about it before/during (i.e. "God damnit I hope it doesn't happen again") just gives you anxiety and leads to a complex.

If you start to think about it, touch the tip of your tongue to the top of your mouth. It's a great way to disrupt your chain of thought.

[Kerberoz]

I'm completely amazed that no one has suggested buying viagra from Mexico yet.

[bechyni]

I'm completely amazed that no one has suggested buying viagra from Mexico yet.

He should just request the free samples for everyone in his town and go around picking them up from their houses to have at least a year supply

[Milkster]

He'll become the new Bob around town?

[bechyni]

Worked for me

[Edgie]

Id never suggest drugs to a young guy, who knows how it might effect him. Although getting some x for him and her Im not against.

[bechyni]

It will give him an erection that may or may not last longer than four hours but whoever said that was bad

[Edgie]

When I say who knows how it might affect him, I ment the side effects not the expected results.

[bechyni]

Sarcasm

[Carrilei]

Despain's avatar has been helping me, so you could always think of that.