Bulma really? Wouldn't you hear that American voice eventually and I know that has to be a mood killer for sure.
I've never seen the Dragon Ball shit, so the pic isn't tainted to me.
Whose voice would you prefer then Milkster
nah dawg, her giggle is awesome
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TM5Gb12OTG0
Leah does look kinda hot in some episodes of King of Queens.
ontopic: bitches love confidence, etc
Oh hot voices?
http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/famec...-picture-1.jpg
She does have a hawt voice.
Next time you're ready to go, just stick it in before you have enough time to think about it going soft.
I'm by no means an expert on this but from what you have said, it sounds precisely like you have an acute burst of anxiety before the get go. During foreplay you seem to relax and assume no expectation of yourself - but when it comes to the crunch you immediately panic and worry about how 'good enough' you might be for her.
It's much easier said than done, but you really do need to just go with the flow and let things happen as they do. She sounds patient enough to understand this and she can probably tell it's just anxiety, rather than some underlying medical problem.
Someone mentioned hypertension before - hypertension wouldn't cause this problem, but hypotension would.
These three things are what i felt stuck out (sorry for pun...) in the thread.
If you're only drinking several times a year, don't smoke, and clearly not banging anything then how do you let off steam?
If you go in with the mentality shes hotter than you, you put a lot of stress on yourself. This could cause you not to get a hard on because you maybe worried about banging her, blowing your load to quick, all the typical things guys worry about.
Lastly, don't worry about the situation because you will just rinse and repeat. When you say you're kinda blowing it, i would be healthier and less stress to ignore it and just do what comes instinctively.
If you're getting hard and then losing it...
Maybe try a cock ring?
Is this the same chick from a few months back? If so I can vouch, cause that was a bad bitch. I was going to say that it was probably something mental or it also could be a condom thing. Granted, I dont even remember how to wear those but when I used to my dick would get pissed and try to rebel until it was removed. In that instance I would be fine until I opened the wrapper, then it was all down hill from there.
Hit it raw dog and call it a night?
could be performance anxiety like others suggested.
get a prescription for viagra from doc, and keep one on you, see if knowing you have the option calms your nerves, or, in worst case, pop one and perform, see if you just have "first time with new girl" nerves of some sort?
(or maybe you've started developing some fetish?)
get viagra. whether you get it from a doctor or mexico, who gives a shit. it may not address the underlying issues, but it sure as hell does the trick. Then once you've done fine with the aid of viagra a few times, try again at doing it without
it's kind of the equivalent of a jump start i guess?
Edit: if you really, truly believe she's out of your league, that will fuck you up every time, i honestly can't say why, but i've had the same problem(viagra fixed it instantly). Drug unaided, I've always performed much better with average or below average looking chicks