Not so drunk texts from last night...

[Milkster]

How did he respond to the texts? Do you think he was sympathetic or did he give off a "jesus christ you're fucking crazy" vibe?

I ask because depending on that answer you should go about it two different ways. If he was receptive to your texts and maybe just a little wierded out, try to sit down with the guy and figure things out. Meet up for lunch or something and try to explain in a less emo fashion how you feel and take it from there.

If he thinks you're crazy I would just text him again and apologize for wierding him out, say you dont want to jeopardize the friendship, etc etc

edit: late but whatever, still applies

He was more confused than anything, which he stated a few times.

[Yuri-G]

If he thinks you're crazy I would just text him again and apologize for wierding him out, say you dont want to jeopardize the friendship, etc etc

if you're going to go this route, I still say chill and wait a bit.

I don't think I could possibly overemphasize how important it is to cool off on him a bit right now, at least until you hear something or a couple days have passed. I wish to god I hadn't learned that lesson the hard way. and I hope you don't have to.

[Deadgye]

did you tell him how you want to cum in his ear and then suck the cum out and spit it in his eye?

You're supposed to spread your cum on his forehead and whisper into his ear, "Simba!"

[Naggi]

Milkster, has he been quite close and affectionate to you previously, or very much treated you as just another friend? If it's the latter I do agree with those saying to just cool off and wait for a response. However, if you've always been quite close then I would have lots of butterflies in my stomach right now >.<;;

[Milkster]

Him>> Ya whatsup dude sorry its so late.
Me>> Oh nothing really just doing stuff that needs to be done.
Him>> What did you need to ask me?
Me>> Wasn't so much as ask as it was tell. Tell sounds harsh, more like discuss I guess. It probably would work out better in person. Sorry if I sound a tad neurotic.
Him>> What do you mean?
Me>> Well texting makes it impersonal and more of a face to face kind of guy so it does not work out too well conveying that across texts.
Him>> I'm kinda confused though like whats it about.
Me>> Ok i'll just say life but thats still vague and you'll still be confused because I'm probably (read: most definately) making this bigger than it should be because of said neurotic tendencies, which is going to make you angry since it's late and you have to work in like 4 hours. Oh look I've managed to ramble via texts. Ugh.
Him> Because of what?
Me>> Which makes me feel like a douche since you're such a cool guy and I'm not speaking in coherent sentences.
(He still is talking which is good....?)
Him>> What's the problem though man?
Me>> Root problem would be me.
Him>> I'm still confused, just tell me whats up.
I sit and stare at this then I decide to call him at which point I get:
Him>> Yo man I can't talk cause my bros sleeping in my room. You can let me know whatsup though.
Me>> Do you happen to remember when we met?
Me>>Just trying to find an easy point of reference.
Me>> Pretty much the core of my problem is if you're still conscious or care would be that...
Me>> Guessing not. Well guess I did that to myself, beating around the bush. Sorry to keep you up for nothing and waste your time.
Me (After 15 minutes)>> I like you and I really mean like. I have liked you since the first day I met you. If you're weirded out by that it's fine, I understand. I just wanted to say that and there it is, right there on your phone as a text message.

[Milkster]

Milkster, has he been quite close and affectionate to you previously, or very much treated you as just another friend? If it's the latter I do agree with those saying to just cool off and wait for a response. However, if you've always been quite close then I would have lots of butterflies in my stomach right now >.<;;

Well the first time we met, was in the bathroom with him pinning me to a wall saying, "I know I'll see you around. (winks and leaves)" Pretty much that intensity level and higher for the past 3 years. I've been too giggly and stupid around him to do anything besides that type of flirting.

[Cephius]

You were way too awkward, drawn out, and confusing. You need to clean that shit up ASAP.

[Naggi]

Well the first time we met, was in the bathroom with him pinning me to a wall saying, "I know I'll see you around. (winks and leaves)" Pretty much that intensity level and higher for the past 3 years. I've been too giggly and stupid around him to do anything besides that type of flirting.

