Not so drunk texts from last night...

[Milkster]

But bitches love confidence. Not shy semi psychotic rambling.

I know but its just something about this guy I can't control, where I get all loopy, sweaty, tongue-tied and stupid. This has never occurred with any other person.

[Cyn]

And I will leave this here while I whip out the popcorn to finish filtering this thread for more possible M2M content.

M2M is what BG does best.

[Yuri-G]

M2M is what BG does best.

so true

[Cyn]

I know but its just something about this guy I can't control, where I get all loopy, sweaty, tongue-tied and stupid. This has never occurred with any other person.

I feel you dude, honestly. It's difficult to keep your cool when you have a crush. But sending texts after someone stops responding is a little creepy, especially after that string of sillyness. He sounded like he's at least comfortable with you, so you have hope. Just don't push the psycho shit any further, wait to see if he responds to you.

[Atreides]

well, my point was more that yeah he could have played it differently, but you can't really take it back now that you've said it so you might as well not let it bother you too much.

Personally I hate that knot-in-your-stomach, heart racing, dumbfounded feeling you get with unrequited love so even if the outcome is bad I find it's a lot more beneficial to my overall state of mind to take the risk and get it off my chest. I know I'd beat myself up a lot more if I let someone I liked slip away and fall for someone else without at least telling them how I feel, as well.

He may say no but at least you don't have to think about it constantly anymore. If he likes you, he's not going to turn you down just because you were a little awkward in your delivery.

[Cyn]

Personally I hate that knot-in-your-stomach, heart racing, dumbfounded feeling you get with unrequited love

That's the way I feel about you Atreides.

[Atreides]

i luv u 2

[Mistress Stowastiq]

I know but its just something about this guy I can't control, where I get all loopy, sweaty, tongue-tied and stupid. This has never occurred with any other person.

He sounded kind of concerned like you had bad news not romance news. Something he did not anticipate. It is not a good idea to come at him with this elaborate set of feelings developed over time and expect an answer out of him. I also think that this sort of thing should be said in person, not via text. I realize you are twitterpated but relax and allow him the freedom of response when he is ready. When you finally do discuss it, honesty, in my opinion, is better than saying it was drunken drivel.

[Cyn]

Mistress would have just tied him up and beat the truth into him.

[Dainslaif]

THIS IS SOME FAGGOTRY I CAN GET BEHIND

I see what you unintentionally did thar.

But to actually be constructive...

Just try to be more casual next time. You took way too long to get to the point, and you made it seem like you had zero confidence. After that you could have told the guy that he won a million dollars and he still would have been put off about it. It's not a surprise that the message got lost in there.

Next time just tell yourself to relax, be casual, don't think so much about what to say. I know it's not that easy but... try it.

This. I've had way more luck being direct and casual with women over being all coy and akward about it. Confidence is king.

Give him a couple days to digest it, and when you talk to him again do your best to just act normal. I'm currently in the middle of a "I need some time to figure shit out" phase with the girl I was dating. Waiting sucks, but it's for the best. :-/

[Ansems]

Just be very passive and patient, If he rejects you, keep being friends and later on he will give in.
Don't bring it up if he does not do it in the first 10-20mins the next time you chill with him.
btw he is cute, GL!

[Kumbai]

Could of been alot worse lol. Just wait and see what he says and take it from there.. You've said your bit, and atleast give him a while to take it in and say his :3 Nothing worse than forcing yourself onto someone when they need space. Don't wanna be suffocating.

Also. He's hot. Go Milky!

[Ansems]

Ugh don't call him, see if you can meet him in person cause you should see the reaction on his face so you can figure out what he really feels like.

[Julian]

Don't call him, just wait a day or two and see if he responds, before calling, cause I think you'll just make it worse.

Like others said, the ball is in his court now, give him time to respond.

I wouldn't really pull the drunk or whatever card unless things go bad..

[Ansems]

I wouldn't really pull the drunk or whatever card unless things go bad..

I knew I was missing something, yeah wait for it and if you see things go bad just say "What? lol I don't remember txting you.. I was drunk."

[Takedown3]

honestly cringed while reading the OP

dont know what to tell you bro

[MF Perm tha Fineass]

Well here is the short hand version of the story: I texted someone, who I pretty borderline love I guess, last night and the emotional flood gates broke, sounding like a neurotic crazy man in every single text and now I'm going to try and save face today. To help clarify this, the guy (shocker) who I met in 9th grade (he was in 10th) has always been in the back of mind sometimes the front and I've had really strong feelings for him since the day we met. SO I did what any normal person would do: I repressed those feelings, well that is until last night/morning and now I have no idea where I stand with this guy friendship or relationship-wise.

My question is: What do you do when/if you have ever found yourself in this situation be it drunk texting/dialing or just decided "What the hell, I may as well tell this person how I really feel," or if you're on the receiving end of this, how did or would you handle it.

go on a booze, sex, and cocaine binge then everyone is so focused on cleaning up the hot mess you left all parties involved and then some just see the texting as a missed cue for crazy

[Eliseos]

harboring secret crushes and letting them wreak havoc on your emotional state are how people get fat.

Are you calling me fat?

[Max™]

Don't call him, just wait a day or two and see if he responds, before calling, cause I think you'll just make it worse.

Like others said, the ball is in his court now, give him time to respond.

I wouldn't really pull the drunk or whatever card unless things go bad..

I read that as something involving "give him balls in his court", wow.


Also: who knew guys were so complicated, smack him in the forehead with your dick, then stick a valentine card to the pre-cum left behind.

[Day]

We're still facebook friends so its still all good, I hope.

I lol'd the hardest at this post.