Manhood problems..

[Yuri-G]

have you seen seno's cock? making it more veiny is the last thing that monster needs.

I wish I had advice to give, but I've never had this problem, and everyone else has pretty much covered the psychological aspect (which is clearly the problem here). all I can say is, don't worry about it. the more you worry the worse it's going to be. it might turn out you never end up fucking this girl, and from your description of her, that sucks. I won't lie. you'll regret it later if you can't get it up for her. but the world will keep on turning, your dick will keep on throbbing, and someday soon it'll be all in up some other bitch.

so stop worrying. either that will fix things, or it won't. and if it doesn't, the situation is pretty much hopeless, and not worth worrying about anyway.

[joft]

next thing you are going to tell me is that some homophobic republican is secretly gay!!!

srsly, if you aren't gay, leave off the pr0n for 1-2 weeks and try again. that shit affects your mind and 2 or 3 days away from it is probably just not long enough. in the past, the only time I have ever had psychological barriers/resistance has been if I had recently spent too much time looking at porn. and if I go a while without looking at porn, I start to feel like a goddamn animal.

porn is artificial super-stimulation. you get used to it, and the real thing starts to seem too imperfect, dirty, etc. this is especially true depending on the type of porn you're into, and I'm guessing you prefer shaven/waxed/bleached/air-brushed (simply because that's 99+% of all porn) which is exactly the type that will make you most averse to REAL sexual encounters

[Churchill]

I'd guess it's mental.

I've ran into the problem a couple of times, which may or may not have been influenced by stuff I was taking but who knows.

What I'd always try to do is find some way to excite myself that isn't necessarily involving my dick. For example, I had a chick scratch the fuck out of my arm and then slap me...so I got pissed as fuck and obviously my blood started flowing. Once you get it in you should be fine.

[trinironnie]

Ooo someone else with my problem. Yeah its all a mental thing, but i think its because I'm turned off easily. Like hairy girls, ugly teeth, flab...etc etc. I thought the main cause was anxiety but the doctor gave me two sets of pills which didn't help at all, but it gave me the high feeling which was awesome.

[wagon]

let her wear something exotic, like a school girl outfit. A friend of mine bought his gf a pair of jeans and cut a hole in the crotch area. She wears it around the house and he will have his way with her through the jeans whenever he wants. Just play out whatever fetishes that fancy you. If that doesn't work then you're either gay or not attracted to her.

[Plow]

Schoolgirl or not, skirts are just fucking awesome.

[Rhyis.]

You gotta stop putting the pussy on a pedestal

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[archibaldcrane]

Schoolgirl or not, skirts are just fucking awesome.

I'll cosign on this. Girls - wear skirts. Way more than you do.

On topic: No idea dude, I've had sex hundreds of times and never had a problem getting or staying hard aside from like twice when I was fucking smashed.

[trinironnie]

Wish it was that easy -__-

[Bikpik]

If she's coming back for more, after your little soldier went AWAL a couple of times, she wants your johnston, and remember that when you go to hit it next time.

If that doesn't work, get a cock ring, or better yet, get her off first with foreplay, so you don't have any pressure of getting her off with intercourse, and you can concentrate on yourself.

[Foras]

both of you in cosplay. make sure to be in character, and you better pick a real boss character so you can abandon being a bitch for 8 minutes. so that means you can't pick one of those bitch dudes from a harem animu who takes forever to seal the deal with any one of the fine hos living in his house.

you need to dress up like Guts from berserk and get your rape on.

wow, can't stop laughing