I think my own stomach just jumped at that! Oh my god ;__; I really hope he hasn't done that to anyone else. Is he known to be a flirt or does he reserve such behaviour especially for you?

[Cyn]

You sounded like a psycho.

[Yuri-G]

haha you made it sound so bad... yeah the lead-up was pretty awful, but as a whole it wasn't so bad. especially if he's had you up against a wall before.

[Milkster]

I think my own stomach just jumped at that! Oh my god ;__; I really hope he hasn't done that to anyone else. Is he known to be a flirt or does he reserve such behaviour especially for you?

Lacrosse and hockey team members, but nothing quite like that whenever I'm around.

[Cephius]

Just try to be more casual next time. You took way too long to get to the point, and you made it seem like you had zero confidence. After that you could have told the guy that he won a million dollars and he still would have been put off about it. It's not a surprise that the message got lost in there.

Next time just tell yourself to relax, be casual, don't think so much about what to say. I know it's not that easy but... try it.

[Milkster]

You were way too awkward, drawn out, and confusing. You need to clean that shit up ASAP.

You sounded like a psycho.

I know. I'm usually so composed and smooth. Easy way to compare this would just to call him my Kryptonite.

haha you made it sound so bad... yeah the lead-up was pretty awful, but as a whole it wasn't so bad. especially if he's had you up against a wall before.

I'll see what happens later on today when i call. I'll just blame it on some drug or liquor...

[Yuri-G]

might not hurt to claim you were drunk, haha.

good luck. if you land him you'll be living the gay dream.

[Naggi]

Lacrosse and hockey team members, but nothing quite like that whenever I'm around.

Hmm.. well as Cephius and Cyn suggest - play it cool and perhaps blame something else for your nervousness. Don't stop flirting with him though xD A couple of my friends from uni went through a very similar phase for months before they got together - one guy was doing all the pining, and wondering if anything would come of it - and the other just took a while to realise what he was missing out on. So I'm crossing my fingers for you and hoping for the best~<3

[bechyni]

Milkster...only one word needs to be said here and that word is relax lol. You seemed a little to spastic so he might of just thought you were drunk. At this point you should just wait until he's off of work and hope that he texts you back with something. Good luck~

[Atreides]

at least you got it out in the open

better to look like an idiot than keep all that shit bottled up for many more months. He might say no, but harboring secret crushes and letting them wreak havoc on your emotional state are how people get fat.

[Milkster]

We're still facebook friends so its still all good, I hope.

[Cyn]

at least you got it out in the open

better to look like an idiot than keep all that shit bottled up for many more months. He might say no, but harboring secret crushes and letting them wreak havoc on your emotional state are how people get fat.

But bitches love confidence. Not shy semi psychotic rambling.

[Mistress Stowastiq]

for the love of god don't push him further. give him time to digest it and decide how he wants to reply. the ball is in his court now, the more you try and pursue it, the worse things will get. he might not return it, and that will suck, but think of it this way: if he's not interested, is acting like a borderline-stalker going to change things?

I know you want to hear something back right away, and if you don't, you're going to want to try and overcompensate. don't. just let it happen. yeah it sucks to feel like things are in limbo, but that's the price you pay for going nuts with the texting. that's what happens when you put yourself out there, risk vs. reward etc.

I speak from experience here. trying to chill out as much as possible is your only real option imo. and it's a sucky option, feels like shit, but it's your best.

^
I agree, wait it out. It is not like txts like those do not warrant a reply, especially if it is the first time you ever txted things like that to him. Since the messages are intimate, it is all the more reason for the reply making a statement. If he says nothing about it, you can assume he did not get the txts or does not find it important enough to bring up or question you about.

And I will leave this here while I whip out the popcorn to finish filtering this thread for more possible M2M content.

Edit: just noticed pics, he is beautiful. Especially his eyes, oh god you poor man you have my sympathies on this one.