Not so drunk texts from last night...

[Milkster]

Well here is the short hand version of the story: I texted someone, who I pretty borderline love I guess, last night and the emotional flood gates broke, sounding like a neurotic crazy man in every single text and now I'm going to try and save face today. To help clarify this, the guy (shocker) who I met in 9th grade (he was in 10th) has always been in the back of mind sometimes the front and I've had really strong feelings for him since the day we met. SO I did what any normal person would do: I repressed those feelings, well that is until last night/morning and now I have no idea where I stand with this guy friendship or relationship-wise.

My question is: What do you do when/if you have ever found yourself in this situation be it drunk texting/dialing or just decided "What the hell, I may as well tell this person how I really feel," or if you're on the receiving end of this, how did or would you handle it.

[Titanss]

post the texts for me to make a proper judgment

[Chun Liroy]

post the texts for me to make a proper judgment

gay

[Cyn]

Is he actually out of the closet gay?

[tyven]

NOW WE'RE TALKING, THIS IS SOME FAGGOTRY I CAN GET BEHIND

did you tell him how you want to cum in his ear and then suck the cum out and spit it in his eye?

[Lucavi]

Inc. cross burnings on your front lawn.

Seriously though, go hard or go home. You already put yourself out there. Time to own up to it. Show em' your washboard abs.

[Milkster]

Is he actually out of the closet gay?

Bisexual, but yes and single.

[Titanss]

gay

drunk texts are always funny you out of proportion goofy looking black jizz stain on society

[Chun Liroy]

That hit a nerve huh.

[Milkster]

NOW WE'RE TALKING, THIS IS SOME FAGGOTRY I CAN GET BEHIND

did you tell him how you want to cum in his ear and then suck the cum out and spit it in his eye?

That's for after the second date Tyven.

[Julian]

Has he responded?

(also, pics of said guy)

[Titanss]

Someone pm mert and see if I can buy my way out of this bet, I can't stand this GD shit anymore

[Cyn]

Bisexual, but yes and single.

Just wait to see if he responds. Bisexualism is tricky though, a lot of bisexuals tend to date one sex and only sleep with another between relationships.

[Conrad]

Someone pm mert and see if I can buy my way out of this bet, I can't stand this GD shit anymore

rofl, I got you

[Julian]

Just wait to see if he responds. Bisexualism is tricky though, a lot of bisexuals tend to date one sex and only sleep with another between relationships.

Yeah, ish, the first part anyway. If he hasn't responded, just say something like "Hey, sorry, didn't mean to throw all that on top of you last night" or something, idk.

[Titanss]

rofl, I got you

my nigga.

[Yuri-G]

for the love of god don't push him further. give him time to digest it and decide how he wants to reply. the ball is in his court now, the more you try and pursue it, the worse things will get. he might not return it, and that will suck, but think of it this way: if he's not interested, is acting like a borderline-stalker going to change things?

I know you want to hear something back right away, and if you don't, you're going to want to try and overcompensate. don't. just let it happen. yeah it sucks to feel like things are in limbo, but that's the price you pay for going nuts with the texting. that's what happens when you put yourself out there, risk vs. reward etc.

I speak from experience here. trying to chill out as much as possible is your only real option imo. and it's a sucky option, feels like shit, but it's your best.

[Milkster]

He isn't big on texting anyway so no. He stopped responding about 4 texts before I actually admitted all the feelings I have/will have for him. He's been at work since 5:45am and doesn't get off for another 6 hours.

[Cephius]

How did he respond to the texts? Do you think he was sympathetic or did he give off a "jesus christ you're fucking crazy" vibe?

I ask because depending on that answer you should go about it two different ways. If he was receptive to your texts and maybe just a little wierded out, try to sit down with the guy and figure things out. Meet up for lunch or something and try to explain in a less emo fashion how you feel and take it from there.

If he thinks you're crazy I would just text him again and apologize for wierding him out, say you dont want to jeopardize the friendship, etc etc

edit: late but whatever, still applies

[Cyn]

Chill. If you were a chick texting me like that I'd already be put off.